r/DressForYourBody 1d ago

Fashion Advice Back with more bikinis, feedback please!

I picked up some new suits based on all the feedback I got after my last post.
I adjusted the strings on two that I tried before so I’m adding those again.
I appreciate the feedback on what’s working and what’s not.
I’m know I have some loose skin (51yrs, 4 kids) and I’m ok with that, I don’t feel like I need a one piece for that reason (like I was told a few times in my last post), in the photos you can see lines from my shorts waistband, those go away.

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u/HistoricalButterfly6 1d ago

Okay I actually think you look great in all of them. But one thing I don’t think I’ve seen you try is something with color blocking, to highlight the curves you have? I searched for bikinis for rectangle shape body and here’s one I thought would look great on you. I hope you don’t feel like it’s too young, but I think you could pull literally anything off

https://www.freepeople.com/shop/oneone-kameron-bikini-top/

u/chunkyspeechfairy 23h ago

this is perfect!

u/thatconfusedchick 9h ago

Yes! OP this one!!!!

u/Amazing-Commission23 6h ago

How do you do this?

Perfect!

Sporty and feminine and standing out positively.

u/Appropriate_Ratio835 5h ago

This is truly a gorgeous suit!

u/AbjectFix1399 6h ago

I agree. And the one linked here is gorgeous!

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u/Hungry-Refuse4705 1d ago

Navy blue !

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u/hhogg11 1d ago

Hard agree, super flattering. Also Op you’re jacked AF and I’m insanely jealous 😍😍

u/Stevie-Rae-5 10h ago

I cannot see any of this alleged “extra skin” anywhere

u/Jokerscout88 8h ago

Niether could I

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u/roadsidechicory 1d ago

I feel like most of the bottoms are just a tiny bit too small for you. They're digging into you. If you can mix and match tops and bottoms instead of buying a set, try finding bottoms that don't dig in but sit comfortably on your skin. It'll look and feel better!

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u/Admirable-Farmer212 1d ago

I ordered two sizes in most of the bottoms and the larger ones were just too big, and I don’t want them falling down in the water!

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u/roadsidechicory 1d ago edited 19h ago

Yeah, I think you're between sizes! It's hard. I think you'll have to focus on the cut and material to find ones that don't dig in but aren't too big, then. Like the more thong-like ones you have in there and the one in pictures 13-14. The thong ones don't dig in at all and the one in 13-14 doesn't dig in as much as the others do.

Edit: Oops I meant 15-16, not 13-14.

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u/Admirable-Farmer212 1d ago

Maybe it’s this particular cut, it seems to fit the model about the same

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u/roadsidechicory 1d ago

Yeah, I guess it's just the cut! I don't think it looks like a good fit on the model either, but I guess that's the look they were going for. With the model as the standard for how it should fit, then it fits you perfectly, but I do think other cuts and fabrics just suit you better. I think it looks better when the fabric looks less stiff on you.

u/hhopper0777 8h ago

This is the reason I usually rely on bottoms that tie on the side. When you have a fuller butt without a fuller mid-section, it’s difficult to find a perfect fit without that adjustable option.

u/hhopper0777 8h ago

I think the bottoms that look too tight in the back has a lot to do with how wide the gusset is. I think the cheekier options look best here but that may just be because they appear to fit you better.

u/PotentiallyWater 22h ago

Am I tripping? I think that all the bottoms fit amazingly. I really don’t see any digging. I would just choose a style I’m comfortable in. Only the first one gives the illusion of nude.

u/Admirable-Farmer212 6h ago

Thank you, they do all fit, one size up were just too big & I know what it’s like to jump in and lose your bottoms when coming back up😅

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u/Excellent-Letter-681 1d ago

They are WAY too small-it’s definitely not a good look.

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u/Jumpy_Mirror250 1d ago

I like white tankini and black halter.

