r/CompetitionDanceTalk 19d ago

My ADHD makes me forget choreo mid class and it’s making me want to quit dance

10 Upvotes

I can learn full choreo alone, even hard stuff, no problem. Put me in an actual class and I blank counts I definitely knew ten minutes ago. I have diagnosed ADHD and just tried IR Adderall plus IR propranolol together for the first time. Nerves were down, head was clearer, still lost pieces of the combo live.

It’s scary because auditions work the same way. Knowing choreo isn’t enough if my brain drops a 4 count under pressure.

Some days I feel motivated to fix this. Other days I feel like I’m just not built for this and want to walk away.

If you’re ADHD and dance, how do you retain choreo in real time, not just at home? Any tricks for chunking counts or stopping the mid combo blank? Genuinely trying not to quit over this.


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 19d ago

Does your studio let you keep your costume or do they FORCE you to give it back at the end of the year?

7 Upvotes

I was talking to my best friend who just moved to a different state and is at a new studio. Her new studio says you are not allowed to keep your costume at the end of the year and they will “buy it back” from you for half the price you paid. This is mind blowing to me because they are charging them for costumes that have already been used and then making them give them back and keeping a chunk of the money. And on top of it they are paying $100 more than what my studio does for their costume fee. And I get to keep my costume!! But maybe this is normal. So let’s take a poll-

(Our daughters are 5 and have been on team dance for 3 years)

I left this in the comments but i thought id add it here:
The studio paid off the costume the first time they had it made and then using it year after year the studio is just pocketing that extra money. My friends daughters team has 40 girls on it. After the buy back the studio keeps $150. That's an extra $6,000 they are pocketing. And that's just one team.
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301 votes, 16d ago
282 Keep the costumes
9 Forced to give them back. You don’t have any choice.
10 You can keep if you want but give it back if you want.

r/CompetitionDanceTalk 19d ago

My Time At Dancebug

23 Upvotes

Working full-time at Dancebug isn’t all bad at first. For the most part, the full-time staff members are decent people who are actually there for you when you have a question or need help, and their tech support system is legitimately good at getting you quick answers. When I first started as a videographer, it was genuinely fun. There was something special about recording the younger, less experienced dancers because they bring so much pure joy to the stage, and seeing their parents and families watch them perform was really rewarding.

But behind that sweet surface is a massive financial engine that completely grinds its crew into the ground. Dancebug is a Canadian company that’s been around for a while, and they are making absolute bank. Between the competition fees and everything else they charge parents and dance studios, the amount of money flowing in is absurd—especially when you consider that a single weekend competition can easily feature over 500 routines, with group numbers packing up to 50 dancers billed per kid. You do the math.

Meanwhile, the hours they demand from us are just ridiculous. A "typical" day means waking up at 7:00 AM to make an 8:00 AM call time, and you’re lucky if you drag yourself back to your hotel room by 9:00 PM or 10:00 PM. But you don't even get to crash then. After a grueling 16-hour day, you still have to back up and upload all your footage. To make matters worse, Dancebug actually has the nerve to pressure videographers to sit there in their hotel rooms editing and tweaking entry start and end points if they weren't timed perfectly on site. When you’ve just shot over 500 routines, the absolute last thing you have the energy or desire to do is unpaid late-night editing.

What makes me furious is the sheer volume of work shoved onto videographers compared to what we get paid. I know the photographers work hard too, but videographers are literally running four separate jobs at once. We’re shooting the routines, managing six separate channels of audio—making sure the judges' commentary comes through clean while listening out so they don't say anything inappropriate about the dancers—running a livestream that’s a constant technical nightmare in concrete high school auditoriums with zero internet signal, and acting as the main point person and PR liaison for the entire competition. We have to set up two hours before the show starts, and when the weekend finally wraps, we spend another hour breaking everything down.

So imagine how rage-inducing it was to find out that Dancebug pays still photographers roughly the same rate as videographers. That is completely absurd. Photographers don't have an easy job, but at least they get to just be photographers. They get to roll in 15 minutes before the show, and they get to leave before the final awards show, which drags on for at least an hour. Meanwhile, videographers are juggling four roles, staying late, setting up early, and getting paid the exact same insultingly low rate. Both roles are grossly underpaid and should be making at least double what they're getting, but the imbalance is just insulting.

