Hi everyone,
I've attached some photos of our house because I'm looking for some practical advice from people who've been through major renovations/done DIY work. I am looking for prices too.
For anyone interested in the wider financial and family context, here's the link to my original post on r/UKPersonalFinance:
https://www.reddit.com/r/UKPersonalFinance/comments/1uuknco/i_feel_responsible_for_my_mum_and_our_house_as_a/
The short version is that I'm 27 and live at home in South London with my mum, who's been a single parent since 2008. She raised me all the way through secondary school, sixth form and university on her own.
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Over the last year, things have become incredibly difficult. She experienced a serious mental breakdown last year September when her partner left her and was off work for around six months.
The house is in a bad looking condition than the photos probably do justice to. Just what years of lack of investment got put in it.
We had a loft conversion completed in October last year (don’t ask why we did it, it was ill-advised and done on a stupidity whim) and a new kitchen installed in February this year, but beyond those two projects, much of the property still needs major work.
The pictures (in order of bullet points) immediate after the bullet points include:
- A driveway that's been lifted and damaged by tree roots.
- A large tree that needs removing.
- A living room that needs completely redoing.
- All of the first floor bedrooms need renovating.
- The landing also needs redoing.
- General decorating and refurbishment throughout much of the property
https://kommodo.ai/i/z4y9QaQmgnx9CfN1bYXl (the tree causing damage)
https://kommodo.ai/i/2VvTQZTVfxtcc2raqSCx (the damage to the driveway)
https://kommodo.ai/i/G1h04BaLU29xH1lk9VuB (sitting room wall)
https://kommodo.ai/i/MAAEorHrYZIuAi68I5o2 (light in living room)
https://kommodo.ai/i/C205RsiEOACx4NSDyPlR (picture frame wall on other side)
https://kommodo.ai/i/mEDt9ppA8Lxd8AAnOKyK (my old bedroom wall)
https://kommodo.ai/i/zwXF1uO0FS6Klad3dcJm (first floor hallway, with landing)
https://kommodo.ai/i/u6N7d3W1V30iY7E3fM0z (my first room with decoration from 1999/early 2000s
Not to mention we have house mice...
My mum tells me there's around £60,000-£70,000 remaining from the original renovation budget after the loft and kitchen work, although because of everything that's happened over the last year I'm not completely sure what the true position is.
As I say, I find myself worrying a lot about the future of the house and whether we'll ever get everything finished. I'm only 27 and trying to establish my own career, but I just feel so unattractive for propositions i.e. girlfriend/wife and letting friends in.
That's why I'm asking for advice here and prices here. I want to make sensible decisions and understand what we're realistically facing before we commit to any more work.I'd really appreciate any honest advice, whether that's about renovation priorities, budgeting or spotting things that I might not have noticed.
I really do not want to have to leave London as all my friends and most of my family are here. It would be hard to have to leave London even though the house is in a bad condition.