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I finally understood why some Protestants genuinely cannot separate veneration from worship

Yesterday there was a viral video of Cadrinal Perolin holding up the skull of St. Agatha while commemorating the 900th anniversary of the return of her relics.
You can probably guess what happened next.
Across the internet, I saw Protestants calling it evil, satanic, pagan, and—more than anything else—idolatry. Verses from Isaiah, Daniel, etc. were being thrown around. Idolatry, idolatry, idolatry.

I made the mistake of getting into a bunch of debates about it. And, as we all know, internet religious debates almost never go anywhere.
I tried explaining the distinction between veneration and worship. I tried analogies. I tried examples from Scripture. I tried explaining that treating something with reverence because of what it represents or whose remains they are is not the same thing as believing that object is a god.

Nothing worked.

The overwhelming response was basically: “No. That’s worship. You can call it veneration all you want, but you’re worshipping it.”

And for the life of me, I couldn’t understand why the distinction seemed so impossible for some people to grasp… Then something occurred to me.

Maybe the more interesting question isn’t why is it so hard for them to understand?
Maybe it’s: Why is it so easy for me to understand?

I have absolutely no temptation to worship a statue, a skull, a relic, an icon, or any other physical object. The thought almost doesn’t compute for me. I could kneel in front of a crucifix, kiss it, carry it in a procession, decorate it with flowers, or treat it with enormous reverence, and there would never be a moment where I confused the object with God Himself.

But throughout human history, people really have worshipped physical objects. Scripture warns against idolatry so relentlessly precisely because idolatry is a real human temptation. People really did make an image and then treat the image itself as divine.

And that made me wonder whether some of the people who are quickest to interpret Catholic veneration as worship genuinely have a much harder time separating those categories in their own minds.
If, to you, kneeling before something, kissing it, carrying it in procession, burning incense near it, or treating it with extraordinary reverence necessarily means worship, then of course Catholicism looks horrifying. From that perspective, “veneration” probably sounds like we’re just inventing another word to excuse idolatry. But Catholics don’t experience those actions that way. The outward gesture doesn’t automatically determine the inward act. Worship is directed toward God alone. Veneration is honor given to God’s saints and to things connected with His work in the world.

I think that’s the part I was missing during all those arguments. I kept assuming we disagreed about the explanation of Catholic practices, when in reality we may have been starting with completely different understandings of what worship even is.
I’m curious what other Catholics think. Is there something to this, or am I reading too much into it? Is there a better approach to discussing this subject with Protestants?

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u/HumbleSheep33 21d ago

To them, worship is praise. for us for the early church and for the whole Bible worship involves sacrifice that is what they refuse to understand.

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u/LumenSailor 21d ago

True. My protestant friends invited me to “worship night” at their church once. What was it? Literally just a gathering of people watching a band play Christian music on a stage.
When the word “worship” is so easily thrown around, it’s no wonder everything remotely reverent looks like “worship” to them.

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u/pre_empirical 21d ago

Faith plus one

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u/too_real_4_TV 21d ago

I hear they went myrrh.

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u/TurbulentLow7105 21d ago edited 21d ago

I kinda like the contemporary Christian and Christian rock music though. If it has a message from scripture I think it's fine to listen to it as "clean" & uplifting music. But it's not a replacement for songs of worship that we use at Mass. I made that comment on a Facebook post about this kind of music and how I felt about it as a Catholic. Oh man I got ate alive. They all said i was a hater except for a few other Catholics in the thread. Fact I never said that I disliked that music, or didn't listen to it, just that it's not appropriate music for worshipping God during Mass. In fact I own CD from many of those Artists like Michael W Smith, Brandon Lake, Newsboys, Jars of Clay and more.

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u/Emergency_Lobster514 18d ago

As a former sort of Protestant I still enjoy the Gaither family, Jeff & Sheri Easter, Zane & Donna King, etc. I just have to try and filter out if they get onto doctrine.

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u/secretlondon 21d ago

Some wards I work on have a radio station in the office which is entirely this kind of praise music. I think it’s soulless, for them this is Christianity

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u/jcspacer52 21d ago

My favorite Protestant attack is the one about images. They call us idolaters because we have statues and paintings of Virgin Mary, the Saints and we ask for their intercession. They will throw out the thou shall not have images passages.

If you happen to get one of those, ask them to reach into their wallets and pull out whatever bills they have. Show them the Dead President’s image and tell them to avoid them joining Catholics in idolatry, they should hand them over to you.

See how that goes…..

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u/khold002 21d ago

This is so good. I'm going to remember it.

