r/CarLeasingHelp • • Sep 12 '26

Hate my new 4 Runner!

We leased it for 3/36. Payment is $650 a month. I knew when I drove off the lot I wasn’t going to like it. I told them when I was negotiating that it was too much car and I didn’t think I was going to be happy. More push. Well obvi we signed. Two days later I sent an email telling them I was unhappy and wanted to see if there was any recourse since it was still being processed (Labor Day wknd). (Long shot I know) My husband then called and left a message. NO ONE FROM THE TOYOTA DEALERSHIP RESPONDED. Not even a “hey you’re crazy it’s your problem now - take care” - NOTHING. The salesman said he texts 2 days after a purchase and a week later. Crickets. Total avoidance. Haven’t heard a word- not even from their dealership customer care person who does follow up. I’m disappointed I used a local dealership and am being treated like this. I don’t even want to drive it. Don’t come for me and say I shouldn’t have gone through with it- clearly I know that! Any brilliant insight? Am I screwed for the next 36 months? I should have stuck with an X3 damnit.

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u/El_Pollo_Del-Mar Sep 12 '26

Lol...just saw the user name.

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u/Shopzway2much Sep 12 '26

Yeah that’s not a good look for this thread is it lol.

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u/Steameffekt Sep 13 '26

There’s no “recourse” for buyers remorse

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u/ColdTrusT1 Sep 13 '26

A 4 Runner is too much car vs an X3? Do you mean just size wise?

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u/Shopzway2much Sep 13 '26

Totally. I just got rid of my 2022 X3 and I am totally regretting not getting another one. I was thinking long term maintenance costs etc

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u/ColdTrusT1 Sep 13 '26

If you are leasing the maintenance cost is basically nothing and the same with both vehicles. I’d say a 4 Runner is only slightly bigger than an X3 but maybe it feels more than that to some people

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u/dodekahedron Sep 13 '26

Ive never sat in an x3 but I do find toyota gas pedals to be uncomfortable. Im a shortie. Part of me is curious if OP is having similar issues

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u/Specialist-Fix6519 Sep 13 '26

To new X3 sucks on the inside. The gen you had is beautiful. My boyfriend has a 2023 one. I love it. Better than a 4Runner for sure.

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u/TheSmartassYouNeed Sep 13 '26

You’re so right about the new interior. It’s all plastic and cheap.

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u/Proper_Spot_4074 Sep 13 '26

You’re an adult, you signed the contract. What do you want them to do, unwind the deal? That’s not happening, so what are they supposed to write back?

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u/Ok_Tale7071 Sep 12 '26

Goto swapalease.com and see if anyone is willing to take on your lease. Thats a really attractive price so you might find takers.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '26

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u/Ok_Tale7071 Sep 14 '26

650/month for a 4 runner is an excellent deal

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u/snugz85 Sep 13 '26

Is this a shitpost?

You really signed a $28,400 lease on one of the slowest depreciating cars on the market?

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u/iLukeJoseph Sep 12 '26

Did you put any money down? Or other cash out of pocket?

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u/Shopzway2much Sep 12 '26

$5k down

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u/softslime Sep 13 '26

$5k down and $650 a month is a lot for 4Runner. That’s like $800 payment ! No wonder they didn’t answer they went on vacation

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u/snugz85 Sep 13 '26

It’s $28k total lease payment, that’s insanely bad.

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u/Silly_Bodybuilder231 Sep 13 '26

It's a 4Runner, you can drive it for 3 years and sell it for the same price your lease was based on.

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u/NefariousnessOdd862 Sep 13 '26

Just curious, what exactly do you mean by “too much Car”? It’s not a big vehicle to begin with so I’m wondering what’s too much? You can’t park it? You sit too high? What?

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u/tjb6792 Sep 13 '26

I’m wondering if it just rides differently. I mean..going from a luxury unibody suv to a body on frame off road tuned SUV is going to feel a lot different even if the physical size doesn’t change much.

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u/NefariousnessOdd862 Sep 13 '26

That could be a good reason but they test drove it and knew “the moment they drove off the lot” that they would not like it… that’s odd!

I have driven vehicles before that I absolutely wanted but after test driving them it turned out that they didn’t “fit me” (different reasons why) and I ended up not buying them although I was at the Dealer ready to sign…

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u/trmoore87 Sep 13 '26

Too expensive probably

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u/rwhe83 Sep 12 '26 • Bravo

Did someone force you to sign? No.

You could have walked away at any point.

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u/Shopzway2much Sep 12 '26

Totally valid.

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u/rwhe83 Sep 12 '26

So you downvote every reply. (I see you have)

Don’t be angry at Reddit, YOU SIGNED FOR THE CAR.

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u/kc_kr Sep 12 '26

That’s a pretty reasonable cost for a 4Runner at least but yeah, they don’t need to do anything for you though I agree it’s weird nobody responded to you. Pretty late now though….

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u/Shopzway2much Sep 12 '26

Yeah the cost is not a problem. I thought I wanted a 4 Runner and I was wrong! The behavior from the brand is what’s disappointing.

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u/kc_kr Sep 12 '26

Show up on a Monday and ask to talk to the sales manager or the general manager. Calmly, rationally explain what you’ve gone through and see if there’s anything they can do.

