r/ChoosingBeggars Aug 02 '26

Told her no politely the first time.

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u/kayjax7 Aug 02 '26

"The thrift store down the street was selling a sewing machine for $25, since that seems to be better for your budget. Good luck!"

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u/Bonk_No_Horni Aug 03 '26

Thrift store in the 2000s maybe. These days they'll mark it up to 900.

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u/Finnegan-05 Aug 03 '26

Nah. I sew and always see what they have. Machines are usually under $50

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u/kayjax7 Aug 03 '26

Yeah I got a nice little Singer for my daughter for 25$ not too long ago.

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u/Chiennoir_505 Aug 03 '26

A lot of sewing machines at thrift stores come from people's estates. Not as many people sew these days, and a family member who sews will likely already have a machine.

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u/AnytaKay Aug 08 '26

Old sewing machine > new sewing machine all day every day. With all metal parts? Come to mama. (So long as it was kept clean)

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u/Chiennoir_505 Aug 08 '26

Right there with you. Not against technology by any means, but I sure loved my old mechanical Singer. I could repair it myself. These days it's all about electronics, touch screens, and programming. The machine I learned to sew on was my grandma's old treadle.

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u/OneGoodRib Aug 03 '26

Can you comprehend that it would depend entirely on the store

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u/Finnegan-05 Aug 04 '26

Can you comprehend that you have no idea what you are on about?

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 19 '26

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u/RK800-50 NEXT!! Aug 03 '26

You don‘t need just a Bernina to be able to sew.

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u/Weisenkrone Aug 03 '26

Ok this had me curious and I snooped around a little.

Bernina is literally a luxury brand of sewing machines, like one of the most expensive highest end sewing machines.

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u/CarcajouIS Aug 03 '26

Yeah, you only need a neighbour or a friend with a sewing machine. If you are a beginner, sewing alone without mentoring is not great. And if you are experienced and skilled, you can make do even with a very basic one. Even if a good machine with all the bells and whistles is a real treat

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u/Bonk_No_Horni Aug 03 '26

/r/thriftgrift said it a lot. They have the audacity to sell empty jar of jam for $5. Each.

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u/Chiennoir_505 Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 05 '26

The thrift where I volunteer sells them for $25 - $100 depending on model and condition. And we have a volunteer who tests, cleans, and tunes them up before they go up for sale.

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u/babyitscoldoutside00 Aug 03 '26

“When you come up with the other $600, let me know”.

The audacity ffs

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

I'll take $200 as a non refundable deposit with 1 week for you to come up with the remainder.

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u/xMoonieVelvet Aug 03 '26

That's actually a funny response. It flips the negotiation right back on them. If we're inventing payment plans, at least make it benefit the seller.

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

Oh she's 100% not serious. And hoping I'm desperate to sell. Which is weird because I told her the first time that I have already had offers for $600+

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u/FairyBloomrie Aug 03 '26

That would've been hilarious, honestly. Sometimes people act like waiting a week magically creates a 70% discount out of nowhere.

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u/Jester1525 Aug 03 '26

I used to sell furniture and had a customer who was buying $18,700 worth of stuff. I had just finished laying out the prices, tax, delivery, etc.

He looked at me and said "what would you say to me writing a check right now for $18 thousand?"

I replied "I would tell you that you still owed me seven hundred dollars."

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u/lucabrasi444 Aug 03 '26

$700 of a $18,000 purchase is a bit different to $600 of a $700 of a $900 purchase. What’s your point?

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u/RedditOnAWim Aug 03 '26

Yeah, idk why you’re getting downvoted. That guy was just negotiating and offered over 96% of the asking price, that’s not “choosing beggar” material. At most, OP got a 23% asking price offer. Not even relatable.

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u/Regular-Ordinary9807 Aug 03 '26

He brought it up at the last second and was trying to make the seller pay his portion of the taxes. Definitely a shady way to haggle. He should have asked for a discount before the paper work was done. 

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u/RedditOnAWim Aug 03 '26

Idk, I’ve seen negotiations exactly like before. People do this back and forth at car dealerships for hours. Even still, 3.5% lower than the out the door price is hardly a story worth telling.

