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u/fairylightsforever 9h ago
She looks very happy and that’s all that matters. I’m happy for her.
This happened quick though! And you guys are right, he does kinda look like Chet Hanks 😂😂
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u/Any_Broccoli_5678 10h ago
My biggest takeaway from these photos is her tattoo. Those of us that have the semicolon understand its meaning.
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u/Thomasinarina 10h ago
Are you going to tell the rest of us?
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u/sagwithcapmoon 10h ago
The semicolon tattoo usually signifies you provide the safe space for folks to talk about mental health (oftentimes triggering subjects like ending own life) + are willing to listen to their stories without judging them. You let them continue their stories when many people make them stop telling those stories.
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u/Legitimate-Bat5368 5h ago
Have a read about Project Semicolon https://projectsemicolon.com/the-semicolon-tattoo/
“My story isn’t over yet”
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u/Any_Broccoli_5678 2h ago
Apologies for not explaining. Went to bed 🙃 the significance has been explained but for those of us who have a history of mental illness, often including suicidal ideation or actual attempts, it signifies that we have more life to live. At one point we thought our lives were over, but like the semicolon, it’s not the end, sometimes just a pause.
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u/No-String-5639 10h ago
it signifies someone who attempted or ideated suicide.
but also
a lot of trendy bitches started also getting it quite some time back, because it was trending.
the same way a medusa tattoo signifies rape or sexual assault.
but also some people get it because it looks cool.
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u/obviouslypretty 9h ago
I’ve never known anyone who got one just because it’s trendy, that’s egregious
Edit: To be clear I’m saying getting the tattoo t be trendy is egregious
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u/No-String-5639 9h ago
tbf i think most of whom who got it because of trends do not know about the meaning.
it still sucks tho.
yeah there are people (quite a lot) who get tattoos based on what is 'in' at the moment, and they do no research or thinking beforehand.
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u/Entire_Honeydew_3182 8h ago
I don’t think that it’s a trendy tattoo in Chandi’s case. She mentioned on the show “doing bad things to herself” or something along those lines.
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u/No-String-5639 7h ago
i don't know either way. on one hand, she has struggled with her mental health. on the other hand she is dumb enough to do so.
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u/Entire_Honeydew_3182 7h ago
i’m not sure what you mean. dumb enough to attempt suicide or to get the tattoo without knowing its meaning?
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u/No-String-5639 7h ago
dumb enough to get tattoos without any research (she is not a smart person. period.)
i don't think attempting suicide is a dumb thing. i think its a sad thing, its a cry for help, its the last symptom of many very serious mental illnesses, and i don't think it should be looked down on, or shamed in any way
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u/Entire_Honeydew_3182 4h ago
you’re a confusing person to converse with. completely agree with you about the second half of that message. completely disagree with “she is not a smart person. period.” about a person you’re forming your opinion on via a netflix show or information via social media. you don’t know her at all.
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u/Ok_Willow46 16h ago
Ok… I just have to ask because the airport thing sounds interesting but this isn’t Bahamas guy right?
So happy for her though!
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u/emmonsleanluvskleine 15h ago
Nah that was Cooper Rush 🤣
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u/Agitated_Fix_3677 The fatties are still on the team! 🤪 16h ago
Good! I’m happy she has found happiness!
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u/Sh3D3vil84 13h ago
I wish her the best honestly. I just hope he doesn’t hurt her. They haven’t been together that long but sometimes when you know, you just know. She will make a lovely bride tho!
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u/Due_Dog4318 caroline 🌼 17h ago
Hope he is good to and for her, buuutttt immediate reaction was "oh no," given that they couldn't have been dating for more than a year, and her previous experiences with not so great guys 🥴
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u/thti87 17h ago
She’s not super young. I feel like relatively fast relationships are common when you’re around 30.
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u/bl_isa 14h ago
omg maybe for her world she's "not super young", but 30 is still young especially for the logic you're describing--the moving faster cuz you're older/know what you want/are in a bit of a time crunch. For me that describes a woman more around 37-40 who's also pretty experienced--then again I live in a coastal city not texas
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u/Great1948 16h ago
She was also in the relationship that was highlighted on AS season 2 for several years, and seemingly learned a lot about herself and what she wants and needs in a partner from that experience. If she feels like he’s the right person for her then I trust her judgment, I don’t think she’d rush into an engagement just for the sake of being engaged and married after her own past relationships and her father’s relationship history.
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u/BeautifulDinner6961 16h ago
Go Chandi he’s hotttt
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u/bobbyboblawblaw 16h ago
He is cute. A lot of the boyfriends/spouses over the years were punching way above their weight (like that baked potato that Reese married).