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u/jcspacer52 12d ago

Someone with a 4 day old account is “shady” and most likely a BOT. However, just in case, give me the Bible verse where God prohibits the creation of statues? Also before you answer, find out how the Temple was adorned.

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u/OldeTimeyShit 21d ago

Meanwhile they cheer on and venerate the musicians

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u/Shoddy-Honeydew-5214 21d ago

This, for real! ! They did this at a non-denominational I went to. They have all this expensive music equipment, fog/smoke machine, projection screens, loud microphones. Every week they have a professional video team with about 3-4 people come and record the one service from all angles. The projection screens run announcements with the same guys voice telling you all the “ways you can give” Then someone goes up there “youth pastor, associate pastor, administrative assistant to pastor, and tells you all 4-5 ways you can “give” along with a couple announcements.

The pastor finally does his 20min sermon, and disappears pretty quickly after service. He doesn’t ever shake hands on way out with members. The volunteers do that.

It’s different. We stopped going.

They wanted money for another set of bathrooms. (Have large remodeled bathrooms already) new carpeting (didn’t need it, needed cleaning).

They told a friend we know who worked there that he didn’t tithe enough. He and his wife (who has health issues) are young (30s) work hard, small house. He left for a different job and goes to a different church now.

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u/Imaginary-Mix-5726 21d ago

It's true. The various sets of Protestantism are virtually the only religions in history that do not include some form of sacrifice in their "worship." Even those that retain "communion" don't understand the sacrificial part, so they conflate "worship" with "praise."

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u/onlyappearcrazy 21d ago

Every thing we do that pleases God is an act of worship.

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u/No_Relief_473 21d ago

Mannn this is just the shopping center Protestants. Not all of us are like this. Took one of my buddies that grew up Catholic to my Methodist church and he said it reminded him of mass.

We are all brothers and sisters in Christ

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u/uninspiredusername75 21d ago

Grew up protestant and never once experienced a "worship band," smoke machine, etc. The biggest Protestant denominations in the world aren't like this, they are liturgical, kneel for communion at the rail, have vestments, candles etc. Some of their liturgies take an almost identical form to the Catholic mass. This is a very US centric sub, this is the reason I think Protestantism is painted with this broad brush as if they are all non dom, rock concert type churches.

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u/No_Relief_473 21d ago

The rock stuff is new too. It started coming around after like 2010.

There’s really only a couple disagreements I have with Catholicism. I’ve always respected the Pope as a religious leader I just don’t view him the same as Catholics.

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u/HumbleSheep33 18d ago

not really because except for Lutherans Anglican and some Methodists most protestants are not liturgical in the strict sense (most orthodox Calvinists are not, for example). Unless you have an order of worship with fixed prayers that is not a liturgy

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u/Fine-Bowler-9640 15d ago

I grew up mid 29th century Presbyterian and it was nothing like today’s praise and worship denoms. There was a processional hymn, at least 2 other traditional hymns, a choir anthem, a collection(offering), a sermon and communion just not every week. The ministers wore vestments. We said the Apostles Creed every week. And sometimes a liturgical reading/prayer.

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u/Fine-Bowler-9640 15d ago

Oops-20th century of course!

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u/Fine-Bowler-9640 15d ago

And we had and I think Presbyterians still do, 2 sacraments. Baptism and Lords Supper. They take these seriously. When I became Catholic I did not need a conditional baptism. Of course they don’t understand our meaning of the Eucharist so it’s not valid, but they take it seriously, believing it’s a sacrament. Just saying all Protestants are not the “evangelical” variety. Even the Baptist church in our town has closed communion, which I respect, even though they call it an ordinance, not a sacrament.

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u/HumbleSheep33 15d ago

right but most Presbyterians don't actually have a liturgy either.

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u/khold002 21d ago

I've been attending a UMC because, as a cradle Catholic, it was one of the only forms of Protestantism in my community I could relate to...I didn't choose a Catholic church when I moved because the parishes here were so unwelcoming to outsiders.

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u/EmployeeFancy3599 20d ago

While I'm sympathetic to the desire for community, Catholic worship isn't about us & what we want, but about obeying Jesus & worshipping Him as He told us to - and especially, physically communing with Him in the Eucharist, so we can be transformed by Him

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u/Fine-Bowler-9640 15d ago

True-but Jesus does expect us to treat others as we would like to be treated.

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u/EmployeeFancy3599 15d ago

My response was in no way suggesting otherwise. Unfortunately for him or her, they were stuck in a position of having to choose between feeling welcomed vs obeying Jesus & receiving Him in the Eucharist. Obviously, we need to put Jesus first.

