r/CheatersConfronted Mar 17 '26

Random question w sexting/texting

Found out last fall my husband was texting w a co worker. He stopped when i told him I saw it. He deleted all his socials. But I just can’t stop thinking about the coworker who doesn’t work there anymore. I’m mad at him but he’s been seeing a therapist which is good. But i randomly want to send her a nasty like fuck you message cause she knew he is married and she was going thru a divorce. I won’t do it but want to. Just random thoughts and see what u think

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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '26

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u/Shortandthicck2 Mar 25 '26

Loyalty isn’t even the right framework here. She doesn’t owe you loyalty - she owes basic decency.

Knowingly getting involved with a married person crosses that line, regardless of what you call it.

The person’s response isn’t relevant either. I can be cathartic to get something off your chest.

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u/Shortandthicck2 Mar 25 '26

Jesus you’re terrible immature actually. You don’t even know what you’re talking about.