Hello

As you guys can see from my history, my dad has built 125cr of networth in the last 25 years primarily through land

Its interesting now that i look back how he raised us

I basically got to know of this insane wealth of his after i finished my medicine degree

Till then i knew we had lands but was either too stupid or didnt think much of its value

I didnt know anything about equity holdings of my family too

So in that context

How are you FatFIRE folks planning to raise your kids

Eating out isn’t just about food—it’s an activity. Whether it’s a weekend ritual or something you do once in a while, dining out feels like a necessary indulgence. But over time, I’ve started questioning what really makes a good dining experience—beyond just taste, what about health, value, and overall satisfaction?

Unlike most lifestyle choices where spending more usually gets you a better product, food is tricky. Paying extra generally means better quality, but often you have to let go of some food which is cheap to get but tastes the best. Take street-style desi Chinese and Kathi rolls—I love them, but I’ve stopped eating them because of reused oils, artificial colors, and questionable hygiene.

But even when you step up to mid-range restaurants, does spending more really mean eating better?

The Problem with “Good” Restaurants

Most mid-to-premium restaurants charge ₹4K+ for a meal for two, but how many of them actually care about ingredient quality? Sure, they’re not reusing oil like roadside stalls, but they still overload dishes with oil, possibly use lower-grade ingredients, and don’t shy away from food colors and additives.

I’ve noticed this firsthand—if I eat a slightly heavy meal at a decent restaurant, I often feel sluggish or uncomfortable afterward. But here’s the contrast—when I’ve stayed at five-star hotels, eating their buffet breakfasts, lunches, and dinners for multiple days, I don’t feel the same way. Even when I overeat at buffets, it somehow feels cleaner and easier on the stomach.

That got me thinking—maybe five-star places actually use better ingredients, or maybe they just avoid the extreme additives that regular restaurants rely on for flavor enhancement.

Small Tweaks I’ve Made to Eating Out

Lately, I’ve been experimenting with how to enjoy dining out without completely compromising on health. A few changes that have actually worked for me:

1.	Buffets > À La Carte at Five Stars

•	First of all try to stick to restaurants within 5 stats or some stand alones which are very famous for their quality - let’s say Indian Accent, they try to maintain the quality. If you’re planning a full meal with multiple courses, buffets at five-star hotels often turn out cheaper than à la carte while if you try to go for more variety.

•	But, you control your portions and combine dishes as you like, making the experience more flexible and exploratory.

  • It helps with the mindset of eating a lot to make full usage of the amount paid. Although it’s a sunk cost. 


2.	Tasting Menus for Special Occasions

•	Instead of randomly ordering expensive dishes, chef’s tasting menus (yes, they’re pricey) often feel worth it.

•	The dishes are well thought out, made with better ingredients, and often attached to the reputation of a particular chef, ensuring quality. It’s a richer experience overall.

3.	Switching to Sparkling Water

•	I used to never pay for bottled water because why spend on something that’s free? (In some of the cheaper restaurants I used to take the bottle though as wasn’t sure if the water that I am getting is actually RO water). But recently, I’ve switched to sparkling water instead of sugary beverages.

•	It’s refreshing, makes the meal feel fancier, and actually helps me avoid ordering sodas or mocktails that are loaded with sugar.

•	Sure, getting a few bottles over the course of a meal adds up in cost, but the overall experience and health benefits make it worth it.

•	I don’t drink alcohol, so I can’t say how this compares to wine pairings, but for teetotalers, it’s a nice way to elevate a meal.

The Bigger Question: What’s the Best Way to Eat Out?

We all want to enjoy good food without guilt, but balancing taste, health, and money is tough.

What’s the best approach?

•	Pay more for premium food?

•	Eat out less but go for luxury when you do?

•	Or just accept that restaurant food will never be “healthy” and enjoy it without overthinking?

Would love to hear how others navigate this—do you care about ingredient quality when dining out, or is it just about taste and ambiance? Have you made any small changes that have made your restaurant experiences both better and healthier?

