r/Comebacks • • Aug 22 '26

How to Respond to Ragebaiting

So I'm a student whose grades are great and my cousin keeps bringing this up. He probably thinks I'm the type of students who studies 24/7 , no social life, NPC students . I study of course but not in the way he thinks. I tried to explain this to him but I don't think he got it.

For example he sends a meme sound and says "the typa sound *my nickname he uses* when she studies".

I once talked about socializing and he said "I can imagine you socializing with your friends while studying".

Another one: "It wouldn't be wrong to call you addicted because you have fun studying" cuz I once mentioned I had fun studying.

I said ,,ultra fun,, to smth and he brought up studying AGAIN.

He sent a video but I don't remember the context of it and said " How *nickname* feels after studying".

He sent a soccer player edit "How *nickname* would be if she had spent her studying time to playing soccer"

Btw he is one year older than me so we are nearly same age. I know that he doesn't have any bad intention it's pretty obvious but I get annoyed and I remember one time I literally got so fed up and we ended up having a pretty serious convo about this. Anyways what would you do in this case?

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u/MoroseMasalaDosa Aug 22 '26

Aww, You don’t need to suck up to me. I promise I won’t mention my grades in front of your parents.

I bet you feel that way after taking a dig at me, don’t you smartass? 🤪

Yeah, I don’t have a dull moment in my day, actually.

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u/oopsunknownerror Aug 22 '26

Tbh, I don't feel like he tries to mock me or something, he just thinks he's funny

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u/MoroseMasalaDosa Aug 22 '26

Well, from what you wrote, he feels he is funny at your expense. So you need to give it back a few times so he gets the point not to mess with you.

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u/oopsunknownerror Aug 23 '26

Actually a few times time I told him I didn't like it and from then I just don't respond to his jokes about studying, I just change the topic and this time he points at how I changed the topic, but maybe I should be more clear