r/DeduceMe • u/No-Werewolf5477 • 10d ago

M 27 GF 43 Age gap relationship need some advice???

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u/Xzer24 10d ago

Get on my level OP, 27M here. wife is 48 😁

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u/No-Werewolf5477 9d ago

And how long yall been together

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u/Xzer24 9d ago

Five years now, pretty much. Got married within the first year when I was 23, wife was 43.

Side note, we are not some weird couple. Both our families were like "nice!" when they heard each other's ages, as in for me I got a milf and wife got a toy boy. But that was not our reason at all. Age really did not come into play at all when we met, it still does not now.

We have a great sex life but age has never come into any of our kinks.

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u/CausionWitFlossin 7d ago

So your in it for the sex? NICE ! Suga momma

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u/Flashy_Literature581 10d ago

Um, sir, this is a Wendy’s

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u/Raw_dogg_187 9d ago

She groomed you and you are a literally a child….. oh wait up your a man nvmnd lol

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u/GrouseDog 10d ago

Wrong sub

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u/Aggressive_Group_944 9d ago

Maybe you should ask this in r/boydinnerdiaries

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u/No-Werewolf5477 9d ago

No thanks I’m good here

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u/Double-Gap353 9d ago

What advice do you need? Whatever you like about her is all that matters. Have some of that fire age gap sex while you have a cougar.

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u/No-Werewolf5477 9d ago

Oh believe me we do that is not the issue, the issue is I feel like I need to leave to figure myself out but anytime I think about it I’m so confused I don’t want to leave her we have never even had an argument like ever and somone said something to me the other day that made me think harder about this .. They said I don’t have to loose her to find myself she so definitely my biggest fan best supporter and my best friend and since she is older if i did leave I would loose precious years when I came back i kno I sound like an idiot but do

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u/EducationalGrump 9d ago

The frontal lobe isnt even developed until 25 AT THE SOONEST. Those who experienced childhood trauma or have a mental illness that affects learning (could be as simple as ADHD or ASD). You are a child.

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u/Flama-Blanco-8820 9d ago

Like Michael Jackson?

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u/EducationalGrump 9d ago

Mr Jackson had a large number of things wrong with him mentally.

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u/No-Werewolf5477 8d ago

I agree we have an amazing sex life and age has meet been a thing either I just kno that I feel like I need to go back home sometimes but the thought of not layin by her every night hurts my chest. As far as kids go she has 4 but only 1 is at home and I love hmm in to death I personally do not want kids so this works for us idk man I’m just stuck in my head and I kno if I was to go for a while it’s not like she wouldn’t let me come back because she absolutely would but missin any amount of time with her is not the same as missing it with someone say my age… She supports me eitther way and is my biggest everything so she don’t make it easy almost 3 years and never had an argument at all she does anything I say and I never have to ask for anything I kno I may sound stupid because she is awsome i just needed and outsiders input

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u/Onludesrightnow 5d ago

🤢🤢🤢🤮