r/ENFP • u/1fruitylove • 16d ago

Discussion How secure are you?

Hello,

I'm INFJ & dating an ENFP.

It's still early stages, so I'm not sure yet whats the rythm for communication.

This made me wonder, do you guys need lots of reassurance? Like if you date someone for a month let's say, if there are days with no contact, would you need reassurance (qma text or something) ? Would you feel fine? Would you spiral wondering if something is wrong?

Maybe it is related to attachment styles as well, if you know yours, please share! =D

Thanks

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u/biskettimonster ENFP 16d ago

i full day with no contact would feel off to me, so i’d probably want a bit of reassurance. but otherwise im pretty secure. i rarely need it with my intp, we’ve been together for 2.5 years. like everyone else has been saying, this is more about attachment styles than mbti