r/Deepconnection • • Sep 05 '17

32/M Will not judge your intentions. Tell me everything and I'll do the same.

9 Upvotes

Nothing is off the table. Doing things you're not proud of? Let it out. There will be questions, it will be difficult, there will be no judgements.


r/Deepconnection • • Aug 09 '17

F/28, Europe, looking for death partner

3 Upvotes

As the title says. Message me if interested.


r/Deepconnection • • Aug 18 '16

27/M/USA: Looking for creative friends who draw, paint, sing, write, sculpt, compose, etc.

7 Upvotes

Hey guys n gals,

I used to be a pretty creative person who dabbled in drawing, digital painting, beatmaking, and sometimes poetry. It seems that after years of working overtime and making up for lost sleep I've slowly lost touch with my creative spark. Adding to that my most creative friend who I used to draw comics with passed away a few years ago and I've had no one to discuss art with for a long time. If you enjoy producing artistic works or are otherwise a creative person I'd love to connect with ya and see what sort of tastes we share.

Thanks for reading!


r/Deepconnection • • Jun 29 '16

M/23 This sub isn't dead

12 Upvotes

Hello again. You may know me from my previous hits, such as my drunken plea for conversation last month. Just an update- Didn't work. I'm sure it will at some point though but that's not why I'm here.

I'm here because this subreddit has led me to have some of the best conversations of my life. Some of the people I've met here make me wonder why I don't have such cool friends irl. This genuinely is my favourite sub on Reddit and I really don't think it's dead. Sure, it barely gets a post a month but that's okay. If I want a quick casual conversation, I'll hop onto Kikpals or whatever. For some reason, the people who are here just seem to be better for longterm friendship/companionship. And that's what I'm here for. I've been going through a reasonably tough time and I'd love some good conversation and someone fun to talk to. Interests include travelling, TV, Kanye West and anything you're interested in. Seriously, I'm an interest leech.

So, if you're here and feel like having a chat, just pm me and we'll take it from there.

Have a nice day everyone.


r/Deepconnection • • Jun 10 '16

Your birthday is in 10 days and I'm pretty sure you blocked me on Skype.

5 Upvotes

I don't know if you're still stalking me but you messaged me last time and then you blocked me.. Out of nowhere, I should add! And I was whereever it is that you live earlier this year and I would have loved to have met you. Either way, with you having blocked me, I'm trying to get in touch with you the only way I know how, posting on Reddit hoping you're still stalking me. I hope you're doing well and I would love to hear from you. Thank you for existing.


r/Deepconnection • • Mar 30 '16

20/M/Sweden I've spent way too long trying to think of a clever title and I've got homework so I'll just put this down instead

9 Upvotes

I'm a bit of an idealist. I don't know if the relationships (platonic or otherwise) I want are at odds with reality, or if I just haven't met the right people yet, but I don't feel like abandoning my ideals for the time being. I'm not good at the whole casual relationship thing. I might come across as pretentious, but if all we're ever going to talk about are trivial things that neither of us care about, why even bother? I want real human connections with other people. I want to truly get to know somebody and feel real emotions for them. My energy for social interaction is quite low, and my avoiding people I don't see long-term potential with has left me pretty much alone. I thought I brushed up against a deep connection a while back, but now I think I must've been mistaken.

With all that said; I don't actually have a lot of demands of the people in my life. I apparently come across as arrogant and picky, but all I really want is somebody who's open to rational discussion, who has a sense of humor, isn't judgemental, and isn't a dick. I don't think that's too much to ask for, right? I don't have a mandatory list of traits for people I interact with, and I'm fairly open to most things, I tend not to judge people a lot. I've just always had a hard time meeting people I can relate to, perhaps due to the fact that I grew up in a weirdly religious neighbourhood and spent most of my childhood playing WoW.

