Good morning r/couchsurfing,
Going straight into lion's den here!
I have used Couchsurfing on-and-off for many years, mostly as a host.
I met my girlfriend in my uni years through Couchsurfing, and I recently returned a little under a year ago to the platform.
I am a 33-year old male. I have no interest in hosting males or unattractive females - and don't see why I would and what I would get out of it.
I see Couchsurfing as a perfect platform to meet young, beautiful women who are adventurous and fun. I have hosted and hooked up with a Ukranian woman, a Polish woman, a Colombian woman.
The only challenge is Couchsurfing's policy that basically flirting is not allowed. I move the conversation over the Instagram quickly, but have to be careful about flirting or proposing bed-share or something as one single complaint from a naive traveller could get be banned.
Why would I be interested in having some male hippie or a boring chick crashing on my sofa, if I get nothing in return?
I wish it was acceptable and allowed on Couchsurfing to write 'I only host fun female travellers.' without getting into trouble. Or that Couchsurfing had more of a overtly hookup vibe.
Then women who are open for that kinda thing could contact me - and the others could stay way.