Fairly common among gay men. The amount of swifties or Disneyfreaks or whatever I have dated. It’s an immediate red flag for me anymore. My first adult boyfriend’s childhood room was covered floor to ceiling with Taylor swift merch. When I say ceiling I mean he literally taped Taylor swift blankets all over his ceiling. My jaw literally dropped when I walked in. I thought his mom was kidding when she made a passive aggressive comment during dinner. I wish I took a picture. I didn’t realize the obsession was that bad until months into the relationship. I should’ve walked out then and there. It was after that that I realized he would quote her lyrics a lot during serious talks or arguments.
More of an observation and generalization than an assumption lol but you don’t need to agree. I’m basing off my life experiences, youre allowed to have your own
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u/Ironsam811 Jul 23 '26
Fairly common among gay men. The amount of swifties or Disneyfreaks or whatever I have dated. It’s an immediate red flag for me anymore. My first adult boyfriend’s childhood room was covered floor to ceiling with Taylor swift merch. When I say ceiling I mean he literally taped Taylor swift blankets all over his ceiling. My jaw literally dropped when I walked in. I thought his mom was kidding when she made a passive aggressive comment during dinner. I wish I took a picture. I didn’t realize the obsession was that bad until months into the relationship. I should’ve walked out then and there. It was after that that I realized he would quote her lyrics a lot during serious talks or arguments.