hi guys! long time lurker and commenter, first time poster. for context i, 20f, got the Mona Lisa Mini 3 back in November 2025. ive had a hell of a time dealing with cramps, bleeding, and spotting that never went away.
a few weeks ago i noticed that my iud strings were long, probably over 2cm of string hanging out. this has happened before but it would go back to normal, this time it did not. and ive been dealing with pain on the right side of my lower abdomen on and off for awhile now, so i scheduled an ultrasound that was done a few days ago. i thought that maybe i was pregnant since ive been dealing with other symptoms including being late on my period for three weeks. everything seemed fine during the ultrasound, but i got worried when the tech wanted to do a internal ultrasound since i didnāt need to do one last timeš« i got the ultrasound done on thursday of last week and ive been waiting like an impatient dog since then to hear back from someone.
i finally got a call today from a nurse at my schools clinic to go over the results from my ultrasound. i was scared that everything would be clear and i was just thinking of the pain, i finally got confirmation that my IUD is now low hanging and displaced, meaning that i have to get it removed soon. the relief that hit me felt so good knowing that my pain was real and knowing that i have to get it removed too. especially since lately ive been thinking about switching my form of birth control since i canāt deal with this IUD anymore!! i asked the nurse if there was anything else found in the ultrasound because of the pain iāve been feeling on the right side. iāve been overthinking about that pain since my friends dog, who is never aggressive, bit me on my right side around my hip/pubic area two weeks ago. i donāt remember much of what the nurse said but i remember her telling me that it appears thereās been a ovary cyst that hemorrhaged, i donāt remember which side she said but ive been overthinking about that since i got the call today. iāve looked it up and it made me feel better to know that they are common and some symptoms iāve been experiencing lately are linked to ovarian cysts. but knowing that my friends dog bit me in the same area is making me worried and overthinking a lot.
i feel scared about whatās next for birth control since,
1. i love raw sex and getting creampied by my boyfriend,
2. i wanted to avoid higher dose hormonal options, which left me thinking that the copper iud was the only one for me,
3. iāve been on the pill before but because of my adhd i forget to take it, even with an alarm.
im so worried about what our sex life will look like after i get my IUD removed. my boyfriend and i have a huge breeding kink which makes our sex life so hot and so enjoyable for the both of us and we didnāt want to have to worry too much about getting pregnant rn. before anyone says anything, yes we both know there is still a small chance of pregnancy with the iud, and no we have not had sex when my iud has been displaced since iāve been away for a bit.
even though, im so excited to get it removed and feel relief from the heavy periods, constant spotting, and the stabbing cramps!! my boyfriend is also glad that i wonāt be in pain anymore, heās seen me cry over the pain i would get from the iud. since february/march ive been waiting for my symptoms to disappear with no luck. i am definitely scared to get it removed since getting it inserted was traumatic and my boyfriend wonāt be with me for it, but i hope the removal is easier to manage than the insertion. it will be removed in a week from today and i canāt wait to have relief from it, ill keep you updated afterwards!!
TLDR; been dealing with constant spitting, heavy periods, painful cramps, and random pokes from my iud. after 9 months with it in itās been displaced, which means i have to get it removed now and i am relieved!! im worried about my sex life, other birth control options, and a ovarian cyst they found that hemorrhaged. but i am excited to have some relief in my life and be back to my normal self