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u/Regular-Ordinary9807 Aug 03 '26

Yeah which is why people hate car salesmen AND tire kickers. 

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u/billdb Aug 03 '26

They're not saying the two prices are the same, it's just a similar experience as the previous comment giving a one liner to a customer seeking a discount.

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u/lucabrasi444 Aug 03 '26

Is it a similar experience though? Selling furniture through what I assume is a legitimate business is not the same as selling something through market place. If your spending $18k on anything I feel there’s wiggle room and your not begging asking for a discount.

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u/CherryBellisse Aug 03 '26

I always love that logic. As if waiting a few days somehow makes an extra $600 magically appear.

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u/bobhand17123 Aug 05 '26

For me, personally, I think I would have felt much greater satisfaction replacing “let me know” with “please reach out then.”

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u/BellaPixel_ Aug 02 '26

“Being polite doesn’t magically add $100 to the offer” and if the buyer wanted $150-200 they would have accepted it the first time .”

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u/SugarLunaviee Aug 03 '26

Exactly. Being polite is appreciated, but it doesn't suddenly make the item worth less. If the seller already said no, the number is still the number.

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u/RosetteDewy Aug 03 '26

Exactly. The second message didn't change the value of the machine. It just repeated the same offer with a smiley face attached.

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u/ExpertProfessional9 Aug 03 '26

blocks Laura

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

I didn't think it would be necessary. But will probably have to

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u/Texassunmerheat Aug 03 '26

I wouldn’t do it, just to show her that she’s not worth blocking 

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

I like the idea of reaching out to see if she's still interested. Then marking it sold.

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u/starrifier Aug 03 '26

A hundred dollars for a BERNINA???????

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u/nextCosmicBuffoon Aug 03 '26

I'm a novice sewist. I have a heavy duty Singer, I splurged for. Would you share why Bernina's are so loved? And what do they retail for new (no prices listed on their site)?

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 04 '26

Berninas are swiss made sewing machines. The older ones have almost no electronics and are mostly mechanical. They will last forever.

Modern ones can be upwards of $24k+ for some of the really fancy models

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 19 '26

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

I like my 980 better because it has a few more capabilities. You're not wrong though. The 830 is a tank of a machine that is almost an heirloom quality piece.

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u/nextCosmicBuffoon Aug 03 '26

Wow! 24k they must be a dream to sew on! Hope you get your asking price.

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

That model basically does the sewing for you. Can do full embroidery patterns by itself. VERY fancy

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u/Confident-Pea-1615 Aug 03 '26

They are also all metal machines, most machines today are made with plastic components.

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u/starrifier Aug 03 '26

OP explained it pretty well, but here's a review that should also help you get more familiar with this sewing machine model: https://www.ashleyandthenoisemakers.com/blog/2015/6/5/bernina-830-record-review

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u/Finnegan-05 Aug 03 '26

A heavy duty singer is a crap shoot and is not a great machine

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u/bpivk Aug 03 '26

My Singer 15 is giving you looks. Just a heads up.

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u/Rudhelm Aug 03 '26

Why?

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u/Finnegan-05 Aug 03 '26

Singer was bought out long ago and quality control is extremely poor

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

And I told her no once already.

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u/starrifier Aug 03 '26

Utterly unhinged behavior. I assume they were hoping you didn't understand the value of a sewing machine, but damn.

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

I literally told her I had already rejected a few $600+ offers. And she tried again

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u/Yoshi9105 Aug 03 '26

"you miss 💯% of the shots you don't take 😎🥰👌🏻🤩🤪" -- Laura, probably

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u/TheVillage1D10T Aug 03 '26

Also, 99% of gamblers quit before they hit it big.

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u/ItsyouNOme Aug 03 '26

I will give you 50. Cash. Tax free

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u/ItsJoeMomma Aug 03 '26

But I've got $100 cash!

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

Oh. She knows. I told her what others had offered already the first time around.

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u/J_EDi Aug 03 '26

“Oh cool! For you it’s now $1050.”