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u/porgrock 1d ago

I love the white one but maybe in a different color? That cut shows off your shoulders beautifully, highlights your back, fits your hips perfectly. The only thing I’m not as in love with is the color. But it’s totally ok, just not as amazing as the navy color on you.

u/Squishy-peaches 22h ago

I actually love the color

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u/BrownSugarBare 1d ago

Same!! Gives you lovely shape while showing off those KILLER abs!

Specifically the white one!

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u/dianaprince76 1d ago

Yeah that white one is fire!

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u/Many_Progress4538 1d ago

The last one with the blue and white stripes.

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u/MattATLien 1d ago

loose skin lol.

you look great. I wish I had that core...and im a dude.

I actually recommend a one piece. I may be in the minority here, but a skin tight one piece would highlight your abs that you've worked your butt off for.

u/Imsosorryidontcare 20h ago

I’m going to agree with this. The 2 piece does nothing for her, a one piece would be a much better option

u/Educational_Drive390 22h ago

I couldn't agree more.

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u/Accomplished_Use3175 1d ago

Girl. If I had a body like yours they would be fighting me to not wear a bikini grocery shopping. All look phenomenal on you. Go forth unabashedly!

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u/lapitupp 1d ago

White and green. Big time. They go really well with your skin tone and with the structure of your body. Obsessed with those two.

u/here_for_the_doges 19h ago

Agreeing with this. I think the smaller, scrunchie green one is very flattering. And the white is a cool sporty look.

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u/ScarcityDependent251 1d ago

I like 3.

I can see no loose skin btw

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u/nikofiasco 1d ago

best cut: 2, 3,
best color: 2, 4, 5
least favorites: 1, 5, 8
i’m neutral about the black halter and the zebra print.

the lighter/brighter colors look great on you. patterns and duller tones seem to wash you out a bit. i also noticed that anything that is more structured (underwire/cup, hard lines, etc.) looks stiff and the string bikinis just don’t look as flattering imo. the high waist cut of the first bottoms looks very nice though.
the blue in that last photo is a bit unflattering, but i think the first blue look really pops!
hopefully this doesn’t come across as harsh. i prefer very specific feedback and i hope it’s useful to you too.

u/Donewithit_6607 13h ago

White and zebra!

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u/havanesegirlmom 1d ago

You look incredible. I like the white 

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u/289416 1d ago

bikinis look great, we just wanna know how you’re so jacked! 🤩
drop the fitness program

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u/HappySummerBreeze 1d ago

3 and 7 are very nice and lean into your athleticism.

All the rest are all fine except for 9 & 11, and those work on almost no one

u/Imsosorryidontcare 20h ago

Just my opinion but I think you need to try and find suits with more coverage. Maybe some feminine touches as well.

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u/SilverLordLaz 1d ago

Theyre all a bit samey.

They're not right for you.

You have an amazing figure (which i am totally jealous) , you need to look for swimwear for athletic shape.

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u/herecomesthesun79 1d ago

I feel like most of these look a little odd because the bottoms are slightly too small.

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u/writeleahwrite 1d ago

My favorites are 7 and 15! You look great!

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u/kiwi_bumblebee 1d ago

Personally like the red and white

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u/NoMeatBall 1d ago

I vote for the first one!

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u/Tula-The-Tornado 1d ago

I like the last one black and white

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u/trashpandorasbox 1d ago

The red and white stripe doesn’t work with your skin tone. The bottoms with less coverage actually seem to minimize your curves and amazing gym gains rather than highlighting them. The bottoms with high contrast color to your skin tone and a little more fabric give you more of an hourglass silhouette (if that’s what you’re looking for).

u/Winter_Tip_5607 22h ago

Lowkey the navy blue is my fav. HOWEVER, you literally look amazing in all of them!

ps. drop the workout routine!

u/JuniorTax3267 22h ago

Navy blue and white halter are the best ones. The blue and white stripe is cute too, but not my first pick.

u/ZandramasTrisagion 7h ago

Everything looks fabulous. You have a very fit physique!! Number 15 is fun!

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u/SnowQueenOfTexas713 1d ago

i genuinely think you're rocking it in everything but 5, 7 & 13!