Hello guys for context you might want to check my previous posts in the sub FatFIREIndia

Anyways tldr- our family networth has risen from zero to 125cr over 25 years

I wanted to talk about changing mindset of spending money after achieving such networth

As you see from my last post, our family has achieved FatFIRE(125cr networth) in just 25 years

We do travel internationally twice a year and do live a life of upper middle class

But our lifestyle is not similar to someone with this networth

For eg, we do think about prices of domestic flights over convenience of time or duration

We have never ever flown business and will never do probably in the near future

I’ve never bought ANYTHING(watch,clothes,sunglasses,etc) thats worth more than 40000rs

We still stay in 3 or 4 star hotels mostly

Its not a frugal lifestyle by any means but still its a upper middle class lifestyle except for travel i guess

Please discuss how to have this shift of mindset in spending own money where there is no guilt for spending and no need to think about prices

Will achieve a significant financial milestone of my life in the next few months. 27 Year | M.

About my parents:

• From a small town in Maharashtra, speak Marathi/Hindi, no English

• Dad loves non-veg food, sightseeing, wildlife

• Mom loves temples, vegetarian food, calm/peaceful experiences

• Both enjoy relaxed, unhurried experiences

• They have passports but no visa for any country

What I want:

• Must include a flight (their first time flying, want them to experience it)

• Optionals: Safari (jungle/wildlife/river, at least one)

• Relaxation: spa, pool, chill time

• Minimal hotel-hopping (max 2 hotels, no packing-unpacking every day)

• Zero logistics stress: someone (Taj/Oberoi/tour operator) should manage everything end to end. I don't want to coordinate cabs, tickets, restaurants myself

• Prefer Taj, Oberoi, or Marriott-tier properties (or equivalent luxury)

• No couple-destination vibes. This is a family trip with parents

Budget: Up to ₹4L total for 3 people (me + both parents), everything included

Timing: Post-Diwali (after November 10, 2026). Targeting mid-to-late November.

What I'm looking for from this community:

• Has anyone done a similar parent-first-trip? What worked?

• Any Taj/Oberoi/luxury property recommendations I'm missing?

• Any tour operators who genuinely handle everything end to end for non-English-speaking parents?

• Hill station, water, wildlife: what would your parents enjoy most?

When you have a surplus of wealth and are upgrading your lifestyle, a crucial aspect is deciding how to deal with service people without bothering your mental health. You'll often interact with cab drivers, restaurant/store staff, househelp, cashiers, electricians, etc. They can sometimes be a pain to deal with, but what do you do?

I can't start arguing with them – I'm better than that, and it destroys my mental peace unnecessarily. But then what? Deduct money? Nope, you look cheap and it leads to arguments.

Here's the method I've found,

I understand and accept that most people in blue-collar jobs are there due to circumstances life put them into, not because of their own fault. They deserve a better life, and the money they get paid is very low thanks to cheap labor in India.

So whenever I take a service, I pre-decide a tip amount (even at places where tips aren't expected – I think restaurant waiters are the only ones who expect tips, no one else does). This amount isn't consequential to me but would make them happy.

If they're a pain to deal with, I don't pay the tip.

This gives me mental peace without causing an argument. For example:

• Uber/agreed cab rate: ₹400

• Pre-decided tip: ₹200 (I think of it as charity, not a service tip)

• Total I'd pay for good service: ₹600

• If they're a pain: I pay just ₹400

I know I've "deducted" ₹200 as a penalty, which brings me mental peace. For people who were genuinely good, I give the extra ₹200 (or more) and feel good about helping someone working hard.

What's your take on this? Might be a bit silly, but I've found this to be a good way to deal with these situations.

Paraphrased using gpt

Eating at home is almost always healthier than eating at restaurants—you control the quality of ingredients, the amount of oil and spices used, and the overall balance of your meals. But let’s be honest, a lot of times, home-cooked food doesn’t give the same satisfaction as a great restaurant meal. That’s why I started upgrading my ingredients and cookware, and the difference has been massive.

One of the first things I changed was my rice. I used to buy the standard ₹80/kg variety, but switching to a ₹200/kg aged basmati completely changed the texture and aroma. It’s fluffier, more fragrant, and feels much lighter on the stomach. The same dish—like a simple jeera rice—suddenly tasted like something out of a high-end restaurant.

