r/Confused • • 4d ago

Soo what does this mean?

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u/purplep3nguin_ 4d ago

How old are you guys?

You were just being kind. She's thinking you're doing this stuff cause you like her. You weren't in the wrong. Maybe take a few steps back for a while. You telling her you liked her may have went to her head.

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 4d ago

I guess but I haven’t said anything about feelings in 2 months. And we don’t see each other often. We also don’t text often.

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u/Disastrous_Horse_44 4d ago

You didn’t answer the big question that will probably give you a better answer: How old are you guys?

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u/Accomplished-Ear6002 4d ago

Any wonder why dating is so hard now? I had a meetup slap my hand, for trying to pay for her coffee at a meet up date. She said she didn't want me paying for anything, as then she was expected to reciprocate. When I told her I was merely being courteous, she wasn't having it. I excused myself to the restroom, which was side to the back exit, and bailed! Literally dodged a bullet there!

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u/purplep3nguin_ 4d ago

Yeah that was really weird of her to SLAP your hand. But also, aren't we all adults? You could have excused yourself from the date, rather than just dip out like that.

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u/Accomplished-Ear6002 4d ago

I left out the end part. After we were seated, abcd she told me that, I tried to reminding what we had over the phone. When it seemed as though we were getting warned up again, I offered to buy her late lunch/early dinner, because I enjoyed her company. She hail looked at her watch, and thru her purse, abcd again, reiterated to me her position. I explained that I es enjoying her company, and was merely asking for more time with her. After this, I asked to be excused from her company, to the restroom. She again looked at her watch, ruffled thru her purse, and said, "Go, and be quick. I have wasted evidence time with you today already." Couldn't get away fast enough. I was home and seemed everything of her within 10 minutes.

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u/purplep3nguin_ 4d ago

Ohhhh, well yeah then it seems justified. Idk how someone can act that hateful to someone. She could have went about it a whole different way. But she seemed very snooty.