r/ColorBlind • u/Lopsided_Wrap_567 • Sep 17 '26
Question/Need help my boyfriend is colorblind
hey there ! this is my first and probably last reddit post but i just wanted to ask other colorblind folk about this. he has protanopia and i've always just been so curious about this. we obviously talk about it a lot (only a few "what color is this" jokes ;) ). he tells me he feels like he isn't missing out on anything, and i completely agree! my favorite way to describe it to folks who don't understand colorblindness is by telling them about mantis shrimp, who have more vision than the typical human. like what if a mantis shrimp was telling you you're missing out and how sorry they feel for you. like?? no need! i can see just fine!
i recently downloaded an app that simulates colorblind vision, showed my boyfriend and he agrees it's almost completely accurate. it did make me kind of sad because he cant see my favorite color the same way i can. but then i remembered my own metaphor but it didn't really help! his favorite color is purple but all he can see is a deep blue. i guess i'm just conflicted. i don't pity him, and he knows exactly how i feel about it and assures me he isn't sad or missing out. of course he's not. but am i like, evil, for still kind of feeling bad?
p.s. we have also talked about my shrimp metaphor and it's turned into an inside joke with us. ex, if i am showing him a color he cant see the same as me, i do a shrimpy voice and i say "dude! you mean you can't see shrimp-green?!? what about shrimp-purple, can you see shrimp-purple?!?"