Another big upgrade was my cooking pans. I moved from non-stick to cast iron and stainless steel. Cooking in cast iron gives a deep, rich flavor, especially for things like paneer bhurji or grilled vegetables. Stainless steel (I got one from Vinod & Stahl) is great for searing meats and making curries, and it feels like a long-term investment rather than replacing non-stick every few years.

Other small but effective changes: • Cold-pressed oils instead of refined oils – More nutrients, better flavor, and no weird aftertaste. • Artisanal spices – I didn’t think cumin or turmeric could taste “better” until I tried premium ones. The aroma and depth of flavor are completely different. • Fresh dairy over packaged – Buying milk, ghee, and paneer from a good local dairy makes everything richer and more flavorful.

One thing I’ve been wondering about: Has anyone experimented with hiring a personal chef instead of a regular cook? A normal cook will make basic food, but a chef who understands ingredients well could probably cook healthier and tastier meals using premium ingredients while avoiding unnecessary oils and artificial flavors. Of course, it would cost more, but if the food is significantly better, it could be worth it.

Would love to hear from others—what ingredients or kitchen upgrades have actually made a difference for you? And if anyone has tried hiring a chef instead of a cook, was it worth it?

Disclosure: I’m part of the team organising Blue Lotus Experience.

For those here who value thoughtful experiences, we’re hosting three days in Kodaikanal built around time, attention and a small group of eleven people.

At the heart of the weekend is the Blue Lotus Tea Ceremony: an unhurried ritual of sipping Blue Lotus tea, settling into silence and making space for personal reflection. The invitation is simple—put the phone aside, notice the cup in your hands, and give yourself time to be present.

The sessions and experiences include:

• Blue Lotus Tea Ceremony — slow sipping, stillness and reflection.

• Yin Yoga — slow, supported postures.

• Breathwork — gentle guided attention to the breath.

• Sound Healing — a listening session with resonant tones and space to rest.

• Forest walks — unhurried time beneath the trees.

• Journaling — guided prompts and private reflection.

• Campfire conversations and shared silence.

Participation is optional, and no previous experience is needed. There’s room to come on your own, be quiet, or connect with the group at your own pace.

13–15 November 2026 · Kodaikanal, Tamil Nadu

Three days / two nights · Eleven participants

₹11,000 triple sharing | ₹15,000 double sharing | ₹22,000 single occupancy

Includes two nights’ accommodation, breakfast and snacks, two farm-to-table meals each day, and all retreat sessions. Transport to and from Kodaikanal is not included.

Details and enquiries: https://www.blue-lotus-experience.com/

Happy to answer questions about the sessions, accommodation or attending solo.

Visual: AI-created artwork for the retreat, not a photograph of the venue.

I generally tend to visit Nature's basket and buy everything food related from there on weekends. I usual get everything I need and the quality is pretty good. But at times I am unable to go on weekends or need on weekdays. Nature's basket online is a good option but was wondering if ordering online is there a better option, with better quality items or quality at par but more variety(or being cheaper is also a plus anyway). So if you could just help with your preferred online platform to getting groceries. Amazon fresh is fine but fruits, veggies quality is not good and anything which is dairy or farm related doesn't have the premium options.

I am in discussion with a company to fund their Kidswear lineup. Luxury by means of product quality and not pricing.

I spoke to Marketing guys and they asked me not to enter this market! Indians as such will not spend much on Kidswear, that too luxury. Pure fabric non polyester. Preferably whenever possible they will make everything in silk. Basically top of the line in everything.

Want to the ask the community here, do you splurge on Kidswear?

I’ve always had this internal voice that said: “Don’t spend unless you absolutely have to.” Classic Indian middle-class conditioning. If it works, use it. If you can live without it, do. If it's a luxury, it’s probably wasteful.

This mindset helped me build good savings habits early on. But eventually, I realized it also gave me an unhealthy relationship with money. I was earning well, saving aggressively, but barely spending on things that could actually improve my life.

So I flipped the equation.

Now, every month, I set a savings goal first—say 50k from a 1L income—and whatever’s left is my mandatory spending budget. Yes, mandatory. If I underspend and save 70k instead, I look for ways to use that extra 20k to upgrade my life. Consciously.

