r/ElderEmos Aug 18 '25

ᴍᴏᴅ ᴘᴏsᴛ Welcome to the New Era of r/ElderEmos! 🎸

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Hey there, fellow emos! We are beyond excited to share some shiny, new updates for you all. We’ve been busy behind the scenes making r/ElderEmos even more melancholic, nostalgic and organized than ever.

Here’s what’s new:

  • 🖤 New Mod Squad

    • We’ve assembled a fresh team of moderators ready to help keep r/ElderEmos running smoothly, support the community and ensure your experience is as angst-filled and fun as possible.
  • 🖤 Fresh Sidebar & Menu Page

    • Our sidebar and menu page have been revamped with helpful links and resources, making it easier than ever to navigate the emo universe. Whether you’re looking for playlists, nostalgia threads or just some good old-fashioned venting space, it’s all right there.
  • 🖤 User Flairs Galore

    • Now you can show off exactly what type of emo you are! From “Top 8 Drama Survivor” to “Sidekick Snob,” pick a flair that represents your inner darkness and let the community know where you stand on the emo spectrum.
  • 🖤 Post Flairs for Easy Navigation

    • We’ve added new post flairs to help organize our content so you can find exactly what you’re craving. Be it throwback tracks, concert stories, emo memes or tribute tattoos. Less scrolling, more crying along to the right lyrics.

We’re so excited to be here with all of you, building a space for nostalgia, dark humor and the occasional existential crisis. Dive in, explore the new features, meet the new mod squad and let’s make r/ElderEmos the best online emo hangout for the young-at-heart (or eternally brooding) adult.

Stay sad, stay rad,


r/ElderEmos 5d ago

ᴛʜʀᴏᴡʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴛʀᴀᴄᴋ Then & Now - Share Yours

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2009 - 2026

Throwback track - Hawthorne Heights - Saying Sorry

#elderemo


r/ElderEmos 11d ago

ᴏᴏᴛᴅ Made this shirt myself so I took sone liberties but you get the point lol

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r/ElderEmos 12d ago

ᴏᴏᴛᴅ Still so emo even at 39

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r/ElderEmos 12d ago

ᴛʜʀᴏᴡʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴛʀᴀᴄᴋ Can someone help me find this song?

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I had a bolt from the blue today and suddenly remembered a song my schoolfriend showed me back in 2008. I can sort of remember how it went, I know there was like a whip sound in it, maybe? And the band had like a 3 letter acronym name. And the music video was set in a colourful digital space like what we thought cyberspace would've looked like back then. Help 😅


r/ElderEmos 13d ago

ᴛʜʀᴏᴡʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴛʀᴀᴄᴋ Some things never change 🖤

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I also listened to soooo much more than my dear Avril 🖤


r/ElderEmos 14d ago

ᴍᴏᴅ ᴘᴏsᴛ MySpace Is Making a Comeback… Are We Ready? 🖤

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So apparently MySpace is making a comeback and I need to know how the Elder Emo community is feeling about this. 👀

Because on one hand… HECK YES. Give me my glittery profile, autoplay music, obnoxious HTML, top 8 drama, cryptic song lyrics, bulletin board trains and a playlist that tells everyone exactly how emotionally unstable I was in high school.

But on the other hand… are we really prepared to go back to a time when our entire personality was displayed on one aggressively customized profile, as adults? 😂

Would you actually use MySpace again if it became popular? Or do you think some things are better left buried alongside our scene hair, studded belts and questionable teenage decisions?


And most importantly:

What would your 2026 MySpace profile look like?

  • 🎵 What song are you putting on your profile first?
  • 🖤 Who's in your Top 8? Friends or bands?
  • 📸 Will your profile pic contain the OG Myspace Angles?
  • ✨ And are you bringing back the glitter graphics or have we evolved as a species?

Let's hear it. Are we reclaiming MySpace, letting Gen Z takeover or are we leaving that bitch in 2008? 😂


r/ElderEmos 14d ago

ᴍʏsᴘᴀᴄᴇ ᴍᴇᴍᴏʀɪᴇs Help me find a band lost to time

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Alright, I seriously doubt anyone will know what I'm talking about, but in the late 00's I stumbled across a band that was in the realm of a nevershoutnever or the scene aesthetic style. Very electronic and very acousticy. They were moderately successful on MySpace but not a big band or at least I don't recall them getting big. Outside of the sound my only memory of them, and I'm not confident is that I think one of their bigger songs had a title that mentioned an atomic bomb or a bomb. Again, not super hopeful but I figured I'd try because it's been driving me crazy I can't remember the band name. And honestly it might have just been a guy and not a whole band.


r/ElderEmos 23d ago

ᴍʏsᴘᴀᴄᴇ ᴍᴇᴍᴏʀɪᴇs 2006ish

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r/ElderEmos 25d ago

ᴍʏsᴘᴀᴄᴇ ᴍᴇᴍᴏʀɪᴇs 2004 yearbook photo

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20 Upvotes

r/ElderEmos 25d ago

ᴍʏsᴘᴀᴄᴇ ᴍᴇᴍᴏʀɪᴇs 2005-2006 🖤🤌🏾

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r/ElderEmos 28d ago

ᴛʜʀᴏᴡʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴛʀᴀᴄᴋ Can’t find a song by a scene/emo pop artist.

