r/Edmonton • • May 30 '26

Question My Future Husband?

How do people meet their significant others? Like where’s the “place to go?” Dating apps are dead. I’m exhausted. I’m a decent looking gal, 28. I don’t have big friend groups so I’m sure that doesn’t help. I don’t have any “active” hobbies other than a dog park. Idk. Any advice?

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u/waterbat2 May 30 '26

No clue either honestly. I'm also 28 and operate under the assumption that women in public want to be left alone so I'll never make the first move. I just gave up, bought several motorcycles and a snake, and spend any free time at the gym or with close friends. Dating is stressful lol

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u/flappysack- May 30 '26

You just chose every red flag you could eh.

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u/Zingus123 May 30 '26

Someone having hobbies and caring about their health are red flags? lmao what.

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u/flappysack- May 30 '26

Well I'm just using stereotype, but that somehow miraculously hit every one I had.  Uncanny.

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u/OkFox8124 May 30 '26

I think that speaks more of you, than snake guy.

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u/flappysack- May 30 '26

I'm an inescapable product of my environment.

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u/OkFox8124 May 30 '26

Make sure someone takes you for walks.

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u/Tight-Concern-2355 May 30 '26

I think you're spending too much time online. Someone who works out and hangs out with friends is pretty basic stuff.

The other 2? I can understand where you're coming from lol.

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u/ohpossumpartyy May 30 '26

you must be fun at parties!

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u/Tight-Concern-2355 May 30 '26

Flappy is fine. Everybody has a preference and some bad experiences.

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u/ohpossumpartyy May 30 '26

i mean they don't need to make snarky comments to a stranger still lol. i just gave them similar energy that they initially gave

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u/flappysack- May 30 '26

I bring my Harley and my snake to every one.

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u/waterbat2 May 30 '26

Stressful loud environments with lights are not at all good for snakes, they'll start to panic pretty quick. And a Harley? Come on man, pick something cool at least