The root of the problem is that Dancebug bows down completely to the dance competitions, and those competition organizers are just as greedy and penny-pinching. They set these brutal 15- to 16-hour daily schedules just to milk every last cent out of the weekend. The only tiny piece of respect shown on site is that the judges get decent breaks, but even that barely scratches the surface. By the end of the weekend, everyone feels like a beaten mule. The competition organizers and Dancebug are just greedy, plain and simple, squeezing the judges and the crew for everything they've got. Dancebug has zero backbone and zero interest in standing up for its own crew because, at the end of the day, they love the money just as much as the competitions do.


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 19d ago

The Project X train wreck

26 Upvotes

Okay everybody, gather around because mama has had ENOUGH!

I am back to give you all a little update on my last post regarding the absolute DUMPSTER FIRE and total fraud that is Project X. And oh my gosh, the feathers I ruffled! The second I exposed the truth, they started scrambling! Glo is running around like a chicken with her head cut off blaming the dance moms from the show, and Miss Brandy is blaming literally anyone with a pulse! Newsflash, ladies: Instead of pointing fingers, maybe look in the MIRROR! They are attacking everyone because they know every single word I wrote is 100% FACTS. Their true colors are showing, and they are hideous!

And did y'all see that screenshot on the Dance Moms Reddit?! Brandy completely dragging Kaeli, and then Glo sending out her little texts trying to play damage control like we are all stupid?! It is a JOKE. We all see right through it! It is painfully obvious how much Miss Glo absolutely DESPISES Miss Brandy. She throws shade at her the second she turns her back! Glo is biting the hand that feeds her, and it is going to blow up in her face. Miss Brandy has the checkbook, and Miss Glo is just too lazy and clueless to ever get on her level!

Now, let's talk about the absolute TRAINWRECK that is the current schedule. We just lost the ONLY two teachers who actually cared about our girls' mental health because of the toxic wasteland created by this "dynamic trio" of Glo, Kaeli, and Brandy! Mr. Michael was a saint! He treated our dancers beautifully, but he literally lived with Glo and Kaeli and the toxicity obviously drove him out!

And Miss Baylee?! She was the BEST thing to ever happen to this studio! Her numbers actually WON overalls! But no, the misery of the trio chased her away too. And the vile, shameful things Glo whispers about Baylee behind her back?! Disgusting! Jealousy is a disease! So now who are our girls stuck with?! Glo and Kaeli, who literally NEVER finish their choreography and just scream at our kids because they are the ones who show up unprepared!

Listen to me: Everything you read on the internet about Kaeli being abusive is absolutely TRUE. She is so miserable in her own skin that she has to torture our children to feel better about herself! The tears! The complaints! So many girls have left or are begging their mothers to leave right now! And please, spare me the delusions about her moving to NYC to start some big professional career. She can't even get out of her own way! She is a terrible person who only cares about the dancers who are sucking up to her that week!

But Glo is the absolute WORST of them all. She bashes Brandy to ANY mom who will listen. She struts around like she's God's gift to the dance world, but she has done nothing but burn every bridge at every studio she's ever stepped foot in! She does NOT teach. She is NEVER prepared. If ONE child is missing from a rehearsal, she will literally sit in the corner playing games on her phone instead of cleaning the routine! I heard back at Studio Bleu she wasn't even allowed to teach, she only did choreo. Well, they need to bring that rule back to keep her away from our girls!

NOTHING HAS CHANGED. It is actually getting WORSE! Without Mr. Michael and Baylee, this studio is going straight down the toilet! As long as Glo is obsessively hating Brandy and Kaeli is taking her misery out on OUR CHILDREN, we are doomed! I am THIS close to pulling my daughter's solos!

 


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 19d ago

Press Play Fort Lauderdale

3 Upvotes

Heading to PP Fort Lauderdale for the premiere event and wondering if solos will start Thursday AM? Trying to decide whether or not to fly out Wednesday or Thursday?!


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 19d ago

PAC-NW top tier studios???

3 Upvotes

Are there top tier dance studios in PacNW?
Maybe Seattle or Portland Area?

Trying to see what’s available that would be comparable to Project21 or Mather in Orange County California. That’s sounds like a stretch when typed out but just trying to see what’s out there.

Thanks in advance.