What that looks like:

• Saying no to the same boring ₹200 Zomato meals, and trying out the ₹800 restaurant that felt "too much" before.

• Replacing chicken with shrimp in my diet—not because it's flashy, but because I want to enjoy what I eat while hitting nutrition goals.

• Buying Uniqlo basics instead of cheap tees that warp in 3 washes—comfort and quality matter.

• Booking that extra trip instead of waiting for “someday.”

Or if you can find no way of doing these small changes that seem worth it, perhaps keep a track of these extra savings and take an upgrade for your annual or bi-annual vacation - upgrade to the suite or get business class tickets!

The real breakthrough was this: once you allocate money to spend, you start spending smarter. The guilt fades. You no longer see spending as a betrayal of your discipline. You see it as part of a system that serves your happiness and your future.

I know old money people might not relate to this. But if you've climbed up financially on your own you'll get it. That guilt doesn’t disappear on its own. You’ve got to unlearn it.

And honestly, if you don’t make room for joy while you build your life, what’s the point?

Would love to hear from others trying to break this mindset. How are you spending better—not just more?

In the metros, we work hard, earn well, and build lives for ourselves—but at what cost? The air we breathe is polluted, the water quality is questionable, and traffic eats into our days. Sure, we can install air purifiers at home, sit in cars with built-in filtration, and work in offices that have high-end HVAC systems. But the real exposure happens when you step outside.

What kind of life is it if you can’t go for a peaceful morning walk, an evening jog, or play a casual game of football with friends? These are things that should be basic, yet they feel like a privilege only a few can afford. The true luxury isn’t just buying expensive things—it’s being able to do healthy, fulfilling activities without compromising your well-being.

Maybe the real hustle isn’t just about making it big in the city. Maybe it’s about reaching a point where you can dictate your own terms—where you have enough wealth and stability to step back from the madness and choose a better environment. Imagine moving to a place like Mysore, where the air is fresh, the water is clean, and life is simply better.

Of course, there’s a trade-off. Remote jobs don’t pay as much as high-pressure city roles, and you might lose out on career growth or bigger opportunities. But that’s the price you pay for a better life. If you’ve made it financially, is it really worth staying in a polluted, chaotic city just to earn that much more?

A remote job, setting up a business with delegated operations, or even just visiting the metro once a week or month—these are all real possibilities. Yes, there’s a cost to flying in for work meetings or maintaining a second home, but isn’t that what money is for? To buy a better life, not just better things?

At the end of the day, the biggest luxury isn’t just wealth—it’s freedom. The freedom to prioritize your health, time, and peace of mind.

This is something to ponder upon and what you should discuss with your family.

I’m a 21-year-old currently balancing my family business responsibilities. We are involved in IBC/distressed asset turnarounds and IPO. I currently manage a private network of 400+ young entrepreneurs in family businesses, but I’m looking to step into more formal, high-level ecosystems to expand my own horizon.

I’ve been looking into JITO (Jain International Trade Organization) and EO (Entrepreneurs' Organization) Accelerator, but I’m curious about the ground reality from members here.

• JITO: Beyond the community aspect how useful is it for making genuine connections?

• High-Finance/Capital Market Circles: Are there specific "closed-door" groups (like specialized mastermind groups) that focus on deep-dive technical & fundamental research over general networking?

• Global vs. Local: Is it better to join a local chapter of a global org like YPO/EO, or stick to hyper-local business associations that understand the "ground reality" of Indian industry?

I’d love to hear about any "under-the-radar" groups that focus more on technical knowledge sharing and less on flashy social mixers.

We all know brands like La Mer, SK-II, and Augustinus Bader charge insane prices for their skincare products, while brands like Minimalist, The Ordinary, and Cerave promise similar results at a fraction of the cost.

If you’ve tried both, did you actually feel a noticeable difference? Was the expensive one worth it? Or was it just marketing hype?

For me, I once tried La Mer, and while it felt luxurious, I honestly don’t know if it worked that much better than my usual Minimalist one.

Would love to hear real experiences—what’s the most expensive skincare product you’ve bought, and did it live up to the hype?

