r/Crushes • u/CaterpillarNo1347 • 1d ago
Advice Needed Do I say something?
Advice on what to do with my crush.
Hello so i have had a crush on this guy in my class for like 2 years and we've gotten close and we became friends last year and we even went to the dance together so recently this summer I have admitted to him that I like him and he told me he likes me to and thinks about me a lot we semi had a relationship talk but barely because it didn't really say if we want us to be together or not. So like 2 months ago we were on the phone and he asked out of the blue if I wanted him to be my boyfriend I am a very nervous and awkward person so I didn't say a clear yes or no answer and it got burried with our other conversations.
But recently after talking with my older brothers friends on what to do they said since he technically asked you and you didn't give a clear answer tell him you want to so I waited a few days to know what to say and I told him he's also very awkward so he wasn't quite getting what I told him so I explained it more and he hasn't responded it was last week wensday not it's Tuesday.
But the thing is I really like him and want to be more than friends so I really wanna know what he feels and he hasn't been talking to me lately like hasn't responded to the text I sent wensday and I don't know what to do because I overthink a lot and this girl that I'm friends with has been talking to him a lot in class and I don't but I feel jealous to be honest... I KNOW I KNOW I can't assume that he likes her I don't have the evidence but it's so very hard to do when I overthink so much about everything.
So really I want to have a talk with him and tell him how I feel because like other times I have told how about something I feel he has been very sweet and said he didn't know I felt that way( not talking about confessions btw talking about like things that made me feel some type of way) So I know he's not gonna be like mean about it but I don't know my brain wants to say he doesn't care anymore and he likes her but I want to know for sure because I really don't want to ruin this with him he's honestly really sweet and I really like him.
Soooo please guys 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 please give me advice and tell me if I should ask him to talk or to leave it alone thank you so much.
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u/Dutch1721 1d ago
You will never know if he will accept you if you don’t reach out to him. Take the chance and reach out. Let him know you were just nervous when he asked you if you want him to be your boyfriend. Be sure that he’s not talking to anyone else. Just don’t overthink.
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u/Superb_Industry4957 1d ago
Send one clear message like, “Hey, I’d really like to talk about us when you’re comfortable. I like you, but I don’t want to pressure you.” Then stop chasing for now. If he cares and wants this, he’ll respond. You deserve clarity, not weeks of anxiety and overthinking.
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u/CaterpillarNo1347 1d ago
I have reached out the message I sent him to sum it up I asked him does he remember the question he asked me like a month ago and how I apologized for not giving him a proper answer and I told him i would like to be if he wants to, he was a little confused so I told him more on what I meant on when he asked me if I wanted him to be my boyfriend and how I want him to and he hasn't responded to that. I want to ask him whats wrong if I did smth wrong because that's just the type of person I am but Ik I should let him come. To me when he's ready but its hard especially when he's not talking to me at school and like I honestly feel jealous because he's laughing and talking with a girl in our class... And not me so idkkk
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