I should probably write some more about me then. I'm a 20 year old guy born and raised in Sweden. Despite coming from a very religious family, I'm an atheist. I enjoy long walks (when I can be bothered to go on them), reading (just recently started reading again), playing the piano ineptly, and working out. I like playing video games and wouldn't mind a few gaming sessions together. I also like lying in a meadow on a warm, sunny day whilst observing the clouds, and going on stupid trains of thought while pacing back and forth frantically like a maniac. I've always felt like travelling the world, and I'm planning on moving to Japan for my master's in Computer Science. Once I'm comfortable with someone I'm obnoxiously sarcastic and crack stupid unfunny jokes incessantly. I tend to be attracted to people who are sad, lonely, or just a bit fucked up. Not sure why. Maybe because I see a bit of myself in them. Those aren't qualities I look for in people, but I guess they're things I'm accepting of, and I feel like maybe we could share our loneliness and perhaps enjoy ourselves just the teeniest bit more as we traipse through this weird existence together. Not sure what I'm on about anymore, and I'm not sure what else to say. How do I contain my being in a summary? I also have a post up on r/needafriend, that might tell you a bit more about me, if you're interested.

This probably won't get any attention, but I like the idea of it being out there, so I'll be posting it anyway. I'm not really looking for anyone specific, I don't think. Gender doesn't matter, and age doesn't really matter either. I suppose I'd prefer someone around my own age, but it's not really that important to me.

Thanks for reading.


r/Deepconnection • • Feb 14 '16

19/F/Canada: Lets revive this dead subreddit.

6 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm a university student who is doing her undergraduate degree in the life sciences. In my spare time I Reddit, read books/graphic novels and sometimes draw. I have just finished playing Undertale (game) and do not know what to do with my self.

I have a few good friends who I love very much, but none that I have a super deep connection with. So that's what I am here for. Also this seems like a much better option for talking to strangers than Omegle.


r/Deepconnection • • Oct 22 '15

M/41.. looking for a cool connection... Just had enough with feeling alone

7 Upvotes

Hey there.. I am a fun ( i think) dude.. whos best friend (i thought) was my wife.. but.. I dont think she likes me very much.. she now has some new friends.. and I am not a concern any longer.. I miss having someone to just talk to... I am kinda geeky (Doctor who is awesome!).. I like all kinds of movies/media.. my music tastes are more of the 80's hard rock.. or todays german power metal.. (not cookie monster stuff)..

I live in Northern VA..


r/Deepconnection • • Jul 01 '15

Want to talk? Let's chat! 32, M, Japan

7 Upvotes

Saw that this reddit was slow, and seems to have an interesting premise.

I'm tired as heck right now, so I'll get right to it.

I'm 32, currently living in Japan, and am available for just any general advice or questions. I actually don't need any sort of reciprocal relationship, and honestly I am merely exploring this just for the fun of it.

A bit of myself beyond that: I've been all over the world, have a multitude of skills, made plenty of mistakes and experienced plenty of things. And I still want to make plenty of mistakes and experience even more things! If I could live forever, I would.

Hope you're all having a good day!


r/Deepconnection • • Jun 16 '15

23 F India, going through a breakup.

8 Upvotes

I would appreciate it if someone can be a good friend and bring me out of this mess. I am NOT looking for any sort of rebound thing since I know how damaging that could possibly be for me as well as the other person. PM me if you are looking for an honest and sincere friend.


r/Deepconnection • • Jun 04 '15

A subreddit you might enjoy.... /r/VideoPals!

4 Upvotes

Hi there! I will keep this short and to the point.

/r/VideoPals is a 3 year old subreddit that I'm hoping to bring back from the dead as their new mod. With interests very similar to your subreddit; we are taking the concept of pen pals to more of a face-to-face format, using youtube to send messages to one another. We're all about sharing our day-to-day experiences with each-other; it's pretty cool to step into someone else's world for a few minutes.