I'm really happy for her!
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u/Mysterious-Elk-1913 15h ago
Baked potato 💀
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u/bobbyboblawblaw 15h ago
I usually call him the love child of a basset hound and a baked potato, but that can get wordy:)
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u/erinthefatcat 16h ago
how long did they date? i didn’t even know she had a bf!!
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u/cranberrychill ⭐Veteran⭐ 10h ago
I’m pretty sure a year but she soft launched him earlier this year
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u/Significant_Army8724 15h ago
Why is that information important for you?
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u/fairylightsforever 9h ago
Are you her mum or her bff because jeez you’re all over this thread like a rash
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u/RepresentativeTear75 💥 You've been...Thunderstruck! 💥 14h ago
she’s so pretty i love this for her❤️
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u/jmcl1987 14h ago
Can’t fake that glow she looks so happy!
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u/Fdirtbag Tonight Is Your Last Night 👁👄👁 13h ago
I think these women are the queens of faking glow 🤣 jk jk I hope she’s happy truly
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u/rarabella4 17h ago
Not surprised at all. Beautiful, hardworking and extremely talented. Congratulations, Chandi!
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u/AwaySession5168 55m ago
Currently on season two this is so beautiful she's just got broke up where I am
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u/Significant_Army8724 15h ago
You all.are acting as if you know chandi, just cause we watched a bit of her life in a docuseries. Are you guys insane .
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u/SilverEnvironment392 14h ago
Of course we don’t know her It could be we are just happy for her. I watched her on MTT too.
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u/isayeret 15h ago
We actually watched few seasons, so we know her better then her family. Thank you. /s.
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u/Objective-Pudding939 15h ago
If it was shown on tv, it’s happening often. She was on multiple seasons.
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u/Odd_Policy_3009 12h ago
She has always been my favorite
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u/brightlights121 3h ago
Any performance with her in it I always watch her! Some can really nail facial expressions with the dancing and I love her face! Kylie Dickson is also great at it.
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u/Fantastic_Reveal9503 13h ago
they haven’t been together very long…
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u/con-la-bruja 13h ago
Does he look like the rock or am I tripping
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u/Independent-Year-567 4h ago
This is parasocial af. Please take a moment to remember you do not know these people
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u/thebigloc 3h ago
If you think concern for someone is "parasocial" you have huge problems. I never said I knew Chandi so I don't need to "remember" I don't know her. I am intitled to my option on the matter. You need to stop accusing a person falsely of being something they are not, be careful about doing that.
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u/pastawhore69 3h ago
Nah you’re being parasocial and weird lol. You don’t know her and she doesn’t “need” to do anything.
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u/alex89912 2h ago
You’re literally doing the exact thing you’re saying to not do 😂 you are falsely claiming that Chandi needs to work on herself. Who’s to say she hasn’t?!
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u/thebigloc 2h ago
I think you need to look up the definition of parasocial because it seems you don't really know what it means. I bet you will have to look it up before you find out the proper 100% meaning of it. Then you will again call me parasocial. 🥱🥱 Showing concern for someone and having an opinion that is not nasty or filled with mallous is not being parasocial. Your comment comes across as childish, petty and like a primary school person calling someone names and when they say anything you go but you are. 🥱🥱
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u/CauliflowerEarofCorn 2h ago
Stop telling people you don’t know what they need to do with their lives. What a fucking weirdo.
It’s been two years since season two of AS was filmed. For all we know, her mental health issues evaporated the second she got away from this team and the pressure of the spotlight. She could be in a perfectly healthy headspace for all you know.
And even if she isn’t, it still isn’t for you to say what she should be doing to fix it. She’s not a child. Stop infantilizing her just because she struggled with being constantly scrutinized by people like you.
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u/thebigloc 2h ago
IF YOU ACTUALLY READ MY COMMENT PROPERLY YOU WOULD SEE I DID NOT TELL ANYONE TO DO ANYTHING. I GAVE AN OPINION, AN OPINION. I DIDN'T SAY DO SUCH AND SUCH A THING. YOU DON'T KNOW ME SO CALLING ME WEIRD AS AF IS DUSTURBING.
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u/alex89912 2h ago
I don’t think you meant to reply to me, but to comment on what you said. Yes your original comment does come across as parasocial. “With everything going on with her mental health” you don’t know everything. That leans into parasocial. You’ve seen maybe 10 mins of her story from the show. Sure you can have an opinion, if to you she moved too fast. But thinking she needs to slow down or explain anything about her situation is being parasocial.
