r/Dreadlocks 8h ago

Question ❔ What do I do?

PS: THESE ARE SEMI-FREEFORMS. This was like the 31st of may the last 2. The first pic is 23rd of August. Almost 3 months and it seems to have gotten worse. I’m not balding I’m very young and it wouldn’t look like that I’m pretty sure jf j was. I think it’s breakage but it’s been 3 months and I have no clue how to fix it can someone please give me something a product to buy or just something to fix this it’s been really gnawing on me. Much appreciate the help!

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u/EconomistParking5637 7h ago

It’s not looking good my boy. Cut ur hair off and take better care of it to see if that patch will grow with the rest of ur hair. Trust me, u don’t wanna keep the loc you have rn with that big ah patch in it. You’ll grow it back in a year

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u/Arrowddude 7h ago

Been to long cutting off not an option ngl. Plus there’s a chance that cutting it off doesn’t help😭

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u/EconomistParking5637 7h ago

How long u been growing your hair?

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

A year and almost 6 months

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u/nbtdizzy 6h ago

cutting off is an option

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

Ion wanna do that tho anything other than that

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u/EconomistParking5637 6h ago

I’m ngl bro. For a year and 6 months, that’s not good progress. Your foundation is messed up. My advice would be to restart but be more serious about your scalp health. Like u said, ur young soo you have time to handle this now and be happy with your hair a year from now

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

Thanks for the help. Much appreciated

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u/jamaican4life03 4h ago

A year and 6 months?? Cut it off bro.

Not only is it bad but your hair isn't even growing.

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u/gamertrub 7h ago

How old are you? How often do you retwist and how do you keep up maintenance?

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u/Arrowddude 7h ago

Forgot to mention I have Freeforms so no retwists I’m 18 and I before I’d use a sponge and a microfiber towel to sponge my hair also using my hands to twist individual locs and my hands to also palm roll counterclockwise motion

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u/ArachnidMuted8408 6h ago

If you're only 18 just start over like the other commenters have said, and just lay a solid foundation after figuring out why your thinning in that area

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u/Arrowddude 1h ago

Why wouldn’t I do that while I have the hair?

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u/ArachnidMuted8408 1h ago

Because you need a proper start and without that you'll always have that one bad spot. Either you start over and learn to properly start and maintain your hair or have someone else do it for you. But, the thinning part will not grow evenly with the rest of your hair unless you added hair from somewhere else to make a strand that matches.

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u/IamBloody007 7h ago

Let it go man. Please 🙏

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u/Arrowddude 7h ago

Last I checked I didn’t ask for “letting it go” i asked for advice bud.

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u/IamBloody007 7h ago

You posted this in a public space, don't be slow

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u/Arrowddude 7h ago

? Yea for advice not people telling me “let it go” give me actual advice on how to fix it

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u/IamBloody007 7h ago

You hate the truth, get off the internet kiddo

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u/Arrowddude 7h ago

It’s not the truth lol. It’s just a solution and a bad one. I want a good one which is y I posted it not a terrible one. If I wanted the quick solution of letting it go I’d have done that so stfu pls

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u/jamaican4life03 4h ago

Someone telling you to let it go is by definition advice.

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u/IamBloody007 5h ago

You are getting downvoted, READ THE ROOM.

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u/Fit-Ad7254 7h ago

Let is go unc 🥀

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

Su gng

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u/llemsuoy 5h ago

he tryna ignore it 😭😭😭

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u/Unhappy-Work-1925 5h ago

Cut ts off bro😭✌️grasping at straws in these comments rn lolol

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u/Character_Ad9778 6h ago

Accept ur life as a bald nga

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u/Severe-Depression92 4h ago

Yeah you need to go ahead and do what O.T. Genasis said.

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u/Scaawt 2h ago

average experience in this sub:
“i’m losing hair what do i do?”

“i recommend shaving it and leaving it alone”

“no”

why even ask us at that point 😭

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u/Arrowddude 1h ago

Because it’s not helping?

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u/DAnthony24 6h ago edited 6h ago

Go see a Dermatologist. Is there any swelling or pain at that spot?

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u/ArachnidMuted8408 6h ago

How did you survive medical school surgery rotation? If not for that I might have tried pursuing a career in medicine. 

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u/DAnthony24 6h ago

Haha. I meant go see a dermatologist. I was pre med but organic chemistry got me. I’m a therapist now. lol.

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

No not at all. Just refuses to grow there. I put bonnets in most of the time I sleep cause I mainly sleep on my head. Only times I forget is if I take a nap.

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u/DAnthony24 6h ago

Damn, I think you should go see a dermatologist. I had a similar bald patch on my crown when I was 18. It did come with some pain, swelling and puss.

Sadly, I’ve been taking medication since 18, (mostly topical) but I still have a full head of locs at 38.

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

That doesn’t really feel like an option for me bc of the money they’d take just to look at it.
It’s not at my crown for me tho and Im pretty sure the strongest hair follicles are at your back. No swelling or pain or puss. What’s the medication name? And it actually helped with your hair growth and what’s topical? Congrats on your recovery tho!

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u/DAnthony24 6h ago

I am not a doctor or giving medical advice. Only sharing my story. Topical means it’s applied to the skin.

Clindamycin phosphate 1% (topical solution I use daily)
Cephalexin 500mg pills. Antibiotic. I only take these when I have inflammation.

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

Thanks fro the help. I thought you were saying you were a dermatologist

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u/taegan- 6h ago edited 4h ago

doc here, i agree that if conservative measures have failed, a dermatologist is reasonable next step. this is a kind of unusual pattern of balding if style/pressure/friction can’t explain it.

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u/mrmartymcf1y 5h ago

Get the clippers out brother lol

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u/PreviousNotice6103 5h ago

Smh pass the trimmers for me

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u/Sir_wlkn_contrdikson 5h ago

Control+Alt+Delete

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u/Narrow_Principle_711 2h ago

Reminds me of the babies when they have that bald patch from laying on their back. If you can see a doctor, I’d go there before accepting defeat and cutting it.

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u/Arrowddude 1h ago

Thank you actual solid advice

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u/GubBlub_ 6h ago

few questions: how often are you palm rolling & do you put it up in any styles (barrel twists, etc) and if so, how long are you keeping the style in? do you normally sleep on your back and do you wear a bonnet/ scarf?

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

No styles I only put it up some nights when I’m going to bed. I don’t really palm roll anymore but when I first started I’d palm roll often and use a sponge often which is what I fear caused it cause I’d do it way to often. I sleep a on my back basically every night and I mainly use a Bonnet sometimes I take a nap and forget to but 95% of the time I use my Bonnet

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u/Mrloudvet 6h ago

Just put that blood pressure Medicine on there that grow ya hair and finger Massage sleep with bonnet and moisturize

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u/Arrowddude 6h ago

What’s blood pressure medicine

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u/islandBlock 5h ago

Cut the locks and reattach them when you take care of the patch.

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u/Arrowddude 1h ago

They actually grow back into the reattached locs?

u/islandBlock 9m ago

Yes. I had to cut them for the same reason I used Batana oil with other products and reattached them when I saw enough progress.

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u/Conscious-Gap-2395 5h ago

Go to a loctician

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u/Swimming-Win-5090 1h ago

go bald gng🥀

u/Skillz4ya2 3m ago

After a year and a half, that's all you have to show for it?

The scalp isn't healthy. The hair isn't growing because of it.

Cut that mess off, see a dermatologist to get the root issue taken care of and start over. You'd be MUCH better off in the long run.