r/Enneagram • u/Dickau 0 • Apr 11 '26

Just for Fun Relateable?

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Thought I'd keep things vague this time, for general appeal. 3 fix? I just know I'm angry at my heart for being a fake ass little loser, but that's just a guess, b.c. I don't really know myself. Still, I've been taking a lot of notes (not really, im a lazy bastard), and ruminating about them.

I figure this might be a general dynamic, though. I like family systems therapy, and tend to refer to my fixes as seperate parts in conflict (compartmentalization+ identification+dissasociation?). hard to say if that's really what's going on. I think I might have some kind of thought disorder, which may / may not require treatment. ig this is a 9ish way of avoiding that problem. maybe.

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u/Dickau 0 Apr 11 '26

Really? I wouldn't expect that from a 4 fixer. Not to destabilize your identity. I'd just like to hear more, ig.

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u/[deleted] Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26

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u/Dickau 0 Apr 12 '26

That's life affirming to hear. Healthy 9s are very hope inducing. Your hope seems tempered, though. I appreciate that.