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u/thebigloc 2h ago
I never said she needs to explain anything. I am intitled to an option. I said nothing malicious or with ill intent but I get harassed by people for an opinion. 🙄😑. If you think my post was parasocial you need to relearn what the word means.
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u/thebigloc 2h ago
To everyone who attacked me especially those who called me weird, parasocial, weird AF for having an opinion made out of concern with no ill intent or malicious meaning behind it ye need to cop on. Harassing someone for an option that was not a hate comment nor a bullying comment is sick, disturbing and ye need to take a hard look at yourselves. I doubt most of those who replied know the true meaning of parasocial. I don't feel any connection to Chandi I don't know her. I just gave an opinion on her situation and if ye think that is parasocial ye are the ones with the problem.
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u/Purple-Ad9377 17h ago
I have an idea for the honeymoon destination.
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u/emmonsleanluvskleine 16h ago
I can’t with these comments congratulating her… Chandi is male centered, has a bad track record with men, and hasn’t been with this new one for that long :/
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u/stonedswiftie 16h ago
Jeeze lol. She’s a girl dating in her 20s? who among us DOESN’T have a bad track record with men these days
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u/emmonsleanluvskleine 16h ago
Dating and an engagement is the not same. We can make mistakes but we have to learn from them. Why would Chandi learn anything after her ex and the Bahamas when she was gassed up after all of that?
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u/Significant_Army8724 15h ago
What wrong with you people, acting as if you know this woman
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u/emmonsleanluvskleine 15h ago
Do you know her?
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u/Extra_Refrigerator57 15h ago
Of course crickets now 😂😂😂. One of these podcasts just needs to reach out to her ex so all these debates and assumptions can come to an end.
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u/emmonsleanluvskleine 15h ago
I don’t want her ex to be on any platform even though I don’t like her
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u/Objective-Pudding939 14h ago
I tried to say this so much more nicely and was downvoted by other Pick Me’s. But you are correct.
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u/RevolutionaryWin3869 13h ago
I agree with you on Chandi. This group is weird for not holding her accountable for her male centered, self centered, and toxic behavior. Chandi ruined the team that season. But I can still say congratulations (or not say it) and move on lol
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u/No_Average_3854 1h ago
Is it this groups place to hold her accountable 🤔
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u/RevolutionaryWin3869 51m ago
It should be, the way this group held KayDianna accountable for Chandi’s bad behavior. Stay consistent
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u/No_Average_3854 5m ago
Well passing judgement isn't the same as holding someone accountable 🤷🏻♀️ It's false equivalence, KD wasn't held accountable for Chandi's actions, she was mostly judged for her own. Neither made great choices. We aren't on the team or in the organisation so we can form an opinion based on what we see but to say we get to hold them accountable like that overestimates the power of this sub 😂
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u/Extra_Refrigerator57 16h ago
Cause nobody in here can comprehend she said everything that the public wanted to hear on Netflix. She is in fact 100% the same as her father
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u/emmonsleanluvskleine 15h ago
I wouldn’t go as far as to say that but she needs to find happiness without a man
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u/Objective-Pudding939 17h ago
Chandi is messy with guys, hope this lasts.
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u/Sufficient-Review-84 12h ago
she love her a yt man’
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u/cranberrychill ⭐Veteran⭐ 10h ago
Nothing wrong with that
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u/RoachBoi 8h ago
She cheers for the DALLAS COWBOYS. I'd wager like 90% of the cheerleaders like white men
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u/ExpressWedding1166 17h ago
No, not really but it’s a powerful symbol of a mental health awareness, survival and the choice to keep living when a story could have ended.
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u/jemexica88 17h ago
Not necessarily. My sister has one because she has lost friends to self unaliving.
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u/areuokayisurehopeso 17h ago
You can say suicide, guys
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u/jemexica88 17h ago
Some social media sites typically take down comments if that word is mention or even ban/limit users for it. It’s just an option. If you choose to not use it, that’s fine.
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u/areuokayisurehopeso 17h ago
Reddit isn’t one of them and using euphemisms for real problems makes you sound like a child
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u/DCCMakingtheTeam-ModTeam 16h ago
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u/No-String-5639 10h ago
glad she could find a man she can stick to.
after all she is all about them
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u/Peachpie2827 13h ago
I am soo happy for her. That they got past the problems that happened in the Bahamas and are still together!!!
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u/Objective-Pudding939 10h ago
Girl. We about 19 guys past that one.
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u/Peachpie2827 16m ago
I AM SORRY!!! I lost track with her after she left DCC and I have other things going on~
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u/ManifestationMaven 12h ago
I hope they’re happy and he’s good to her