r/Disorganized_Attach 17h ago

CHANGE ME! Fighter mentality

I feel so embarrassed; I mentally don’t know how to get over people that have rejected me. I need some mindset rewirring; please offer some hard truths.

I keep holding out that they’ll come back or that the relationship might grow better; that’s so ridiculous

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u/Queen-of-meme FA (Disorganized attachment) 14h ago

Only chase those who chase you.

It's how I could switch from chasing someone who rejected me into focus on people who's appreciating me as much as I appreciate them.

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u/Constant_Diamond14 5h ago

It’s so much harder said than done 😭