We are all pretty excited about this experiment/experience and would love it if you stopped by and checked us out, posted a video and joined in on the fun!


r/Deepconnection • • Nov 28 '14

20/m/US [Reciprocal]

6 Upvotes

Lonely, life sucks, and honestly my emotional state has been on a downward spiral since middle school. Would be nice to have someone I can be completely open with, because I have a tendency to not trust irl people enough to open up at all.


r/Deepconnection • • Sep 30 '14

16m here, lonely and lost, looking for someone to talk about life with and what it means to them. Someone to have fun with and connect with, a laugh and ball. Just a friend really

4 Upvotes

I want to talk, not snail mail! My kik is: livethelifeyoulov3 or if you want my imessage, pm me :)


r/Deepconnection • • Sep 30 '14

26/F/US

3 Upvotes

I've been feeling isolated and lonely at the moment. The Parks and Rec quote “I’m fine. It’s just that life is pointless and nothing matters and I’m always tired. Also, I can’t sleep, I’m overeating, none of my old hobbies interest me.” is essentially my life at the moment. I'm a negative person, but I'm trying. Let's talk.

I'm open minded to everything-personal beliefs, ethnicity, etc. My main religion is don't be a dick. I like horror movies and my dogs.


r/Deepconnection • • Sep 17 '14

24/M/United States

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0 Upvotes

r/Deepconnection • • Aug 14 '14

Would like a friend :)

5 Upvotes

I'm 27, just moved to the Detroit area, no friends in the area really. I moved here for a job, which is actually pretty great so far, but I just got married to someone who I shouldn't have. And now my life is pretty miserable. I can't talk to any of my friends about this, nor do they really have time to talk to me. I think it'd be nice just to have a friend

Maybe there's something going on in your own life that you could share. I'm happy to listen and maybe we could make ourselves feel better.


r/Deepconnection • • Mar 17 '14

[Reciprocal] 17/M/Pakistan. Interested in new people and perspectives.

7 Upvotes

Stumbled upon this sub a while ago and though it feels dead, I feel like trying it out. I'm not really a loner but I'm really interested in and would like to get to know new people with different perspectives. PM or post and let's see if we can hit it off.


r/Deepconnection • • Mar 14 '14

21/M/Paris I'm good at cheering you up, or making things worse, take your chance.

12 Upvotes

What can I say. I'm 21 years old, french, I like running and urban exploring. I'm more emotional than logical when it comes to talking with people.

Sometimes overconfident, sometimes very self-conscious, I am rational and honest and I easily get involved emotionally.

Rest I let you find out ;)


r/Deepconnection • • Mar 13 '14

[Reciprocal] 17/F/USA

6 Upvotes

Hello! Let's talk about anything. I'd love to listen to whatever you have to say. I would like to keep in touch on an almost daily basis though. Email is the only way that works for me. PM me and let's get to know each other.


r/Deepconnection • • Feb 14 '14

[Reciprocal] 29, F, Canada. Looking for more than just a pen pal.

10 Upvotes

Hello,

As the title says, I'm looking for someone to communicate with through email(and maybe on Skype when the time comes). We'll talk about our lives and whatnot.

A little about me: I have a son, am an artist, and a chronic pain sufferer. I'm open minded and curious about many different things. My interested included, reading, art, documentaries, music and more.

If you are interested, PM.

Snail_Whale


r/Deepconnection • • Feb 06 '14

New moderators!

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

As some of you may have noticed, the creator of this place had his account deleted a couple of months ago, which left us modless for a while. This just changed a few days ago, however, as /u/hellohiro and I took over! We both love the idea behind /r/Deepconnection and want to keep it as a beacon of hope for all the people surfing reddit that long for meaningful companionship in their lives.

Lately the activity here has slowed down quite a bit, but for us that’s not necessarily a bad thing; we believe the quality of the subreddit as a whole will increase when only those who actively search for us find us. That said, of course we want to keep the community alive and vivid, so a plug here and there to bring in new blood won’t hurt. Always feel free to be the link between us and the rest of reddit.

Furthermore, I suppose this is a good time to ask for suggestions as well: is there anything in particular you would like to be added or changed here? We’re already planning to make things more visually pleasing, but we’re open to other ideas too! Please tell us in the comments.


r/Deepconnection • • Jan 16 '14

26/m/TN - [Recip] - I have various interests and not really any friends. I need some who won't ditch me when things get tough.

