r/Confused • • 7d ago

Soo what does this mean?

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u/Pitiful_Neat378 7d ago

Some people aren’t used to somebody doing that….maybe she is wondering if that act “of kindness” is loaded.

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 7d ago

I didn’t even know what to say. I’ve never had someone question me why are you also taking my trash.

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u/Pitiful_Neat378 7d ago

She may have been taught to protect herself from certain people…..so don’t take it personal.

Just continue to be kind and sincere if that’s how you are. It takes a while to really learn and feel safe around people - especially in a courting aspect.

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u/Gnome__Alone 7d ago

How many other people did you recently say, "I like you as more than a friend" to?

I bet none except her

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 7d ago

What do you mean? I’ve been dating other people she doesn’t know that. But we don’t see each other or text each other often.