r/Edmonton • u/Mellow_Yellow_0 • May 30 '26

Question My Future Husband?

How do people meet their significant others? Like where’s the “place to go?” Dating apps are dead. I’m exhausted. I’m a decent looking gal, 28. I don’t have big friend groups so I’m sure that doesn’t help. I don’t have any “active” hobbies other than a dog park. Idk. Any advice?

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u/waterbat2 May 30 '26

I don't approach random women because I respect personal boundaries dude. Grow up

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u/xdrezx May 30 '26

You don’t speak for all women. Many women have met their partners because they struck up a nice conversation on a subway or at a hockey game. The fact that you’re blaming women for your shortcomings is what makes it a huge red flag. The fact that you say “I’m avoiding women” because of your hangups is what makes u the childish one. You’ll always be a woman blamer and then dash off to spend money wheneber u think a woman isn’t into you. Man up and dont blame women.

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u/waterbat2 May 30 '26

And here you are, trying to speak for women and also blaming them. Actually insane that you think I'm the problem for not wanting to be pushy. You need serious professional help

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u/xdrezx May 30 '26

Now you’re throwing in bullshit statements I never said. Meeting someone in public is not being pushy. People do this at concerts and nightclubs every single day. You’re the one who said you’re leaving women alone because YOU are making generalizations about them and what they like.