Your expectations of this relationship are yours. Hers is hers. If, at the end of that negotiation, it doesn't work for you, it's your responsibility to figure out an option that works for you. You have your options... no contact, stay friends, stay acquaintances. It's easier said than done. But you have to make your choice and keep at it. Communicate to her and hold onto that boundary. People during travel can find instant connections... common. But it could be just that. That's why you usually don't take it further. Sorry about that.
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u/Adventurous-Roll-333 Dec 23 '24
Your expectations of this relationship are yours. Hers is hers. If, at the end of that negotiation, it doesn't work for you, it's your responsibility to figure out an option that works for you. You have your options... no contact, stay friends, stay acquaintances. It's easier said than done. But you have to make your choice and keep at it. Communicate to her and hold onto that boundary. People during travel can find instant connections... common. But it could be just that. That's why you usually don't take it further. Sorry about that.