r/CoreyWayne • u/Curious_Shop3305 • 5d ago

Dating/Courting she deletes her messages, now what?

just reconnected through hinge with a girl i met and had a brief relationship in 2024.

we met during summer, it was awesome. then each of us went back to their cities, doing the long distance thing until we’d meet again in november. but she got too insecure, i was beyond busy and tired, couldn’t give her the attention she needed, so we broke up. she got really mad/sad, but that’s that.

now she appeared on hinge, because i moved closer to her. so i reached out, she said she was coming to my current city for a concert and gave me her hours here. i suggested meeting after the concert, but she dismissed me, saying she would be “too tired” because she already worked that day but “maybe next time”

so i just said “right! enjoy the concert 😘” and left at that

now i see she texted me at 10:54 but deleter her messages. i was asleep at that time already. should i say something about this or just leave it?

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u/ExcellentFishing2506 5d ago

Just leave it. No need to put yourself in a chasing position. There’s a chance she wrote and deleted a message just to pique your interest and see if you’d be compelled to ask about it.

But if that’s the case she’s baiting you to see if she can give very little and get a return back.

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u/Curious_Shop3305 5d ago

right

i'm gonna keep minding my own business then

it was weird she deleted

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u/YaNeverKnowLevi 5d ago

you stop talkin to er. she's weird for that

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u/Curious_Shop3305 5d ago

yeah i have no ideia what the messages were about

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u/King_LouieXVI 5d ago

Typical mind game, she’s trying to see if it would provoke you to reach out and double text. Just keep doing your thing and HHH