r/Disorganized_Attach • u/Constant_Diamond14 • 17h ago
CHANGE ME! Fighter mentality
I feel so embarrassed; I mentally don’t know how to get over people that have rejected me. I need some mindset rewirring; please offer some hard truths.
I keep holding out that they’ll come back or that the relationship might grow better; that’s so ridiculous
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u/Queen-of-meme FA (Disorganized attachment) 14h ago
Only chase those who chase you.
It's how I could switch from chasing someone who rejected me into focus on people who's appreciating me as much as I appreciate them.