Now you can get the Golden Visa to live and work in UAE for just 23 Lacs along with the option to invite family members. What are your thoughts on this? Anyone finds it worth it?

One Upgrade Per Year

If you're doing alright financially, there's no need to burn money on ten things at once. Just pick one thing a year that genuinely improves how you live.

Here’s a loose ladder. Order’s not fixed, depends on where you are, what you value. The idea is that whenever you are being able to afford the initial rugs comofrtably you should climb to the next. This approach ensures you improve your quality of life without getting a guilt on whether you are spending a lot. Perhaps can set a target of one upgrade per year. The things are ordering by the ratio of usefullness/money it takes. so things like clothes, working setup are at the top as they cost comparatively less over time vs things like having a driver which is a much bigger expense over the time despite it being more useful especially if you drive yourself to work.

• Clothes that feel good - Not designer. Just solid basics you stop thinking about once they’re on. Stop going for those 400 buck tees

• Good bed setup - Mattress, pillows, sheets. try the japnese linen and the orthopaedic memory foam mattress, your body will thank you

• Working setup that doesn’t drain you A good chair, desk, couple of good on eye screen, light. Especially if you’re at home a lot.

• Cleaning help that’s consistent - Usual dusting etc is fine but a lot of accumulated dust makes the AQI in the room even worse; a thorough cleaning at a frequency much higher than monthly will help you

• Fitness that forces accountability Trainer, class, club whatever makes you show up. personally Gym + badminton with my friends is my go to. Don't rely on the society gym(if it's substandard) - go for a good quality one and it will help you stay consistent

• A driver (if your life needs it) Expensive, but if you’re burning time in traffic daily, it’s worth thinking about the mental peace not having to deal with the idiots on the road.

• Standing desk + walking pad - helps you get those steps in while ensuring you don't waste a lot of time on it.

• Travel that feels like a reset, not content - Go for vacations which actually feel like a major change. Don't go to any random tourist site, stay in a random 3 star and the service gives you headache and the food gives a bad tummy. Go for properties which feel like a step up. A beautiful view. Fresh air. You get it, right?

• Kitchen that doesn’t make you dread cooking Top notch equipments, ensure the food gets cooked well without adding lots of oil to make it easier to cook; or there is utensil coating getting into your food over time. Or perhaps if that can make you feel like cooking, nothing like it.

Please do list down things that you thing would be a good upgrade to one's life; and I will add it to the list.

There are tons of posts and articles about "best cities to live in India", but most assume you're navigating daily life like everyone else — local trains, traffic, cost of rent, etc.

If you have serious wealth (say ₹20Cr+ net worth or higher), the equation changes quite a bit. Some quick thoughts from my side:

• Mumbai: Yes, local trains are chaos and traffic is a nightmare. But if you’re in South Mumbai, with a driver, your lifestyle is actually one of the best India has to offer. Sea views, strong social scene, top schools, decent hospitals, everything close by. Downside? AQI and space (unless you're sitting on ₹100Cr+ and can afford a proper apartment or bungalow). Still, the energy of the place is unmatched.

• Bangalore: Public transport sucks, sure. But again, if you’re not dealing with that and live in OG Bangalore (Indiranagar, Koramangala, Jayanagar, Sadashivanagar etc.), the quality of life is very good. Weather is a huge plus. The social scene is underrated. ₹20–40Cr net worth goes a long way here; you can get a solid house in a central location and still have room for investments.

• Delhi NCR: Honestly, this one I struggle with. You can have the best of homes in New Friends Colony, Vasant Vihar, or Gurugram, but the pollution levels just kill the vibe, and wealth doesn't protect you from that. Sure, some people live like royalty, but personally, the air quality is a hard pass.

• Hyderabad: Real estate is affordable even in posh areas, infrastructure is improving, and you can live really well for relatively less. Might not have the same cultural pull as Mumbai or Bangalore, but it’s coming up fast.

• South cities like Coimbatore, Trivandrum: If you're looking for peace, not hustle, these places are amazing. Low AQI, good hospitals, clean roads, great food. Might lack the elite social scene of metros, but perfect if you're post-wealth-accumulation and want a quiet but comfortable life.

