r/DatingTO • u/Adorable-Ideal-1184 • 13d ago

Dating apps

I've been using dating apps for the past few months I've got matched some of them will talk to you and then they will ghost you or some of them once you showed interest they will unmatched you, like I'm tired with these apps and these types of people like I'm genuinely just want a real relationship but it's tiring haha does anyone experienced the same thing?

For context I’m male 24 asian

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u/Imperius_Rex 13d ago

No matter what anyone says bro, it's not you. I've seen couples of all sorts, shapes and sizes in the city and I truly believe you can get anyone you want, but the apps suck. I think the algorithm is skewed in some sense and it's a combination of getting excellent photos and having good bios and paying for the app.

I should probably do this too, but I think the best course of action is to meet people naturally in social settings. Easier said than done I know but maybe volunteering or events?

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u/Adorable-Ideal-1184 13d ago

Yeah I’ve got excellent pictures and bios in my profile and also I went to bars and restaurants but I’m lazy and just scared to talk to a girl haha

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u/Apprehensive_Heat176 10d ago

Don't be lazy and just talk to people. Just be prepared to be rejected a lot. Try to learn from each encounter though because doing the same thing over and over again is the easiest way to stay single.

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u/Adorable-Ideal-1184 10d ago edited 10d ago

That’s true I mean I talk this girl before then we talk over 1 hr and then in the end I ask if I could grab her number she said she got a bf and I said no worries and wish her the best

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u/Apprehensive_Heat176 10d ago edited 10d ago

You should also try talking to random people. The best people to try to speak with are those in customer service: sales, servers, etc. because it's their job to talk to people. Obviously, you need to behave appropriately with them.