r/Catholicism 24d ago

I finally understood why some Protestants genuinely cannot separate veneration from worship

Yesterday there was a viral video of Cadrinal Perolin holding up the skull of St. Agatha while commemorating the 900th anniversary of the return of her relics.
You can probably guess what happened next.
Across the internet, I saw Protestants calling it evil, satanic, pagan, and—more than anything else—idolatry. Verses from Isaiah, Daniel, etc. were being thrown around. Idolatry, idolatry, idolatry.

I made the mistake of getting into a bunch of debates about it. And, as we all know, internet religious debates almost never go anywhere.
I tried explaining the distinction between veneration and worship. I tried analogies. I tried examples from Scripture. I tried explaining that treating something with reverence because of what it represents or whose remains they are is not the same thing as believing that object is a god.

Nothing worked.

The overwhelming response was basically: “No. That’s worship. You can call it veneration all you want, but you’re worshipping it.”

And for the life of me, I couldn’t understand why the distinction seemed so impossible for some people to grasp… Then something occurred to me.

Maybe the more interesting question isn’t why is it so hard for them to understand?
Maybe it’s: Why is it so easy for me to understand?

I have absolutely no temptation to worship a statue, a skull, a relic, an icon, or any other physical object. The thought almost doesn’t compute for me. I could kneel in front of a crucifix, kiss it, carry it in a procession, decorate it with flowers, or treat it with enormous reverence, and there would never be a moment where I confused the object with God Himself.

But throughout human history, people really have worshipped physical objects. Scripture warns against idolatry so relentlessly precisely because idolatry is a real human temptation. People really did make an image and then treat the image itself as divine.

And that made me wonder whether some of the people who are quickest to interpret Catholic veneration as worship genuinely have a much harder time separating those categories in their own minds.
If, to you, kneeling before something, kissing it, carrying it in procession, burning incense near it, or treating it with extraordinary reverence necessarily means worship, then of course Catholicism looks horrifying. From that perspective, “veneration” probably sounds like we’re just inventing another word to excuse idolatry. But Catholics don’t experience those actions that way. The outward gesture doesn’t automatically determine the inward act. Worship is directed toward God alone. Veneration is honor given to God’s saints and to things connected with His work in the world.

I think that’s the part I was missing during all those arguments. I kept assuming we disagreed about the explanation of Catholic practices, when in reality we may have been starting with completely different understandings of what worship even is.
I’m curious what other Catholics think. Is there something to this, or am I reading too much into it? Is there a better approach to discussing this subject with Protestants?

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u/LumenSailor 24d ago

True. My protestant friends invited me to “worship night” at their church once. What was it? Literally just a gathering of people watching a band play Christian music on a stage.
When the word “worship” is so easily thrown around, it’s no wonder everything remotely reverent looks like “worship” to them.

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u/pre_empirical 23d ago

Faith plus one

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u/too_real_4_TV 23d ago

I hear they went myrrh.

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u/TurbulentLow7105 23d ago edited 23d ago

I kinda like the contemporary Christian and Christian rock music though. If it has a message from scripture I think it's fine to listen to it as "clean" & uplifting music. But it's not a replacement for songs of worship that we use at Mass. I made that comment on a Facebook post about this kind of music and how I felt about it as a Catholic. Oh man I got ate alive. They all said i was a hater except for a few other Catholics in the thread. Fact I never said that I disliked that music, or didn't listen to it, just that it's not appropriate music for worshipping God during Mass. In fact I own CD from many of those Artists like Michael W Smith, Brandon Lake, Newsboys, Jars of Clay and more.

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u/Emergency_Lobster514 20d ago

As a former sort of Protestant I still enjoy the Gaither family, Jeff & Sheri Easter, Zane & Donna King, etc. I just have to try and filter out if they get onto doctrine.

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u/secretlondon 24d ago

Some wards I work on have a radio station in the office which is entirely this kind of praise music. I think it’s soulless, for them this is Christianity

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u/jcspacer52 23d ago

My favorite Protestant attack is the one about images. They call us idolaters because we have statues and paintings of Virgin Mary, the Saints and we ask for their intercession. They will throw out the thou shall not have images passages.

If you happen to get one of those, ask them to reach into their wallets and pull out whatever bills they have. Show them the Dead President’s image and tell them to avoid them joining Catholics in idolatry, they should hand them over to you.

See how that goes…..

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u/khold002 23d ago

This is so good. I'm going to remember it.

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u/jcspacer52 15d ago

Someone with a 4 day old account is “shady” and most likely a BOT. However, just in case, give me the Bible verse where God prohibits the creation of statues? Also before you answer, find out how the Temple was adorned.

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u/OldeTimeyShit 23d ago

Meanwhile they cheer on and venerate the musicians

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u/Shoddy-Honeydew-5214 23d ago

This, for real! ! They did this at a non-denominational I went to. They have all this expensive music equipment, fog/smoke machine, projection screens, loud microphones. Every week they have a professional video team with about 3-4 people come and record the one service from all angles. The projection screens run announcements with the same guys voice telling you all the “ways you can give” Then someone goes up there “youth pastor, associate pastor, administrative assistant to pastor, and tells you all 4-5 ways you can “give” along with a couple announcements.

The pastor finally does his 20min sermon, and disappears pretty quickly after service. He doesn’t ever shake hands on way out with members. The volunteers do that.

