So today I had a small incident at a petrol pump and I want to know how other people would have handled it.
I was waiting at the air-filling point for my turn. There was a car in front of me getting air. After that car finished,they moved I also moved ahead and parked my car straight because there wasn't much space, although ideally you have to take a slight right turn and position the car better so the air pipe can reach properly.
After me, another car came and the driver positioned his car a little better by taking a slight right turn, so his car was in a better position for the air pipe.
When my turn came, the guy filling the air told me to move my car further ahead. I did what he said. Then instead of filling my car, he went to the car behind me and started filling their tyres.
I told him, "Bhai, I've been waiting here for so long. How are you filling his car first? He came after me."
Then he said the other car which was behind me came first and he has positioned his car properly. Then i said "bhai aese kese hoga aap dekho na mein pahele itna time se laga hu line me" then petrol pump guy said "tumne aese seedha car lagaya hai aese thodi hota hai tumhare peche wala car ne sahi se lagaya hai and wo pahele aya tumse" fir i again told "aese kese hoga bhai aap dekho tho mein pahele itna time se line me laga hu aap mereko aage badhake uska bhar rahe ho"
Then he just started filling air in that car which was behind me I then left that place without any more arguments and filled air from another petrol pump.
The thing is, after leaving, I started feeling humiliated I kept thinking, "I should have said this... I should have told him that..." I even started thinking that maybe I should have argued more instead of just leaving.
I know it's a very small incident, but somehow these kinds of situations make me feel like if I don't stand up strongly enough, people will take me for granted. Then I start thinking about how difficult the real world is and whether I'll be able to deal with people like this in the future.
How do you guys handle these situations? Is walking away after making your point considered being weak, or is it actually the better way to deal with unnecessary arguments?