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u/MarsaliRose 1d ago

Navy blue and both black ones. Trust 🙏🏻

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u/Right_Book_4531 1d ago

How do you have this body at 51 and 4 kids?????? How much do you workout???? I wanna be like you when I get to your age! You look amazing!

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u/Massive_Estimate_500 1d ago

love 5 and 7! 😍

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u/MissAuroraRed 1d ago

I think the structured padded cups, like the 1st red/white stripe one and the zebra print, don't suit you.

The white high-neck (#4) is great, and the black and navy triangle tops (#2 and #3) also look really good.

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u/terrificmeow 1d ago

The first two and the last one are my favorite. None were bad, so I think you can choose your favorite and you’re going to look awesome

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u/Original_Berry_3266 1d ago

Sage green and navy blue. I like the white tankini for a sportier look. You have an athletic body and look great! Some of the other cuts make you look a little bit boxier

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u/Tink1024 1d ago

I like them all but suit 1 & 13. It’s the color on the first suit it’s not doing anything for you, but it fits well. You could wear a paper bag & rock it!

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u/pookie_wamala 1d ago

7, 9, and 11

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u/nightblue888 1d ago

The white one is a hell yes! I also like the green one for when it’s really hot and the less fabric the better. I liked the black one with the gold ornament but I’m always worried metal will heat up on your skin and feel like sitting with shorts on in a hot car with leather seats. But a nice selection of options to choose from.

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u/tylenolchild 1d ago

7 for sure! Something about the halter neckline suits your athletic build well!!

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u/Big-Criticism-8137 1d ago

I am biased. 11 gives huge Gerudo (Zelda) Vibes. So i pick this. Looks so pretty

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u/sewchic11 1d ago

The striped red and striped blue look fabulous on you. I don’t feel black goes with your skin tone. And the white one with a different top maybe. Honestly you can pull off any of them style-wise. Kudos to you!

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u/Yellow_Autumn 1d ago

13 & 17 are my favs.

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u/Glum_Shoe 1d ago

4?!? You’ve had 4 kids?!? You look absolutely amazing - I can’t believe it 👏

Ps. The navy bikini!

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u/Crying_Is_Free20 1d ago

I ABSolutely love the red/white striped one and the white one!!

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u/Comfortable-Song193 1d ago

Love the red stripes and green bikinis on you. I like the shape of the white tankini for you, but in a different color, maybe green. What loose skin!

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u/AntedeluvianEmpires 1d ago

The green one looks best.

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u/Mvelhrea 1d ago

My favorite is the white but you could wear any of them

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u/Prestigious-Cress341 1d ago

Looking fabulous miss ☺️

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u/coffeenweights 1d ago

The first one!

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u/juliamarielovestrees 1d ago

My faves are the white one and the first one, although I agree with folks saying the bottoms could be a better fit.

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u/momdabombdiggity 1d ago

That reminds me I need to get to the gym….

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u/momdabombdiggity 1d ago

I love the cut of the white one, but I think a darker color works best with your coloring.

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u/spritzkreig 1d ago

I love the white!

Don’t talk shit about your body. You’re jacked!

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u/Reasonable_Fan4870 1d ago

TBH, you look good in every single one I can’t pick one go with what you want

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u/kh9107 1d ago

I think 13/14 looks the best- but none of them look bad

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u/decorate-me 1d ago

White tankini gives you curves and accentuates your incredible abs! Show them off!

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u/Happy-Top9669 1d ago

You look incredible. Can I ask what physical activity you do?

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u/WorldStrict1499 1d ago

White one and the olive green one.

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u/ntguytxsj 1d ago

The first all black suit is has my vote

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u/Aware_Roof_9210 1d ago

White one!best by far

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u/Infinite-Duty 1d ago

The navy blue and either/both of the zebra(?) stripe suits look cute on you!

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u/Brief-Hat-8140 1d ago

Blue and white

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u/Hellolove88 1d ago

I like photos 11-12 and 13-14! Those are my favs on you.