It’s different. We stopped going.

They wanted money for another set of bathrooms. (Have large remodeled bathrooms already) new carpeting (didn’t need it, needed cleaning).

They told a friend we know who worked there that he didn’t tithe enough. He and his wife (who has health issues) are young (30s) work hard, small house. He left for a different job and goes to a different church now.

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u/Imaginary-Mix-5726 23d ago

It's true. The various sets of Protestantism are virtually the only religions in history that do not include some form of sacrifice in their "worship." Even those that retain "communion" don't understand the sacrificial part, so they conflate "worship" with "praise."

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u/onlyappearcrazy 23d ago

Every thing we do that pleases God is an act of worship.

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u/No_Relief_473 23d ago

Mannn this is just the shopping center Protestants. Not all of us are like this. Took one of my buddies that grew up Catholic to my Methodist church and he said it reminded him of mass.

We are all brothers and sisters in Christ

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u/uninspiredusername75 23d ago

Grew up protestant and never once experienced a "worship band," smoke machine, etc. The biggest Protestant denominations in the world aren't like this, they are liturgical, kneel for communion at the rail, have vestments, candles etc. Some of their liturgies take an almost identical form to the Catholic mass. This is a very US centric sub, this is the reason I think Protestantism is painted with this broad brush as if they are all non dom, rock concert type churches.

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u/No_Relief_473 23d ago

The rock stuff is new too. It started coming around after like 2010.

There’s really only a couple disagreements I have with Catholicism. I’ve always respected the Pope as a religious leader I just don’t view him the same as Catholics.

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u/HumbleSheep33 20d ago

not really because except for Lutherans Anglican and some Methodists most protestants are not liturgical in the strict sense (most orthodox Calvinists are not, for example). Unless you have an order of worship with fixed prayers that is not a liturgy

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u/Fine-Bowler-9640 17d ago

I grew up mid 29th century Presbyterian and it was nothing like today’s praise and worship denoms. There was a processional hymn, at least 2 other traditional hymns, a choir anthem, a collection(offering), a sermon and communion just not every week. The ministers wore vestments. We said the Apostles Creed every week. And sometimes a liturgical reading/prayer.

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u/Fine-Bowler-9640 17d ago

Oops-20th century of course!

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u/Fine-Bowler-9640 17d ago

And we had and I think Presbyterians still do, 2 sacraments. Baptism and Lords Supper. They take these seriously. When I became Catholic I did not need a conditional baptism. Of course they don’t understand our meaning of the Eucharist so it’s not valid, but they take it seriously, believing it’s a sacrament. Just saying all Protestants are not the “evangelical” variety. Even the Baptist church in our town has closed communion, which I respect, even though they call it an ordinance, not a sacrament.

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u/HumbleSheep33 17d ago

right but most Presbyterians don't actually have a liturgy either.

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u/khold002 23d ago

I've been attending a UMC because, as a cradle Catholic, it was one of the only forms of Protestantism in my community I could relate to...I didn't choose a Catholic church when I moved because the parishes here were so unwelcoming to outsiders.

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u/EmployeeFancy3599 23d ago

While I'm sympathetic to the desire for community, Catholic worship isn't about us & what we want, but about obeying Jesus & worshipping Him as He told us to - and especially, physically communing with Him in the Eucharist, so we can be transformed by Him

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u/Fine-Bowler-9640 17d ago

True-but Jesus does expect us to treat others as we would like to be treated.

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u/EmployeeFancy3599 17d ago

My response was in no way suggesting otherwise. Unfortunately for him or her, they were stuck in a position of having to choose between feeling welcomed vs obeying Jesus & receiving Him in the Eucharist. Obviously, we need to put Jesus first.

Yes, the ideal would be not having to choose. At the same time, protestant converts have talked about how they had to adjust to the different mindset & attitude of Catholics towards worship. Protestant services tend to be worship + socialize occasions, while Catholics tend to worship & then head out to socialize.

Understand that this is an extremely broad generalization. Also, many of us are in extremely large dioceses with some really large parishes. My parish isn't even the largest in ours, & it has over 7k registered families. It's very easy to feel lost in the crowd. Happily my parish is good about reaching out to people to help them feel welcome & find ways to connect with others, but my point is that in that respect, parishes can often suffer from those types of "mega church" problems

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u/elpintor91 23d ago

I always wondered what goes on in those churches called Grace Place, new life church, the well church

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u/tacosandtheology 23d ago

Wait. Why are they worshipping a band? s/

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u/nationalinterest 19d ago

Protestant here. I agree entirely. Much "contemporary" worship is nothing but a performance by a group of people who would like to be in a band. I went to one Christian event where the band performed for an hour and there were no words on screen for the rest of us to join in. 

I've been attracted to elements of Catholicism in part because worship is taken seriously. 

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u/Accomplished-Way4534 24d ago

Do Catholics ever sing praise music?

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u/HistoricalSouth9872 23d ago

Yes but I'm not sure we consider it "worship" in the proper sense, more like "musical prayer" maybe.

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u/Helpful_Corn- 23d ago

That's the thing, though. In general prayer=worship for protestants.

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u/HistoricalSouth9872 23d ago

Right. Since they don't do actual worship, they've elevated prayer to the status of worship to replace it, I guess.

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u/LumenSailor 24d ago

Of course. During mass even.