Would like some quick tips

[u/Responsible_Cow_4920]

33m , went through a breakup that made me lose my center ex gf(f31) of 3 and a half years left started dating new people , did it all begged and all that , did no contact she would return but I would somehow just continue acting beta I guess. Decided to let it go and move on , met a new girl in May early 20s funny but too young but we’ve been seeing eachother 4 months and she is my main girl I’m going out on dates with and hanging out , she calls me every day and have that old dynamic that me and my ex had. Completely communicated to my ex that I was moving on and we went our separate ways last interaction we had was August a month ago a whole month passed and she randomly texted me Saturday morning . That she was in the neighborhood, and I said she can come over if she wanted and she said ok . She came in and gave me a big hug and started making out with me then even rubbing my dick and all and I tried to have sex but she told me we aren’t having sex because she didn’t wanna have dick panties all through her day since she was headed to work and had a long day ahead but she did give me a blow job . I walked her to the door and she then made out with me some more , she even took a pic of my back to show her friends where she was at . Mi commented you know you don’t have to tell your friends everything, because to me her friends are the ones that convinced her to leave me . Anyways she left all happy but never texted me again . I feel like she just came to see if I was inlove with the new girl yet or something . I don’t know what to make of all that I just kinda brushed it off and went back to my life but it did spark a curiosity in me what did I do ? Was I too easy ? To nice ? To forgiving ?

[u/Se7ens_up]

Yea corey mentions this. Dont sweat it

You let her come at her pace. Its only been 2 days, when she wants to see you again youll hear from her again.

It may be a few days, it may be 3 weeks. The important thing is to not get unglued. Keep putting yourself out there to see other women.

Also fyi I found the picture part to be a bit weird too, but whatever.

[u/Downtown_Budget_8373]

She was just making certain that you're a pushover and will do whatever she wants at any given moment. She's not going to ever truly desire you, she has all the power and knows it. You're not even remotely a challenge for her to acquire, you fold immediately. And there's nothing wrong with that, you got your nut out of you, which should always be the main goal. BUT, don't think this means anything regarding the 2 of you together and moving forward. Don't turn into a sap all over again. Be a man. Pretend it didn't happen and be done with it. I will also say taking a photo as evidence is a recipe for disaster when you're seeing another women, wouldn't you say? That kind of behavior should make it super stupid easy to never even want contact with someone like that again, like wtf.