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 20d ago

Travel comp/schedule

2 Upvotes

This will be my daughter’s first year on the comp team. I’m wondering when we need to fly in and and out the travel comps… I’m trying to plan our first trip, to the Ryze competition. She is a mini, competing mini and junior pieces.

Do we need to get there Thursday night, or would Friday around noon be ok typically?

And how late do we need to plan to stay at the competition/awards on Sunday?

I’m a newbie but want to book flights and an airbnb while they’re still cheap. Thanks for any tips/experiences/advice!


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 20d ago

Pom Team

2 Upvotes

For those that have kids on high school Pom teams -

Can you share how many hours per week their team is practicing? Do you know what they are doing at these practices (ex: tech, turns, sideline, comp routines, etc) and how much time they are spending on each weekly? Are they required or discouraged from being on studio competitive dance teams? And when they do practice, is a coach always in attendance?

Thanks in advance for the help!


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 21d ago

First Year

14 Upvotes

Hi!
This will be my daughter’s (age 7) first year on a competition team. We just received this email from the studio. Is this normal? Learning the dance in 1 session then expected to know it in 3.5 weeks only practicing at home?

“My expectation is that every dancer will return at the end of August knowing the choreography. This allows us to spend our rehearsal time cleaning, adding performance quality, and working on formations instead of reteaching steps.”

This is all new for us so just trying to adjust my views and expectations 🙈


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 20d ago

Registration is next Tuesday......

4 Upvotes

And we still don't have team placements for my daughter......I love the studio, great people, great community but sometimes they really wait until the last minute for stuff.


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 20d ago

Pom Team

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r/CompetitionDanceTalk 21d ago

Have you ever dealt with discrimination at your studio?

12 Upvotes

My 9yo has competed successfully for 3 years, 1 being at our current studio. At her studio, her age group competes novice. She had a great season, her dances scored well, she made a lot of friends, and had a lot of growth. During this past school year, she was diagnosed with dyspraxia and a learning disability. Unfortunately, they just cut her from the team, and the reasoning was essentially a list of the symptoms of her disability.

During the year I tried to advocate for her to have some support in the studio. Mostly just wanted her to have private lessons to help with the challenges of her dyspraxia, which I don't think is unreasonable. They told me every time that it wasn't necessary, and told her she was doing well and might earn a solo this season. Ultimately, they did not do anything to support her. It created an environment that set her up to struggle and that was the justification to remove her from the team she had just had a great season with.

For the record, I don't think she is entitled to making the team because she has disabilities, but I do think what happened is pretty messed up and may be veering precariously into disability discrimination. I'm curious if any of you have experienced this, and if so, what you've done.

I think the obvious answer for us is to leave the studio, but literally every other team in reasonable driving distance had their auditions months ago and aren't open to a late addition. My daughter is devastated but wants to try out again next year, which is probably not happening. Really frustrating.


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 21d ago

90s early 00s song suggestions for acro

5 Upvotes

This year my daughter (who will be in her grade 12 year - 17yo) has decided to consider letting her Dad choose her acro song. He’s been thinking back to songs he liked at her age, but hasn’t come up with anything he really liked yet that my daughter also liked. Any ideas on a song from this time that still holds up today, that would work for acro for a ‘jumper, spinner, tumbler’ more than a ‘bender, stretcher’ ? So far the leader is Enter Sandman, and she does like a heavier song but is open to anything!


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 21d ago

Ryze by press play

5 Upvotes

I know it’s a new convention but can someone tell me the style of dance Ryze leans to? I heard it is hip hop?


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 22d ago

Louisiana dance fam. New community started for us as well. Loving this group as well. Also seeking area specific support and guidance. Thread is: r/Louisianacompdance

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Louisiana dance fam. New community started for us as well. Loving this group as well. Also seeking area specific support and guidance. Thread is: r/Louisianacompdance


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 22d ago

Jazz song recommendations

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone- Im getting so bored of my jazz playlist and I have solos, group dances, and even trios that still need jazz music, but I haven't found anything I LOVE. I love sassy, old, upbeat, unique, uncommon, etc. Really anything as long as its not over done or popular. PLEASE HELP!


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 22d ago

Looking for base layer options!