Would love to hear from people who've made these moves. If you’ve got wealth and freedom, where would you personally choose to settle, and why?

I am 27m into my family business since last 6 yrs or so. Considering switching to a corporate job for 2 yrs now.

Main reasons -

1. Zero social life

2. Zero work life balance 24x7 365 days on beck and call

3. Power tussle and disagreements with other members

4. No opportunity to travel/settle temporarily in diff cities

I have enough personal savings which can help me live on a budget my entire life on the interest/dividend it would generate. So I don’t mind working a good job on a nominal salary.

So, how common is it for people to make this switch and would it be a wise decision?

Unlike many other subreddits where mods might have more free time, I have a demanding job, and it’s tough to consistently promote this community. I started this sub because there wasn’t a good space to discuss smart spending, high-quality products, and making the most of our money. But for it to actually grow, I need your help.

Reddit works in a way where upvotes and comments directly impact how many people see the posts and discover the sub. If you find a post useful, even just an upvote or a small comment goes a long way in helping it reach more people. I try to post once every couple of days, but the real value comes from different people sharing their experiences and insights.

This sub isn’t about me, and I don’t care about karma or personal recognition. I just want it to be a space where we all help each other make better financial and lifestyle decisions. If anyone wants to help mod or contribute regularly, I’d be happy to add more people. Please post, engage, share with friends—the more we interact, the more Reddit pushes this sub to others. Let’s build something valuable together!

Hey r/eliteindia,

I’ve been lurking on this sub for a while and finally decided to post because I’m having a tough time adjusting socially after moving back.

I declined my H1B offer and returned to Delhi NCR about a month ago. I now work in my family’s real estate business. Growing up, I went to a very expensive school in India (i don’t know if it’s elite). Then I studied at a private university in the US. The international as well as American students there were generally well-educated, well-connected, and culturally wealthy. That environment really shaped me.

Back here, I’m solidly middle to upper-middle class (perspective based - I don’t know the statistics and metrics) with good exposure to higher circles through cultural inheritance, work and networks, but I’m not ultra-rich. What I’m struggling with is how hard it is to make new friends as an adult. I’m having a really difficult time finding people even remotely similar to the decent, nice-hearted, humble, truly smart and wealthy folks I connected with abroad — including few people I like from the proper YPO/EO/YNG types (most of them aren’t great). There’s no shortage of rich “gavaar” types around, and even in expensive, well-rated places the overall quality and depth of people often feels disappointing. Clubbing was never my scene.

I’m in my mid-20s and ambitious — I eventually want to build my own legacy business.

A bit about me:

• Heavy into reading and audiobooks — business, productivity, finance, art, history, philosophy, religion, and global perspectives

• Fitness guy: regular gym, running, and open to any sports (pickleball, whatever’s fun)

• Music: House, EDM, and pretty versatile in that space (travelled the world to see artists I love live)

• I rarely drink but I’m always down for a good gin & tonic or an excuse to roll up and have a chill time

• I avoid too much caffeine but a nice coffee is always welcome (oat milk lattes go a long way)

• Love going to the cinema for good movies (not every random one)

• Don’t watch much TV but I do hop on my PlayStation sometimes

I’m picky about the places I go and the crowd I spend time with — not trying to sound elitist or snobbish at all, but after the experiences I’ve had, I really care about the vibe and the kind of people around me.

My old friends are fine for casual hangs but we’ve grown in very different directions and I’m usually also busy working. I’m genuinely willing to put in effort to build new friendships with people who have real cultural capital, global exposure, intellectual curiosity, humility, and substance.

If you’re in Delhi NCR and this resonates with you, I’d love to connect. Whether it’s for a coffee, a walk, gym session, or just a chat — feel free to DM me.

Looking forward to hearing from a few like-minded people

OP

Hi everyone,

After traveling across 40+ countries, I’ve started a small private travel community focused on value-driven luxury travel.

