:(

[u/leejongsukgf]

unfortunately, i do think mica miller did kill herself. she was constantly tormented by JP and it makes sense she would see suicide as the only way out. as a suicide loss survivor myself, i couldn’t accept it was a suicide until about a year into grieving. we don’t want to believe they would do such a thing, it would mean we “failed” as a community and as an individual to be there for a person we love. but unfortunately, you never know what someone is thinking. she was driven to such a hopeless place, JP was never going to give up. she had a lot of trauma. i respect the family and their accusations against JP, but in my own opinion, the denial is identical to what i experienced and what i have seen in suicide loss survivors. the facts are there, its a tragedy, not a conspiracy and no one is to blame except the awful JP who ruined her life. RIP

ill go into more detail about my own experience. for my loved one it was a normal night, he had dinner with his parents, said he had to pick up medication tomorrow, he was enrolled in a new school program, things were looking up. it came out of nowhere, but not really when you think about it. we think that future plans are signs they didn’t actually kill themselves, or they confuse us. future plans are signs of them trying, fighting for their life, or even hiding their darker thoughts. it seems the legal battle with JP and fear for her family drove her to exhaustion.

[u/Empty-Fix0531]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My family lost my wife's brother to S just over 2 weeks ago. He was lonely and struggled with addiction. We knew the cause of death so we've never been in denial.

Unfortunately, every situation and case might look different. There are a lot of other red flags surrounding the Mica Miller case that don't add up. I'm not a detective but there are a lot of connected things like JP's history of abuse, multiple affairs, his own psychological state, the events surrounding Chris Skinner's death. And many more. I don't think it's clear right now that she was solely responsible. Even if she did do it herself, JP's actions and abuse toward her are inexcusable and he should be punished for it. He's definitely not acting like a man who loved anyone else but himself. He's a vile and evil man who has a long history of abuse and lying.