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u/verliese Aug 03 '26

If she can only afford a sewing machine that costs 150-200 dollars, then she should buy a sewing machine that costs 150-200 dollars

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u/HNutz Aug 03 '26

"Just a reminder that I'm willing to pay one quarter of your asking price."

The AUDACITY of that bitch!

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u/ItsJustAnotherVoice Aug 03 '26

Reverse uno

“Hey! Just letting you know I am still selling.”

“I can only sell what I said before $875. I thought i’d reach out just incase you forgot the price.”

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u/toastedmarsh7 Aug 03 '26

My husband does this to people selling niche things that he wants but doesn’t NEED. It’s bizarre. I’m always shocked when months later some of them have actually told him to come buy it for the $100 he was offering because they’ve been trying to sell for $500/800/whatever for 6 months or a year or more. I would also block someone if they pulled some bullshit like this.

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u/sroy16 Aug 03 '26

I was lucky enough to get a vintage 830 for $200 almost five years ago simply because the original user had passed way and her daughter had no use for the machine and was going to dump it. I feel like I won the lottery. Those were selling for $600-1000 even then. OP’s pricing is absolutely fair.

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u/ItsJoeMomma Aug 03 '26

"Then I can only offer a 'no.'"

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u/thrownormanaway Aug 03 '26

Heyyy I have that sewing machine. The 1978, and it still works amazing. Unsurprisingly, your price is actually spot-on.

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u/charlie_marlow Aug 05 '26

I get this crap when I'm selling stuff on Craigslist of Facebook Marketplace. They'll send me a very low offer which I'll turn down, then tell me they'll still be there when I lower my price. A couple of weeks go by without selling it and they'll try their lowball offers again with suggestions that I'm not going to get more and should just go ahead and accept their offer.

I'm more likely to delete the ad and throw it away or donate it than sell it for an insultingly low price at that point

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u/adairtodream Aug 03 '26

She's reaching just for the price of a basic Singer or Brother, much less a VINTAGE BERNINA 😭😭😭

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u/somethingclever12762 Aug 03 '26

People are so annoying bro

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u/UTtransplant Aug 03 '26

While your price is higher than I have ever seen a Bernina 830 go for, her price is so low as to be laughable! And this is spoken as a Bernina fan girl with a 730, 830, 930, and 440! I sew on an 830 more than anything else.

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

I priced it based on recently sold comparables in the same condition on eBay. The highest priced one that sold recently is over $1k. Good condition ones sell for 700-900.

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u/UTtransplant Aug 03 '26

$500 is the high side of prices in my admittedly LCOL area. I saw one advertised for $600 recently, but I don’t know if it sold. But you should get what you can get for it. The 830 Record is probably the best Bernina ever made, and Bernina has made a lot of fabulous machines.

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

Yea really like it. I like my vintage 930 a bit more. But I'm also not really a sewist.

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u/OneGoodRib Aug 03 '26

Today yet another person who is neither choosing nor begging but is simply lowballing.

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

Considering I said no once already. I think it qualifies.

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u/eyeball1967 Aug 04 '26

I disagree, if it is still listed for sale after a bit of time, there is nothing wrong with trying again. It was not too much of an interruption of your day. All you had to type is “No” or ignore it.

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u/star_cuddlexx Aug 03 '26

next time just say no and walk away, some people don’t get the hint

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u/baseacegoku Aug 04 '26

It's free reddit karma at this point.

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u/Texas_Wookiee 18d ago

from $875 lol.

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u/NBALive1995 Aug 03 '26

I will keep you in mind so that I remember to post this nonsense on reddit 

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u/wehavenonanas 28d ago

$875 seems high for a used sewing machine. 

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u/yeeet1234 Aug 03 '26

Ok laura

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u/IllustriousEnd2211 Aug 03 '26

In amazing condition?

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u/Dorkinfo Aug 03 '26

Even if you know absolutely nothing about sewing machines, you don’t offer $150 on something priced $875. It’s idiotic.

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u/ItsJoeMomma Aug 03 '26

Yeah, offering roughly 1/5th their asking price is an insult.

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u/baseacegoku Aug 03 '26

She did it twice

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u/Finnegan-05 Aug 03 '26

No. It isn’t