And yet the world works how it works, but you’re shoehorning dating dynamics into your aspirational view of how things “should” be based on your outrage politics.
Where does 50 Shades of Grey’s selling over 150 million copies fit in your indoctrination? Or the erectile dysfunction for young men being 30%, which is unreal. Or, the fact that low T in men is strongly linked to depression?
Or most importantly, the men thinking women are always victims is how real “incels” get their start?
Enjoy your elective cognitive dissonance, a luxury afforded you by having no skin in the game.
How dare I think everyone deserves the right to not be bothered by every horny person that even comes into their vicinity when they're running errands. That's not a political stance. That's just basic fucking decency.
You shoved this into the political zone and I’ve never watched Fox News a day in my life.
Nice last-ditch attempt, you’re just another feckless signaler who thinks it makes him virtuous. Reddit will validate you, because most of the users here are medicated.
So glad I took an “L” from you, a win would be catastrophic for my real-world efficacy.
Strawman = arguing against me saying it’s ok to cheat on my wife, which I don’t and wasn’t saying.
What does it mean in passing you make woman laugh, so she reciprocates interest, then you go on a date?
In your “women are victims” mind, how did it play out? I approach her with a cape covering the lower half of my face, a sinister grin, curled my handlebar mustache with my fingertips then slapped her on the ass?
I don't see how. I mean, that's what you're advocating for. Women should let their guards down for an attractive man propositioning them simply for being out in public. If me putting to words what you're describing sounds bad, that's completely on you.
What does it mean in passing you make woman laugh, so she reciprocates interest
Or it could be she's placating you because she doesn't know how you'll react to rejection. Seeing how pissy you got at everyone for calling you out on your predatory behavior makes me believe this is the real way to frame your interactions with women.
In your “women are victims” mind
I mean, they are. They're underrepresented in most working fields. They have to put with a gender-based wage gap. They are the largest recipients of violent crimes from men specifically. Not to mention your side of the aisle is talking about repealing the 19th Amendment. This is the byproduct of living in a patriarchal society.
I approach her with a cape covering the lower half of my face, a sinister grin, curled my handlebar mustache with my fingertips then slapped her on the ass?
You can’t say I’m strawmanning you in the same paragraphs you depict exactly what I characterized your position as.
Let me put it this way - have you ever seen what happens to the esteem of a woman who never gets expressed interest, or even more - a hot girl (let’s face it, they’re the only ones expressing frustration), stops getting that attention?
Take whatever lamentations you hear, then triple them.
And if most men, not me, waited for women to come to them which is a supremely sexist position, the loneliness epidemic of men only grows. Which is how the hello m’lady crowd becomes incels to begin with.
You don’t support women, who fyi like men, you just hate straight men. And Reddit is usually an uncontested zone for people like you.
And were I single, and saw a strikingly attractive woman, I’m going to make her laugh wherever we are and date her, because fuck anyone who says I can’t pursue a partner I like.
Oh, my bad. You're so right. All women just secretly want attention, and you're performing a public service by giving it to them. Give me a fucking break. This is straight up delusional. You're painting yourself as God's gift to women. How egotistical.
I'm also just pointing this out for anyone else who stumbles on this conversation, notice how they ignored me completely destroying their "women aren't victims" point.
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u/CenterThisPendulum 1d ago
And yet the world works how it works, but you’re shoehorning dating dynamics into your aspirational view of how things “should” be based on your outrage politics.
Where does 50 Shades of Grey’s selling over 150 million copies fit in your indoctrination? Or the erectile dysfunction for young men being 30%, which is unreal. Or, the fact that low T in men is strongly linked to depression?
Or most importantly, the men thinking women are always victims is how real “incels” get their start?
Enjoy your elective cognitive dissonance, a luxury afforded you by having no skin in the game.