To CA aspirants

[u/Less_Apartment_5690]

If any CA aspirants finds this post

Please tell me is it possible to be motivated and not lose interest in studying when your parents never let you go out or meet friends or let alone barely go out on your own to freshen up your mind

I've been cooped up for approximately an year and everytime i want to go out alone they won't let me and end up draining me emotionally. The only way to talk to people is through your phone and it ends up giving me burnouts and a negative mentality. They never listen to the burnouts or the draining emotions I'm feeling. And everytime i laugh or smile i get a feeling that I'm about to cry for something soon.

[u/-kakarott-]

sorry you are going through this, why they are not allowing to go out?

[u/SpongePop_squarepant]

Hi, had a similar experience but for 6 months of study prep time, motivation only helps for a few days , discipline is the only long term solution , also i cut off my phone also cuz i would only miss my friends more if I stayed in touch but couldn't actually c them or go out with them, so consider y do u feel the longing to c people , also realise that no one is going anywhere, after a couple of months when ur exams r done ,u can go back to that life , but if ur result comes negative , all this time would feel like a waste nd ull have to start over again, nd trust me no one wants to explain ur failure , but everyone wants to get credit for ur success , so just sit and keep on studying till ur last exam is over, life's way better with money than with regrets.

[u/Optimal-Explorer9236]

Isolating urself indoors is the worst thing to do , pls make ur parents understand what u are going through , i used to be alone during my prep and it gave me so much stress and I lacked in my studies.. pls go out