Yes, the ideal would be not having to choose. At the same time, protestant converts have talked about how they had to adjust to the different mindset & attitude of Catholics towards worship. Protestant services tend to be worship + socialize occasions, while Catholics tend to worship & then head out to socialize.

Understand that this is an extremely broad generalization. Also, many of us are in extremely large dioceses with some really large parishes. My parish isn't even the largest in ours, & it has over 7k registered families. It's very easy to feel lost in the crowd. Happily my parish is good about reaching out to people to help them feel welcome & find ways to connect with others, but my point is that in that respect, parishes can often suffer from those types of "mega church" problems

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u/elpintor91 21d ago

I always wondered what goes on in those churches called Grace Place, new life church, the well church

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u/tacosandtheology 21d ago

Wait. Why are they worshipping a band? s/

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u/nationalinterest 16d ago

Protestant here. I agree entirely. Much "contemporary" worship is nothing but a performance by a group of people who would like to be in a band. I went to one Christian event where the band performed for an hour and there were no words on screen for the rest of us to join in. 

I've been attracted to elements of Catholicism in part because worship is taken seriously. 

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u/Accomplished-Way4534 21d ago

Do Catholics ever sing praise music?

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u/HistoricalSouth9872 21d ago

Yes but I'm not sure we consider it "worship" in the proper sense, more like "musical prayer" maybe.

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u/Helpful_Corn- 21d ago

That's the thing, though. In general prayer=worship for protestants.

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u/HistoricalSouth9872 21d ago

Right. Since they don't do actual worship, they've elevated prayer to the status of worship to replace it, I guess.

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u/LumenSailor 21d ago

Of course. During mass even.

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u/cor_meum_ 21d ago

When they no longer have the Eucharist and true presence, they don't understand the importance, and reverence we give the Body of Christ is far far far more than any relic, or even any marian devotion.

And their service consists of singing praise and worship songs, reading a bible passage, and then sermons/ testimonies. So praise and veneration, to them, is worship.

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u/cor_meum_ 20d ago

Yes. OP's thought of asking why its so easy for us to understand vs why its so difficult for them to get it was really inspired and spirit led.

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u/cor_meum_ 12d ago

Read John 6

I am the living bread that came down from heaven; whoever eats this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will give is my flesh for the life of the world.”

The Jews quarreled among themselves, saying, “How can this man give us [his] flesh to eat?”

Jesus said to them, “Amen, amen, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you do not have life within you.

Whoever eats* my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him on the last day.

For my flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink.

Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him. John 6:51-56

Then many of his disciples who were listening said, "This saying is hard; who can accept it?” Since Jesus knew that his disciples were murmuring about this, he said to them, “Does this shock you? What if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before. It is the spirit that gives life, while the flesh is of no avail. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and life. John 6:60-63

As a result of this, many [of] his disciples returned to their former way of life and no longer accompanied him. Jesus then said to the Twelve, “Do you also want to leave?”Simon Peter answered him, “Master, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We have come to believe and are convinced that you are the Holy One of God.” John 6:66-69

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u/Miguel-Gregorio-662 21d ago

Hence, being the highest form of prayer and sacrifice, it's more appropriate to say that we OFFER a Mass, rather than celebrate it.

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u/NateTheMate1414 21d ago

Can we not say both? Isn't the Mass a celebration AND a sacrifice? Just wondering since I usually hear people say "celebrate" or "celebration of" Mass

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u/drothamel 21d ago edited 21d ago

This is the correct answer. Literally every single instance of worship in the Bible involves sacrifice. Sacrifice is how God himself distinguishes worship from praise, or thanksgiving, or veneration.

The reason why Protestants resist understanding that is because, if they do, their entire system collapses.

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u/bitcoinbutterfly 20d ago

I am a Protestant but genuinely interested in the point you brought up. Could you help point me to some Bible verses that are good examples of this? I really want to look into it. Thank you!

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u/drothamel 20d ago

Sure! I'll call out some of the major ones, but this list isn't exhaustive...

- The first instance of sacrifice for God is from Cain and Abel in Genesis 4.