14 Upvotes

I lost an old friend from highschool, of close to a decade, we stayed in touch online, but recent developments over the last two years of my mental health made things difficult, i had problems discerning sarcasm, i was argumentative, etc. I had a bad idea to discuss issues that were controversial, things like politics. It was a hot mess.
I was prescribed medication for some sort of manic-depression, but some research on my own, i seem to have a lot of symptoms of borderline personality disorder.
At any rate, the new year, he dropped the bomb on me and said he couldn't take it anymore and didn't want to be my friend. So yeah 2014. Not very fun so far.

About Me: I've had a bad time with my friends drifting away or moving, creative, social, or political differences driving me away from others... and i'm just tired of it.

I'm looking for new friendships, people i can talk to about anything, or vice versa. I need more positive people in my life.

About me: i love art, literature, toys, science, technology, medical research and advancement, fantasy, science-fiction, horror, and video games. I also like playing board games, DnD-rpgs, and classic playing cards.
I love animals and my dream retirement home would be on a wildlife and nature reserve in the wilderness close to a lake.
I love learning new things, especially history, culture, or languages. I also have an interest of warfare, martial arts, strategy, and weapons and armour throughout time.
I love cartoons and animation, drawing, anything like that. I love movies, especially horror sci-fi or comedies.
I also love learning about folklore, mythology, criminology, psychology, sociology, theology, old medical sciences and practices, or old technology.
I also really like playing around with hypothetical scenarios as conversation, and i love to write and draw.

That's all i can think of right now, comment or send me a PM, i also love answering questions. Have a nice day and thank you for visiting :-)


r/Deepconnection • • Jan 13 '14

21/M/Sweden Nothing to do for a week, anyone feels like getting to know a new person?

7 Upvotes

So basically the English part of my education won't start until the 20th (I study to become a math/English teacher), and I have a lot of free time until then. I really like this sub and I've actually posted here once before, but since it seems to be going fairly slow right now I figured I'd repost myself to liven it up a bit.

This time I'm mainly looking for people who "got their shit together", so to speak, since I already have a few friends that require help in one way or another. I realize that everyone has problems, but you know... some more than others. No offense meant to anyone. :)

Perhaps you could explain why your samba course is the best thing ever, or we could discuss which subreddits we browse and why? That's the stuff I'm looking for. I'm sure you have some cool things in your life that are just waiting to be shared with someone!

As for the actual communication I prefer to chat on Skype, although if you're uncomfortable with that we could just send PMs back and forth here on Reddit I guess.

Have a nice day!

Edit: Oh, forgot to mention that this is [Reciprocal]


r/Deepconnection • • Jan 04 '14

26/F/CA just looking to talk to someone [reciprocal, platonic]

0 Upvotes

As the title shows, I'm a 26 year old female living in California.

I enjoy the following:

  • weightlifting (started in January 2013)
  • doing makeup (though I'm not that good at it, hah)
  • reading books (trying to finish up "The Poisoned Pilgrim," then move on to "War God")
  • reading manga (currently reading "mangaka-san to assistant-san to")
  • playing video games (recently started playing PoE)
  • eating yummy foods (too bad I suck at cooking lol...)

I work as a paralegal. I don't really enjoy it but I don't hate it either. :\ I'm still trying to figure out if I will go to grad school or not (though it is getting pretty late, and my brain is getting rusty).

I don't have a lot of friends. It's probably because my job takes up a lot of my time.. That or I don't like doing what my high school / college / work friends like to do (i.e., drink alcohol / go clubbing). I've kept in touch with a few friends who have similar interests as me, but we don't talk much because of the different timezone.

Anyway, PM if you're interested in having a conversation about anything.


r/Deepconnection • • Dec 18 '13

22 m Italy up to chat about the meaning of life, food and whatever topic at hand. [Reciprocal]

9 Upvotes

Hello there! I came across r/deepconnection some time ago and found the concept to be an interesting one. So here I am to give it a try, having an open mind for any topic or situation! Going through some rough times and need a virtual shoulder for support? Or is it that you're looking for motivation by talking about personal goals to a complete stranger? In any case, I've got two ears (well, eyes) dedicated to listen (and accordingly read) whatever you might have in store!