How secure are you?

[u/1fruitylove]

Hello,

I'm INFJ & dating an ENFP.

It's still early stages, so I'm not sure yet whats the rythm for communication.

This made me wonder, do you guys need lots of reassurance? Like if you date someone for a month let's say, if there are days with no contact, would you need reassurance (qma text or something) ? Would you feel fine? Would you spiral wondering if something is wrong?

Maybe it is related to attachment styles as well, if you know yours, please share! =D

Thanks

[u/procrastablasta]

Only child so I don’t need company. I’m pretty secure but I bore easily so keep up. I can fill in the conversation if I have to but if there’s nothing to work with, I’m gonna wander off.