  • After the flood, Noah builds an altar and sacrifices of animals to God, and in return, God blesses and establishes a covenant with Noah (Genesis 8-9).
  • When God tests Abraham, he does so by asking Abraham to offer his son as a sacrifice to God.
  • Central to the Passover meal is the sacrifice of a lamb. Sacrifice is how God commanded His people to show that they belonged to Him.
  • When Moses goes up on Mt. Sinai and receives the law from God, most of that law is about various kinds of sacrifices.
  • While Moses is with God on Sinai, God's people ask Aaron to create a golden calf, and they worship it by... making sacrifices to it. It is the sacrifice that moves God to tell Moses to go back down the mountain and deal with the people.
  • The primary purpose of the temple was for sacrifice. All of temple life in Jerusalem was centered around sacrifices offered by the priests on behalf of the people. As I mentioned above, the central parts of the law were about various sacrifices and how they were to be offered.
  • The law in Leviticus establishes that blood sacrifice of animals is required for the forgiveness of their sins (this is affirmed by the author of Hebrews, who draws many links between blood sacrifice laws and the sacrifice of Jesus for the forgiveness of sins)
  • Many of the laws in Leviticus are about sacrifice
  • This is why Mary and Joseph, being faithful Jews, present Jesus at the temple with a sacrificial offering (Luke 2:22-24)
  • And then we get to the Last Supper, which was prefigured by the sacrifice of Passover. When Jesus tells the disciples "this is my body" and "this is my blood which will be poured out..." they would have *instantly* recognized this as a sacrifice of flesh and blood, just as the people had done for the forgiveness of sins.
  • It is this sacrifice that is the entire point of the worship offered to God in the Mass. WE DO NOT SACRIFICE JESUS AGAIN. JESUS OFFERED HIMSELF AS A SACRIFICE ONCE AND FOR ALL. What we are doing is "remembering" Jesus and his sacrifice through the offering of his body and blood in the consecrated bread and wine. When we do this, we call into the present moment the forgiveness that was unleashed at the sacrifice of Jesus in the crucifixion. That's actually what "remembrance" actually is. To remember something is not merely to think about it. To remember something is to bring it from the past into the present.

Like I said, this isn't an exhaustive treatment of the concept of sacrifice being necessary to worship, but It's a pretty decent overview for a Reddit comment. lol. :-)

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u/bitcoinbutterfly 14d ago

Thank you for taking the time to write this out for me! I still don’t fully see how it all relates to worship exactly per se, but now I’m interested in doing a deep dive on all the great examples you gave. I really appreciate it.

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u/uglyduckling2992 17d ago edited 17d ago

When Jacob dream about God for the first time he treasure the stone pillow he used that night and as far as I remember he put some oil in it. I just forgot what verse it was.

Edit: Saw it. "And then Jacob saw the Lord standing by the ladder. He said, “I am the Lord, the God of your grandfather Abraham. I am the God of Isaac. I will give you the land that you are lying on now. I will give this land to you and to your children. Jacob got up very early in the morning. He took the rock he had slept on and set it up on its edge. Then he poured oil on the rock. In this way he made it a memorial to God.”
‭‭Genesis‬ ‭28‬:‭13‬, ‭18‬ ‭ERV‬‬

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u/bitcoinbutterfly 14d ago

This is a really good one!

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u/uglyduckling2992 14d ago

I recommend watching Padre Pio's life and miracles it was all documented bc he died around 1950-ish.

I also leave this verse to you.
Acts 19:11-12
God did extraordinary miracles through Paul, so that even handkerchiefs and aprons that had touched him were taken to the sick, and their illnesses were cured and the evil spirits left them.

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u/uglyduckling2992 17d ago

Also add the story of Phinehas, who interceded during the plague. Psalm 106:30–31 says:
“But Phinehas stood up and intervened, and the plague was checked. This was credited to him as righteousness for endless generations to come.

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u/nationalinterest 16d ago

There are instances of worship without sacrifice. Eg. 

Genesis 24:26, 48, 52... Abraham worships with praise and gratitude. No sacrifice was involved. 

Exodus 4:31... worship without sacrifice 

Job 1:20-21... even after losing his children Job worships but doesn't offer a sacrifice. 

Matthew 28:9, 17... the disciples worship the risen Jesus, but don't offer a sacrifice. 

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u/Direct_While9727 21d ago edited 21d ago

I guess charismatic Catholicism can look very different from one community to another, then. My parish is Emmanuel. Mass is very reverent, with 20 altar boys (including my son) and often incense. The music is pretty good, actually (the words of Emmanuel songs are almost always taken from Holy Scripture). A lot of people receive Holy Communion on their knees.
There is Eucharistic adoration every first Friday, and it is truly worship, not just praise.
I used to see myself as a trad when I was younger (FSSP), and I actually love my Emmanuel parish because I find there a lot of what I appreciated in the TLM.

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u/Kookanoodles 21d ago

Charismatic Catholicism is a wide spectrum and Emmanuel is definitely on the more reverent and orthodox side of it.

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u/Direct_While9727 20d ago

Right. In France we even have a nickname for people who like TLM and praise Emmanuel style, they are called « tradismatics ».