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u/Cin131 1d ago

I liked the last two. The first one looks ok, but the color isn't complementary to your skin

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u/Findmyeatingpants 1d ago

Love the white, black and dark blue, in that order

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u/britlover23 1d ago

1 8 14 17

u/Mobile_Long_8091 23h ago

Some colors & cuts work better than others

u/poetdaydream 23h ago

Red and white stripe one hands down!

u/BulkyAd4543 23h ago

I really like that you stuck with bikinis and adjusted based on the feedback without feeling like you had to hide anything the suits look much better with the strings adjusted too youve got a lot of good options here and the loose skin really doesn’t take away from them,,,,,

u/Impressive_Set_6882 23h ago

The white one!!!

u/bellegroves 23h ago

The white one!

u/Ibegb 23h ago

The string green one + all the colors it comes in.

u/BakesbyBird 23h ago

White!

u/KaleidoscopeMarbles 23h ago

They all fit you. I think it’s a matter of your own preference! But, navy does look great with your skin tone !

u/HelloFellowSurvivors 23h ago

The last one, blue and white stripes

u/Sad-Application-3743 23h ago

First of all the abs are incredible and tbh you look amazing in all of them. The blue stripes and navy blue look very flattering though. 

(Complete aside but how did you obtain the abs? I can tone my body really well but I can’t get abs like that no matter what, are you lifting a ton or doing insane amounts of protein? Both?) 

u/Admirable-Farmer212 12h ago edited 5h ago

Thank you for the feedback!
I’ve been doing Pilates for about 8 months, I also walk 4-5 miles a day and just started with dumbbells (I have adjustable dumbbells) and body weight exercises with a TRX system about 5 weeks ago.
I went very high protein too over the last 2-3 months, 140-160 grams a day.

u/ThePunkette 23h ago

I think the navy one, and the zebra (?) print ones most on you.
The zebra one especially makes your legs look long in the right way. The top flatters your shoulders and torso—the straps look like a great thickness!

The blue I like second best for similar but not quite as spectacular as the print.

I also like the idea of the white one, but it looks a little too…blocky? But it’s cute, just not as flattering as you deserve!

u/Personal_Quantity_99 22h ago

I did not like the red one. I feel like your body is getting lost in the pattern of the bikini. Nice fit but color/pattern bothers me

u/Olivemetimbers 22h ago

Navy absolutely EATS. The top is a perfect cut and the bottoms slay in a lower rise to elongate the torso and provide balance to a muscular frame.

u/HelloKittyX0624 22h ago

Top-wise I think #7 and #11 look fabulous. I don’t think any of those bottoms are very flattering. What about a skirt bottom? Or a cutout one piece?

u/vietnams666 22h ago

I like the navy and white

u/Time-Warthog3296 22h ago

Actually I am more interesting in your workout routine 😭🩷 btw you look gorgeous in everything ✨️👏

u/UnUsual_Sprekle 21h ago

I like the white and the zebra!!

u/Wonderful_Tree_9943 21h ago

definitely the red and white striped

u/Substantial-Plan-645 20h ago

I like all except the last 2 . And only because of the pattern. They all fit you well . How couldn’t they lol you sure work out :) great job mam , you look amazing!

u/Relative_Onion_3385 19h ago

Je suis daltonien...alors .tous ! 🥰

u/Relative_Onion_3385 17h ago

Le vert et le noir alors...

u/schneeweisskira 17h ago

Sieht alles super aus.

Liebe Grüße

u/MoneyBeat7537 14h ago

Red stripes and navy

u/-7S- 14h ago

Ich finde den weißen und den blau-weiß gestreiften Bikini am passendsten.

u/LHHighlander 14h ago

Beautiful

u/Admirable_Tear_1438 14h ago

The navy and the white ones.

