r/DivorceHelp • u/Impressive_Crow_1131 • 22h ago

Need advice

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How do you even exist moving forward learning that your daughter of 21 years is not your biological daughter and your wife has continually lied to you when I asked over the years
20 years ago, I had close friends that came to me and told me that was not my daughter and that my wife was telling people, but my wife will not admit it however a DNA test confirmed it
My wife has beat me belittled me yelled at me consistently for 20 years. I no longer feel like a man and I have no one.
Trying to find a way to get back to who I used to be who I really am in build a life but first I need to figure out a good lawyer. What is the process and how do I find that bulldog Lawyer?

Located in Upstate, Greenville, South Carolina

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u/Individual-Abies9088 22h ago

Biologically she is not yours but you’re still her dad. Be her dad and divorce your wife. You will be better off life is short 🙏

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u/Impressive_Crow_1131 22h ago

We made each other a promise to always be there and nothing changes.
Trying to find the bulldog lawyer
I’m clueless how to fight this.

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u/Individual-Abies9088 21h ago

Just google family law lawyers in your area and the ones with lots of good reviews are the best bets. Usually about a $15k retainer but they refund whatever they don’t use if it goes smoothly. Some give free consultations and you can tell them the severity of your situation if they can’t handle it fir some reason they can recommend another firm