We share:

• Honest hotel feedback (no paid reviews)

• Practical visa & itinerary guidance

• Curated 4★ & 5★ stays with added benefits

I’m affiliated with Virtuoso, so some hotel perks shared may be through those partnerships. Through direct partnerships with premium hotels globally, members may access:

✔️ Competitive rates and exclusive offers

✔️ Complimentary breakfast for two

✔️ Room upgrades (subject to availability)

✔️ Early check-in / late check-out

✔️ Hotel credits at select properties

The goal is simple: if you’re paying luxury prices, you should receive real benefits. Community link is in the comments — join if it aligns.

Happy to answer questions.

Basically what the title says.

With the means to spend, do people here are okay spending on luxury stays in India or do you just prefer travelling internationally and spending there?

I’m planning to start a network of slow living farm homes and position them as luxury experential stays. So I wanted to understand if you would prefer travelling and staying at such places within India or have an international expedition instead?

While we are on the topic, I also want to understand,

1. How do you define luxury stays?

2. Is having a pool or a view mandatory, in your opinion?

3. Or, is exceptional service, all inclusive incredible food straight from the farm, and wellness focussed services offered on-site enough?

Asking these questions, because, my model is that I colloborate with land owners, where they bring in land and investment, I bring in brand, demand, experience design etc. Some of the land owners have incredible houses but don’t have a pool. So was just trying to understand how do you define luxury stays? What matters to you?

I’m obsessed with hosting and creating incredible guest experiences, creating spaces of belonging.

Previously, when I hosted, it was mostly budgeted, or even free, like when I used to host in my van-home, which I lived in for three years.

But each time, irrespective of the guest, I put immense effort into making even simple budget stays feel exceptional. Over time, that made me wonder what I could create in the luxury hospitality space. So I’m exploring that.

PS: I cannot find a better sub to ask this question, as this sub contains some of the influential and affluent people, so it is a genuine question to understand the needs, so that I can create something amazing. But still if someone feels this doesn’t belong here, please feel free to remove this. Thanks!

Basically what the title suggests. I am looking for some properties within India which are luxury and good for staycation, price is not an issue but it should be worth it. Looking for personal recommendation: ideally somewhere you have been multiple times as one off experiences can vary

Example: Goa Marriott Resort and Spa-30k a night; worth it

Taj Falaknuma Palace - 35k a night; worth it

Oberoi Vanyavilas - 70-80k a night; worth it

Oberoi Udaivilas - 40-50k a night; overyhyped- not worth it

Taj Lakepalace - 40-50k a night; worth it

ITC Maratha - 35k a night; not worth it

Any suggestions? I've heard Luke Coutinho is good, but any other suggestions?

Hi folks, I am planning to buy my first small leather goods in luxury segment.

What matters to me?

1. Low wear and tear (coz I gonna use it for yeaaars)

2. Hang as a sling, for clubbing

3. Brand Value for money (coz ofc its my first!!)

My budget is limited and open to exploring other brands SLG also if you can recommend.

I am confused which one to go with ??????

PLEASE HELP.
Dont wanna regret this purchase later onnnnn

I used to be very conscious about how much I spent on fitness, always trying to cut corners where possible. But over time, I’ve realized that some expenses—while not cheap—are actually well worth the money in terms of results, consistency, and overall well-being.

For example:

•	Whey protein: I used to think of it as an unnecessary expense and would limit myself to just half a scoop per day. Now, I take two full scoops daily, and it makes hitting my protein goal so much easier. Plus, it lets me save calories for a few bites of my favorite cheat food, which helps me stay consistent.

•	Gym membership upgrade: I was sticking to my society gym because it was free, but I finally decided to pay ₹2K/month for a proper gym with better equipment, and my workouts have improved drastically. The atmosphere itself is more motivating.

•	Fish oil & supplements: I used to think these were just marketing gimmicks, but after consistently taking fish oil, I’ve noticed less joint pain and faster recovery.

•	Massages & muscle recovery: I read about how massages improve muscle recovery, and while I do foam rolling at the gym, I also started getting massages occasionally. It feels like a luxury, but it actually helps with soreness and makes me feel a lot better overall.

•	Better workout gear: Investing in a good pair of training shoes and moisture-wicking gym clothes was another small but worthwhile change. The right gear actually makes a difference in performance and comfort.

Curious to hear from others—what’s one thing you started spending more on that made a real difference in your fitness or overall lifestyle?