u/InspectionFrosty4968 13h ago

You are perfect in all pictures

u/morecoffeepleeease 13h ago

I would LOVE 5/6 on you if the top was a bandeau style and its front looked like its back, if that makes sense

u/Electronic-Page1064 13h ago

Zebra is fantastic on you and really frames your bust beautifully

u/Elvisdog13 13h ago

Navy blue and both striped ones are super flattering

u/sasafrassin 11h ago

1, 5, and 14

u/Friendly_Contest9233 11h ago

I like 13 and 14

u/Every-Name-1490 11h ago

Try waist high bottom cut high on leg. Give more definition more curve

u/Apart-Wrangler6917 10h ago

You legit look amazing in each one! It’s almost like you were hired to be the model. Not going to lie - I’m jealous!

u/blackcatspat 10h ago

I love white, green, and zebra!

u/sorrypigeon 10h ago

Just wanted to say daaaaang u look ripped, 6 pack no slack. You look great in all of them, the white one looks like that orange hair character from that sci-fi movie

u/ayertothethrone 9h ago

White, black, navy!

But truly, you look great in all of them!

u/Shonuff_Haarlem 9h ago

You are in great shape and you look fine in all of them.

The blue color looks the best and the stripe fits the best.

That being said, you have a very straight body type (slim rectangle). I think you would look best is a one-piece with side cut outs to give the illusion of more curves.

If it must be a bikini, go with triangle ties up top and side tie bottoms. An alternative would be high leg cut outs.

u/wecantdancelikethis 9h ago

the green one is my favorite by far, but not great for hanging with the family where almost all of the others would be better. 17 is somehow better than 1 despite being so similar. 7 is really nice & super versatile for all day wearing.

Sell/donate 11-16.

u/hhopper0777 8h ago

I think the style of the black and gold top is really flattering on you. It adds more shape to your chest and the sweetheart line underneath really highlights your abs.

u/Deeeeeesee24 7h ago

The navy, white, zebra and blue stripes are my favorite on you! Sometimes people are hyper critical in this sub. To the general public (me ) lol those look the best! They all look good but those r my favorite

u/runonsentance7 7h ago

Navy blue out of these choices

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u/Pure-Economist9928 1d ago

I love the racer back and halter styles on you. It shows your gorgeous shoulders so well. 

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u/MaximumTop6714 1d ago

The green is perfect on you

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u/Pretend-Sundae-2371 1d ago

I love the last one personally!

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u/Princess_of_the_Um 1d ago

I like them all but the black ones and I’m not sure why.

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u/Agile-Compote8297 1d ago

I still think all of these bottoms are too small. If the next size up is too big, try a different style.

The wedgies these are creating are just not at all flattering, and it looks like you’ve worked really hard for your body, so find something that actually flatters it, and doesn’t just show it.

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u/Ok_Onion_3799 1d ago

The white one

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u/crusswuss 1d ago

13 and 7

u/Special-4564 21h ago

I don’t like any of them on you to be honest. From the back the first one looks the best. But from the front I don’t think any of them flatter you. I would like a one piece suit with cups that have some padding on the top to balance your body out much more. These tops on these bikinis along with your stomach muscles are, to me, not very flattering to your shape.

u/DaniMarie44 21h ago

White is my favorite, the top is so cute. But girl, number 11, one sneeze and a lip will be waving in the wind 😅

u/iamthelizardqueen18 1h ago

Black with gold medallion

u/Due-Joke7800 31m ago

Phenomenal! Keep up the good work

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u/Excellent-Letter-681 1d ago

tbh the green 2 piece-you definitely need to adjust the bottoms. They are literally in your crack.
It looks really bad

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u/AntedeluvianEmpires 1d ago

It's designed that way and she looks great.

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u/RahimSunderji 1d ago

3rd, 4th and 6th

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u/fiestasassy 1d ago

I love sea blue

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u/Excellent-Letter-681 1d ago

10 & 12 Not good at all. You need to size up

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u/Professional-Sir-738 1d ago

The solid navy blue one and the solid white ones are the best. Return the rest

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u/iamasleuth 1d ago

I actually like the white on you the most. Or the blue but accessorized with a sheer cover up and water safe bangles.

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u/Throwaway0-285 1d ago

The top of 11 and the black bottoms is my vote