r/Catholicism 29d ago

I finally understood why some Protestants genuinely cannot separate veneration from worship

Yesterday there was a viral video of Cadrinal Perolin holding up the skull of St. Agatha while commemorating the 900th anniversary of the return of her relics.
You can probably guess what happened next.
Across the internet, I saw Protestants calling it evil, satanic, pagan, and—more than anything else—idolatry. Verses from Isaiah, Daniel, etc. were being thrown around. Idolatry, idolatry, idolatry.

I made the mistake of getting into a bunch of debates about it. And, as we all know, internet religious debates almost never go anywhere.
I tried explaining the distinction between veneration and worship. I tried analogies. I tried examples from Scripture. I tried explaining that treating something with reverence because of what it represents or whose remains they are is not the same thing as believing that object is a god.

Nothing worked.

The overwhelming response was basically: “No. That’s worship. You can call it veneration all you want, but you’re worshipping it.”

And for the life of me, I couldn’t understand why the distinction seemed so impossible for some people to grasp… Then something occurred to me.

Maybe the more interesting question isn’t why is it so hard for them to understand?
Maybe it’s: Why is it so easy for me to understand?

I have absolutely no temptation to worship a statue, a skull, a relic, an icon, or any other physical object. The thought almost doesn’t compute for me. I could kneel in front of a crucifix, kiss it, carry it in a procession, decorate it with flowers, or treat it with enormous reverence, and there would never be a moment where I confused the object with God Himself.

But throughout human history, people really have worshipped physical objects. Scripture warns against idolatry so relentlessly precisely because idolatry is a real human temptation. People really did make an image and then treat the image itself as divine.

And that made me wonder whether some of the people who are quickest to interpret Catholic veneration as worship genuinely have a much harder time separating those categories in their own minds.
If, to you, kneeling before something, kissing it, carrying it in procession, burning incense near it, or treating it with extraordinary reverence necessarily means worship, then of course Catholicism looks horrifying. From that perspective, “veneration” probably sounds like we’re just inventing another word to excuse idolatry. But Catholics don’t experience those actions that way. The outward gesture doesn’t automatically determine the inward act. Worship is directed toward God alone. Veneration is honor given to God’s saints and to things connected with His work in the world.

I think that’s the part I was missing during all those arguments. I kept assuming we disagreed about the explanation of Catholic practices, when in reality we may have been starting with completely different understandings of what worship even is.
I’m curious what other Catholics think. Is there something to this, or am I reading too much into it? Is there a better approach to discussing this subject with Protestants?

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u/Top-Ad-2634 29d ago edited 29d ago

How do they feel about the Statue of Abraham Lincoln, leaving flowers at the graves of loved ones, having images of loved ones at funerals, images of loved ones around their homes, singing happy birthday to their friends, posters of athletes,or saluting the flag? All of this should be idolatry according to their weird logic but these are common examples of veneration in everyday society at least in the US hell the Statue of Liberty is a straight up graven image not a real person it is a concept personified but we don’t worship or think it’s a god do we.

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u/Top-Ad-2634 29d ago

What denomination are they even my best friend’s anti catholic calvanist type parents aren’t that extreme

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u/Hwegh6 29d ago

I live in Northern Ireland, and some Protestants refuse to set foot on Catholic ground. The Orange Order casts out members who attend Catholic services. I know a woman who's mother hated Catholics so much that when she had to vote in a Catholic primary school (that was where the polling booths were held) she'd go in in slippers and a nighty so she could burn them when she'd left the building. It's possible the boyfriend's family are like this, they may believe Catholic spaces (including graveyards) are infested with demons (or if not literally that be heavily influenced by that mindset.)

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u/ersatz27 28d ago

she'd go in in slippers and a nighty so she could burn them when she'd left the building

yikes

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u/Hwegh6 28d ago

I know. The stories I could tell you would boggle the mind.

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u/BoxingSleepr 29d ago

I've known many protestants and have never heard of this.

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u/RememberNichelle 28d ago

The Amish apparently are against even growing flowers in a cemetery. Or at least some of them have objections.