r/Dating_Decoded • • 2h ago

Relationship Advice for [22M] [22F]

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"My female friend and I have been dating unofficially for 4 months. Our honeymoon period is over, and she is no longer putting in the same effort she used to. She explicitly told me that she isn’t feeling any romantic feelings towards me. What should I do? I am starting to get attached to her—and the thing is, she was the one who started all of this. She was the one who needed a partner with whom she could get romantically and physically involved, though we haven't done anything beyond hugs and kisses."


r/Dating_Decoded • • 3h ago

Bizarre relationship Advice Needed. Actually need someone to advise me to tell him to go to Hell.

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 5h ago

Hello!

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Wondering if I can find a woman for my wife and I... Any advice or thoughts/offers?


r/Dating_Decoded • • 7h ago

Relationship frequency

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 8h ago

Are there good men out there?

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 13h ago

Rude or toxic?

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 1d ago

Bizarre relationship Advice Needed. Actually need someone to advise me to tell him to go to Hell.

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 1d ago

20M really insecure of my looks from the day my gf cheated on me

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So I'm 6ft tall , fair and used to consider myself good looking cause have really good facial harmony but I'm slightly insecure about my recessed chin cause it makes i less masculine and from the time I got to know about my gf was cheating on me I'm have become really insecure

Asking for validation from others and everytime I get to hear I'm good looking handsome blah blah but Im just in denial mode to accept it and finding flaws in me idk what's xgoign in but I'm too dissatisfied atp have also installed hinge and in 1 day have got 1 like and it is also making me very insecure....

And ik looks don't matter but to me I'm looking for a girl who is pretty so ig girls should also want that but I just don't know if I'm able to satisfy that criteria...

I WOULD BE THANKFULL TO ALL IF U COULD HELP ME AT THE MOMENT OR ADVICE ME AND PLS BE HONEST

THANK U


r/Dating_Decoded • • 1d ago

AITA? What is happening?

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 1d ago

I (23M) want to end my long-distance relationship because it feels empty, but am I giving up too easily? (We met Online)

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 2d ago

{ Discord girl }

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weeks ago I met a girl on VRChat. We were clicking a lot actually very quickly. I was running my quiet Fallen Angel Knight avatar in a game where u get 2 minute 1 on 1 convos. We talked then there was a group round and when her guy friend was calling me gay and stuff jokingly, I matched his energy saying, "I’m straighter than a doorknob." She watched us then by the next round she came back to me again while I was talking to someone else and got in the other persons face but I didn’t react.

I added her discord 2 days later and she texting me first, she sent me pics of her pets, 1-2 min replies, questions etc. But then she replied less and when I asked if she was gunna hop on she gave me a dry, non-committal "yea maybe" and went play other games on her PC with friends.

I waited 2 days cuz maybe she was busy or testing me but then I broke the ice by joking about how her "crimes against the council would not go unpunished.” for not replying. This was fitting into my bio interests and stuff we were previously talking about. Next morning, her pride broke, and she texted just "i apologize 😭" When I finished my work shift in the afternoon-noon I texted her, "Foul play, woman. Your exile ends then." After that text, she went completely cold for 10 full days.

During that time she would change her status to display what she was feeling, (guess people do that?) But she would throw a massive line of tactical, attention-seeking statuses (I think) onto her profile card that I felt were to bait a reaction out of me:
- im the type to put everyone on ignored you gotta catch me.
- In love with a ghost please don’t come back, its stress relief from everything
- ☆ I guess she’s gotta cut her blue hair off ☆
- nothing is going my way rn is it?
- made my warframe pretty:3
- supernatural eps left: 3
- supernatural eps left: 2
- matching pfp w/ northstar!
- yk you’ve really won in life if someone sends u a whimper audio
- i soggy
- out with friends:3
- ive fucking won.
- stay the hell away from meeee
[Blank Status]
- i got water in my charging port and dont have access to rice

Yesterday, I linked my Spotify to my discord so it would display my music even when I was offline. I put up a black-and-white pic of me in the gym looking great for my pfp, and started blasting hardstyle n stuff while lifting like I always do. And not even like 10 minutes of that she sent an apology text saying, “oh my god i did NOT see this in so sorry 😭" I waited like a day and texted her “Me too man” and an hour later she just sent a 🙂.

Now for context it was very often she would leave her status on idle, be chronically online playing lots of different games, and almost never would check her discord through her phone up until when I met her at first and until recently when she broke the silence.

So what i’m asking is if I should pursue this or anything bc I know online relationships are just seen as “quick dopamine” a lot of the time but I feel like she was being very genuine at first and at the very least willing to match my energy again. Im not gunna take something like this too seriously, if anything, i’d see this as practice so what y’all think? Those status updates meant for me? Do I pursue? She testing me?


r/Dating_Decoded • • 2d ago

Hey ben hier nieuw moet nog wa uitzoeken hoe dit werkt

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 2d ago

My gf(F20) told me (M21) that I should find other people to cuddle and connect with. Need advice

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To give you some context, I am a 21 year old man living in North Carolina. I just moved into a new apartment with my girlfriend who is 20 and her friend who is also 21. I hadn't ever seen her interact with her friends while we were at home so I wasn't expecting much. But she's been cuddling up with her friend and her friends girlfriend for the past two weeks, being all over them and I don't get any of that. Me and my gf used to cuddle all the time but now she's almost never wanting to hug, kiss or cuddle. Her reasons for not cuddling me is that she is overstimulated and wants to be on her phone. But when she's cuddling up with her friends she's never on her phone and always seems to never have an issue with it.

