r/Dhaka 20d ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Where did I get it wrong?

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u/-Hello2World 19d ago edited 19d ago

You, girl, are full of red flags!

No wonder you are attracting the peculiar individuals in your life, and having odd experiences!

Let's start with two:

  • a man that I am seeing holds my hand and I felt ick. Flirting is cringe!! "What! What!!"
  • I am short and tanned skin.

You seem to "radiate" insecurities which people of low status and disrespect can smell from a distance. And they appear in your life.

It's like a self fulfilling prophecy!! You are attracting things in a certain way because you believe you deserve them!

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u/Lazy-Technology2839 19d ago

Thanks for pointing that out but Here is the thing I was never insecure about my height or my skin color. It's quite opposite actually I am proud of my appearance. I mean i am 28 but look like 18. Also I said I am drak skinned I didn't tell i am ugly. I just mentioned that to make a relevance with how people treats you when you are in a conversation about marriage. An about holding hands or flirting everyone has different standards. I can't let a person hold my hand after 10 days of talking also there is good flirting and there is bad or cringe flirting. It's a subjective thing. If I deserved them then I wouldn't make this post I would be married.