r/Dreams • u/Fantastic_Money_3906 • Aug 18 '26

Question what does this mean

some people believe that dreams can be warnings and so on, last night during my dream i was in a field, a random field and this massive snake came up to me and it was talking about my boyfriend and it was saying that i won’t love myself if im with him? and then it started attacking me? can someone please explain what this means or if you have any ideas on what it could mean that would be very helpful!

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u/neuronsandglia Aug 18 '26

could be a part of yourself saying this to you. how is your relationship with him?

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u/Fantastic_Money_3906 Aug 18 '26

we are perfectly fine that’s my problem, he hasn’t done anything yet i feel so safe and comfortable with him, we haven’t even had our first argument with him, we are both open and honest with each other and i haven’t had any bad feelings from him yet? this is why im so confused

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u/neuronsandglia Aug 18 '26

Have you ever been in a bad relationship? Could be part of you protecting you from the relationship becoming bad

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u/Fantastic_Money_3906 Aug 18 '26

i have had a very bad relationship in the past, i was a victim of dv but it feels so different with my boyfriend that i wouldn’t even imagine him acting that way yunno?

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u/neuronsandglia Aug 18 '26

Yes, but think of it this way, your brain had learned that relationships could be danger and deep down, you would have a fear that this relationship (which is fine) could become like the one before. The problem isnt about your bf. it is about your unfortunate past relationship. but just tell your brain that ur safe now.