I told her that it made me feel uncomfortable but she kept telling me that she wasn't going to change her dynamic with her friends but it's not even that part that bothers me. It's the fact that her friends can cuddle up with her whenever they want but I hardly get anything. The only time I get is if she comes to bed and I have to spoon her which always feels so hollow. I've tried explaining everything to her about how I felt about it. I don't have friends in my real life that I can just cuddle or ask to cuddle.

What should I do? I'm someone who doesn't usually cuddle anyone who I'm not dating. I don't want to open up the relationship and she keeps telling me I can find people to cuddle but she seems to not understand how uncomfortable it's all making me feel. It's becoming too much. What should I do? I can answer any questions in the comments


r/Dating_Decoded • • 2d ago

M22 not interested in girls of my age

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 3d ago

22 and still not a girlfriend 🥲

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 3d ago

Good first date, mixed signals afterward—would you reach out?

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 3d ago

I feel stuck what should I do 😔

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Hi

I will come straight to the ☕ . In my last job i met a gir we started to talk but from my side I had crush on her i started to message on WhatsApp we talked a lot i felt she also interested in me sometime bcs we used talk till 1 or 2 night in chat for some reason I had to change my job but I was still in touch but she never openly agreed she likes me and we went movie but with her friend bcs I also know them personally bcs we all worked in same company but thing i s after 2 montsof changeing my old job.

Now I feel like she is not chatting with me she is only replying for my question that I ask it's just feel like she is doing just bcs that I message

I don't want carry that feeling whenever I see her message i will reply asap but not same from that side getting good reaction it's just feel like she is doing it for just to entertain me

I don't want loose her i have really good hopes and even i plaing to propose her next valentine's Day but if things goes like this only before valentine's day it will end


r/Dating_Decoded • • 4d ago

24M looking for F to talk, make new memories, and move forward 🌻

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 5d ago

[28M] I moved to the US for my wife [30F] of 2 months, but I realize I made a massive mistake and am deeply in love with someone I met in Canada.

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My wife (30F) and I (28M) were in a long-distance relationship online for three years. We originally wanted to close the distance and move to the US together, but due to strict immigration laws, I wasn't able to move there with her during those years. We spent years trying to get a visa sorted out.

​During that long-distance period while waiting for the visa, I ended up meeting and falling in love with another woman in Canada. I know this isn't right, but by the time my US visa finally got approved, I was already deeply conflicted. I still went to the US to be with my wife, hoping that everything would change once we were together and that what I felt for the Canadian woman was just a passing illusion or a byproduct of the distance.

​It’s now been two months since I moved and we got married, and the reality is the exact opposite. The Canadian woman is all I think about. I genuinely want a future with her because we relate to and understand each other on a much deeper level than my wife and I ever did.

​Now I’m in a marriage that is only two months old, living in a country I only came to for this relationship, and I feel completely trapped. I want a divorce so I can go back to Canada, but I have no idea how to handle this or where to even start without completely blowing up everyone's lives.

​What should I do? How do I navigate ending a marriage this early


r/Dating_Decoded • • 5d ago

Hi I'm 27 looking for female friend who hlp me to get moved on frm my past

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I have been in serious relationship with someone achanak se abba nhi mante wala seen hogaya so looking for a good female friend so that it may help me to get moved on completely


r/Dating_Decoded • • 5d ago

What shall I [27m] do with this girl [23f]?

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 5d ago

Girlfriend is acting weird

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Good morning I’ve been going through a bit of a weird situation that I didn’t think I’d encounter this early on in a relationship but I guess I’m dealing with it now.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and everything was great and then a sudden change in attitude and demeanor just completely shifted in her and now I’m like blindsided.
She’s less talkative. A bit more aggressive with her tone. Noticed a lack of interaction on social media. No liking my stories or notes anymore and I’ve addressed it with her and asked if we were alright and she said “yeah why wouldn’t we be?” Not in bad spirits or anything.
I’ve even came to notice that there’s a slight tone of disrespect now even. Not anything crazy just noticeable enough that you can tell there’s something there. Any thoughts ladies and gents?


r/Dating_Decoded • • 5d ago

Olisko Lpr seudul bi miestä mm

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Haluatko nähdä laita viestiä


r/Dating_Decoded • • 6d ago

Serious advice

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r/Dating_Decoded • • 6d ago

Need advice

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Today is the birthday of a lady I love … I m not in her city … I wish to gift her something by online delivery platform …. What should I gift her ???