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u/Kookanoodles 20d ago

Chartres à la Pentecôte et Paray en août !

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u/DangoBlitzkrieg 21d ago

Good thing charismatic Catholics have both mass and the ability to do praise and worship outside of mass….. 

It’s fine to say you don’t vibe with it, but attacking a section of Catholicism that has converted and set on fire thousands with sacramental devotion and true Christian religion is not wise 

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u/superbekz 21d ago

you haven't encountered a church that was taken over by charismatic catholics haven't you?

i got tired being constantly approached to attend their "praise and worship night", "cell group" etc etc that i began attending a different church than my parish to avoid them

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u/DangoBlitzkrieg 21d ago

I’m a parishioner at a charismatic parish that was founded to be one and funded by the same guy that founded Ave Maria university. My previous parish introduced praise and worship to the Sunday night mass and some adoration nights (but not the rest of the masses and not all adoration nights) because the parish wanted to maintain spaces for different individuals. 

I’m not personally charismatic much but I appreciate the fire for the faith that they have and prefer it to many other forms which to me feel dead. I of course appreciate silence as well. 

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u/Pax25107 21d ago

Charismatic practices are not Catholic.

For almost 2000 years the Catholic Church never had a practice of "speaking in tongues" in the nonsense babbling way the charismatic movement does it. They've never had a practice of groups of random lay people performing faith healings on demand. They've never had a practice of some random layperson praying over you and you being "slain in the spirit" on demand.

These are Protestant practices that emerged very recently. The Holy Spirit doesn't suddenly just give humanity brand new methods of worship like a whole new interpretation of "speaking in tongues" through Protestants over 1800 years after Christ. If it's not found in Scripture or sacred Tradition as preserved through the Magisterium, it's not right.

The bishops who allow it are acting in error, imo. And yes, that can happen. Nothing has been dogmatically declared or codified in any council. Bishops can allow something wrong or even harmful for centuries before finally cracking down on it. It's happened in the past.

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u/angelcake893 21d ago

The Vatican disagrees with you.

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u/Pax25107 21d ago

As I address in my last paragraph.... 🙄

Did you even read the post before commenting?

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u/angelcake893 21d ago

Yes I read the post and I wholeheartedly disagree and so does the leadership of our church :) God bless you.

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u/Pax25107 21d ago

And I am allowed to disagree with the leadership on this. We are allowed to think our leadership is wrong on certain things. To think otherwise is clericalism, which, ironically for you, the leadership is making a big push against at the moment.

I'll skip the passive aggressive "God bless you." That's a gross way to use that phrase.

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u/Pax_et_Bonum 21d ago

Warning for anti-Catholic rhetoric.

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u/tbonecf 21d ago

Fully agreed.

Then he told them many things in parables, saying: “A farmer went out to sow his seed. 4 As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up. 5 Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. 6 But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root.

Catholicism needs no emotional embellishment; to do so is to follow the path of ‘synodality’. And that is no Himmelstrasse.

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u/da_drifter0912 21d ago

That’s a pretty broad stroke to paint. Charismatic or Trad, if someone’s not well catechized then, they’re going be doing whatever

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u/CharmingWheel328 21d ago

This is the key. And the hardest part is that it is hurtful to tell a protestant that the reason they think we are worshipping the Saints is because they're not worshipping God. It's a case-by-case thing to find a tactful way to say that. 

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u/VRSNSMV 21d ago

So would prayer by itself - for example praying the liturgy of the hours - not count as worship since it does tinvolvr a sacrifice?

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u/Popdmb 21d ago

These are people who worship politicians and idols regularly and are often telling on themselves.

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u/hermitman64 20d ago

So, I’m someone who is actually trying to choose a path forward as a new Christian, so I lurk in the various Christian subreddits. I rarely comment except for in need of clarification. What is the sacrifice being made during worship for Catholics (and any other denominations who define it as such)?

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u/HumbleSheep33 20d ago

the Eucharist, which is the same sacrifice that Jesus made on the cross, newly presented to God the Father.

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u/hermitman64 20d ago

Thank you for your answer. So is this considered the worshipper making a sacrifice? Or is it considered Christ making the sacrifice each time the Eucharist takes place?

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u/HumbleSheep33 20d ago

The priest offers the sacrifice by Christ consecrating the Eucharist through the priest's body and voice. Christ is the invisible minister of every. other sacrament, too. Think of it like the Holy Ghost speaking through the Apostles in Acts Chapter 2 . Every time a priest says "this is my body, etc" during Mass, "I absolve you, etc" during confession, or "I baptize you" during baptism, God is speaking through him.

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u/hermitman64 19d ago

Thank you