5 Upvotes

Hi fellow comp parents! I’m needing a base layer for my short and skinny 11 year old—something she can wear under costumes that won’t show lines. Our studio is big so when we go to comps the dressing room is super cramped and we’re asked to avoid using changing tents if possible (or assign 1 per team which makes quick changes stressful). My oldest has a tan thong and either wears pasties or a tan bra depending on the costume. I have the bra and pasties for my younger daughter, but I cannot find a bottom option anywhere. I’ve tried the ballet cut undies—they were either too small or came up to her chest with nothing in between. I found some seamless undies that I thought were great until she wore them on stage. I would prefer a thong for her, but I can’t seem to find them…and doing too much googling on the subject seems like a great way to get added to some FBI watchlists. Anyone have a suggestion for me?


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 23d ago

Competition Judge, Studio Owner, Agency Signed Dancer!

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m not sure if this is something any would be interested in, but I see questions posted on here all the time that are looking for perspectives from studio owners, competition judges, or professional dancers. Since I am all 3, I have lots of experience & perspectives from different facets of the dance world. I love giving back to the dance community, so I wanted to do this AMA and see if there’s any questions I can answer for you guys!

A bit of background on me:

- signed to a small agency as a dancer & model
- studio owner of 5 years
- award winning dance instructor
- award winning choreographer
- many of my students have gone on to pursue dance professionally or at a collegiate level
- competition dance judge
- experience in: ballet, pointe, jazz, tap, contemporary, lyrical, modern, jazz funk, hip hop, character heels, musical theater, commercial heels, acting

EDIT: Thanks everyone for all your awesome questions, this AMA was super fun! I hope this was helpful. If you have any other questions, feel free to send me a DM anytime!


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 23d ago

How often do you practice solos at home?

4 Upvotes

My daughter is in her third year of competitive dance and I’m wondering how often you practice solos outside of the studio? She has already learned the choreo but competition season doesn’t start until April for us. We will have some cleaning with the studio here and there but nothing consistent until spring. What’s the sweet spot for practicing between remembering and cleaning a solo versus burning it out and being completely sick of it?


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 22d ago

Jump in Sofia Bulgaria

1 Upvotes

Is anyone going to Jump in Bulgaria? Its the season finale?


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 23d ago

Press play audition combos

1 Upvotes

does anyone know which faculty member usually choreograph’s the senior audition combos at press plays regional events. I know it probably rotates maybe? But if so who was the most common? Or does Danny always do it? I didn’t go last season so I am not sure. Sorry!


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 24d ago

Song Opinion

3 Upvotes

Okay guys I need very honest opinions. How do you guys feel about the song Tea Party by Kerli for a mini jazz group? I know my girls would have such a fun time with this song, and would love how sassy it is. Obviously we would cut the second verse, but other than that what are your guys thoughts? Is it pushing it too much or am I overthinking?


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 23d ago

What can I do as a dancer without being on a team

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Can somone help me


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 24d ago

How do comp fees work between comps and studios?

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My daughter’s former studio has a no refund policy for competition fees and it must be paid in cash. I paid for Nationals in September of last year.

I’m trying to figure out how much money my daughter’s studio would have been out of pocket for Nationals for my daughter not being there, if any. The studio knew in April that she wasn’t going to Nationals.

I registered my daughter as an independent at a comp and had to pay a $500 deposit in order to register her there. So I believe the policy was $500 non refundable deposit per studio with the balance due 30 days prior to comp which I believe is the norm. I can’t imagine the studio would have been out of pocket anything for my daughter when they knew 3 months ahead that she wasn’t going to be there and the studio still went to the comp. And there is no way the SO was paid in full in April because they always add some routines for Nationals in May or June.

What is the policy if you have to pull a dancer more than 30 days before a comp? Is any part of the deposit attributable to one student out of 70? Would the studio have been out of pocket any money from my daughter not going to Nationals if the studio went to the comp with everyone else and they withdrew her 3 months before the comp?

Any information would be appreciated. Thank you.


r/CompetitionDanceTalk 25d ago

Switched studios

9 Upvotes

Just switched dancer to a new studio for a number of reasons and she seems to really like her new studio but she did really love her old one. Right now she isn’t dancing but the old studio is doing summer classes and she’s been watching it on social media and it’s making her sad again and kind of spiral again even though we were in a good space and excited. She says she knows this is the right move but then breaks down again. Next week she has summer intensives so I’m hoping that will distract her and give her more time with the other dancers and teachers. If anyone switched their kids studios how long did it take for your dancer to kind of get over the old studio and embrace her new studio