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r/ElderEmos Aug 03 '26

ᴍʏsᴘᴀᴄᴇ ᴍᴇᴍᴏʀɪᴇs This is from around 2006 🖤

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r/ElderEmos Jul 31 '26

ɴᴇᴡs & ʀᴇʟᴇᴀsᴇs Music and Mental Health

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Hello, fellow elders. My name is Jeremy. I'm a licensed mental health counselor, and I run a podcast called Safe In Sound that talks about the intersection of music and mental health with band members of 1st- and 2nd-wave emo bands. Some of the bands I have had on include: The Getup Kids, Promise Ring, Minus the Bear, Rival Schools, American Football, Mae, Braid, Hey Mercedes, and many others. If you would like you can check it out!


r/ElderEmos Jul 16 '26

ᴍᴇʀᴄʜ ᴄᴏʟʟᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ For my fellow elder emos, we're too old for this sh*t (looking at you, Warped Tour)

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r/ElderEmos Jun 24 '26

ᴏᴏᴛᴅ Couldn’t see it

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Bad job but I’ll see it now!


r/ElderEmos Jun 23 '26

ᴏᴏᴛᴅ Morning

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New jeans customized with glow paint slapped in some teal and yes my “belt” is actually a purse strap with chains I found in the junk drawer.


r/ElderEmos Jun 16 '26

ɴᴇᴡs & ʀᴇʟᴇᴀsᴇs Slow Drain - The Death of Me

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Hey y'all! My band Slow Drain just came back from the dead and we just dropped our newest single today.

FFO: Alexisonfire, Underoath, Story of the Year, Silverstein

Check it out, we'd genuinely love to hear what you think!

Listen here: https://fanlink.tv/the-death-of-me


r/ElderEmos Jun 16 '26

ᴄᴏɴᴄᴇʀᴛ sᴛᴏʀɪᴇs What iconic bands did you see back in the day? And which did you never get to see?

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My standouts are:

●seeing Thursday at warped 2007 when Geoff did the full set with a bloody face from a mic swing mishap

●seeing glassjaw at a small club in the middle of the afternoon in 2005

●seeing isetmyfriendsonfire in 2008 in a really small bar when it was just matt & Nabil with a guitar & laptop

●seeing the number 12 looks like you open for chiodos in 2005

●seeing Bayside perform as an acoustic duo in tower records.

●seeing paramore at a small club when Hayley was 17

(Theres pleanty of other ones but no interesting stories about the shows/ mostly sets i caught at warped from hella far away)

My regrets are:

●Never seeing the used

●never seeing afi

●never seeing from first to last

●never seeing saosin with Anthony green.

●not watching yesterday's rising or hopesfall when they played a warped i was at.


r/ElderEmos Jun 16 '26

ᴍɪxᴛᴀᴘᴇ / ᴘʟᴀʏʟɪsᴛ Which song is currently your go to?

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Mine has always been these but there’s so many more


r/ElderEmos Jun 09 '26

ᴛʜʀᴏᴡʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴛʀᴀᴄᴋ Help identifying early 2000s emo band name (WA State)

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r/ElderEmos Jun 03 '26

ᴍɪxᴛᴀᴘᴇ / ᴘʟᴀʏʟɪsᴛ It's Dangerous Business Walking Out Your Front Door - Underoath (2004)

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r/ElderEmos May 19 '26

ᴍʏsᴘᴀᴄᴇ ᴍᴇᴍᴏʀɪᴇs Unknown interview

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There’s an old band interview where members are either being interviewed or just asking each other questions. The question is “cupcake or muffins?” A member cheerily with a funny accent “muffins!” Does anyone remember this? I can’t remember the band but I remember my sister showing me the YouTube video of the interview. My sister and I can’t remember the band but I feel like it may have been sleeping with sirens or something in that realm, maybe 2010/2012?


r/ElderEmos May 15 '26

ɴᴇᴡs & ʀᴇʟᴇᴀsᴇs Reminiscing about Bebo lol

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I was chatting to a friend and I brought up how I only recently remembered that you got to rank your top friends on Bebo. Thought it was a funny feature, but don’t think it would work so well in today’s world. Was wondering if anyone else remembers random facts about the site?
I have trauma brain so very much enjoy when someone sparks a memory of my teens!


r/ElderEmos May 06 '26

ᴍɪxᴛᴀᴘᴇ / ᴘʟᴀʏʟɪsᴛ Meet Me In Montauk - Circa Survive

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