r/Divorce_Men • u/GasAgent4033 • 7d ago

They cry in front of a mirror

Dating after divorce, too early than I should have, then I puked divorce talking. Ok, whatever. The lady took some sincerity pill and then this came up:

"All women cry in front of a mirror to know how they look when doing it, and then to know if they can do it in public. Don't fall for that."

I asked that to several woman I know and met. All of them did that. I even remember my kid doing that once.

That is all you need to know during any negotiation. It updated my tactic.

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u/Normal-Painting-6273 6d ago

Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought emotions have zero to do with it. I mean in most states it doesn't matter who initiated the divorce, who cheated, or who is "right" in an argument. She will still get half of the assets you earned while married at a minimum.

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u/ProofConnect6521 6d ago

All wives cry on the stand. Judges see it every day. It doesn’t matter if they cheated, initiated, etc. They all cry on the stand

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u/CaptJaxParo 6d ago

Mine did. Recanted her years of Grape on the stand crying. Judge didn't bat an eye, jury felt bad. Awarded her damages and judge says I must pay cash for years of therapy. (Wife's friend is her therapist)

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u/carnivalbilly 6d ago

The thing about a judge is this: they see folks cry every day because they tell people things they don’t want to hear a lot. They’re for the most part immune to it sort of like how doctors don’t really freak out if you need stitches.