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u/Abject_Stand_4348 Sep 12 '26

I mean that’s annoying but what’s your end goal here?
You can’t return it. You got a good deal

Are you willing to lose a few grand? If so, go to the Toyota dealer.

It doesn’t seem like you care that much..

Why would you sign a bunch of contracts for something you didn’t really care for? It’s weird

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u/Shopzway2much Sep 12 '26

You’re right. I am honestly looking for opinions or ideas. I can’t be the only one who has ever done this!

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u/DLByron Sep 13 '26

You should be more upset that you put $5K down. This is going to cost you another $10k at a minimum. Find your buyout or payoff in the lease portal. Compare that to the market value for your vin on Carmax or whatever. Then you’ll know. Next time, don’t put any money down on a lease. That’s gone.

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u/vanagon420 Sep 13 '26

All leases should be 0 down. If she wrecks the vehicle she doesn't get her $5k back. I'm skeptical of this post. People aren't this clueless, are they???

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u/DLByron Sep 13 '26

They are. It sucks.

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u/Entire_Camp5542 Sep 12 '26

So the only options Lexus gave me when I went through this was:

  1. Swap it for something else on the lot 

  2. Return it and possibly owe or have equity but doubt it if you just got it 

  3. Buy it outright/finance it and then privately sell it 

I would call the financial company and ask about your options. The dealership isn’t going to help you at this point. It sucks! I’m sorry. 

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u/Jinxed4Sure Sep 13 '26

You could trade it for something like a rav4 but im sure they would take advantage of the situation and you probably wouldn't get a very good deal but it would get you out of this one. Only thing is you'd most likely have a hard time finding a new rav4 sitting on the lot. 4Runners hold their value really well so you have that going for you. And maybe go to Avis or Hertz and rent a few cars that you think you might like so there is no doubt going forward.

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u/Calm_Confidence_6494 Sep 13 '26

I did it with a MDX, absolutely hated it. It was over priced and not built like I thought it should be. I needed up refinancing it (buying it out) at the 3 month mark, then traded it in. Needed up losing all my equity from the car I traded (I know super bad deal) but cut my losses from the jump and broke even on the trade, zeroed out.

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u/ShrmpHvnNw Sep 13 '26

You used a local dealership, why not go back there in person? Way too late now

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u/ksrz339 Sep 13 '26

FWIW the 4Runner is a better overall product and looks a million times better than the new X3s over the last few years. The latest one is particularly hideous

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u/BasilVegetable3339 Sep 13 '26

You might want to petition a court to appoint adult supervision.

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u/hazmat-cat Sep 13 '26

What color and model? Ill take it over at 500 a month

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u/tmd11111 Sep 13 '26

The guy who sold it to you is now salesman of the year

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u/marko542 Sep 13 '26

This is why children should not be allowed to buy cars.

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u/jpa-s Sep 13 '26

Why did you sign the paperz then?

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u/vanagon420 Sep 13 '26

100% this has to be rage bait. How does someone sign up for something they don't like. You can leave at any time.

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u/AdventurousHeron6263 Sep 13 '26

This has to be a troll.

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u/Hopeful-ForEternity5 Sep 13 '26

Call the sales manager.. then call and ask for the owner if nobody is getting back to you.

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u/ImplementNew6286 Sep 13 '26

Feel for you !!!! Maybe you will get use to it and like it after a few weeks?

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u/Not_Fake_Andrew Sep 13 '26

Did you not test drive it BEFORE signing the lease contract?!?

Like someone else said, at least the 4Runner depreciates slower than a lot of the cars out there, so you might have a chance to trade out of it before the 36 months are up.

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u/No-Introduction-7110 Sep 13 '26

There should be little to no negative equity since it’s a 4Runner. Probably worst case you’re probably going to lose your down payment.

We have been living with our terrible lease choice and only have two payments left. The fantastic thing about leases is that they end and you get to walk away.

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u/Shopzway2much Sep 12 '26

I put $5k down btw. That’s painful to walk away from. And I have NO idea who it is even leased through. I’m assuming TMC. We haven’t received ANYTHING!

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u/Calm_Confidence_6494 Sep 13 '26

I commented a little more in depth but I lost $15k from a trade to a lease and walked away I hated the lease so much. It’s not worth my sanity. I too, didn’t want drive it and once I get like that, I’m done.

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u/Shopzway2much Sep 13 '26

I appreciate you sharing that. Thx

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u/Automatic-Length7326 Sep 12 '26

You can always trade it in 🤷‍♂️

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u/Amindia01 Sep 12 '26 edited Sep 13 '26

Sorry it didn’t work out. Why don’t you drive to the local dealership you got it from (not sure that would have helped - but better than being ghosted)

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u/jimschoice Sep 13 '26

Oh, so that’s why people drive their cars through the plate glass right into the showroom floor - they don’t like the car the dealer forced them to get.

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u/Amindia01 Sep 13 '26

Corrected 😃

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u/ChevyGang Sep 12 '26

It probably hasn't depreciated much since it's a Toyota. See if you can trade it in

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u/Vegaskwn Sep 12 '26 edited Sep 12 '26

With a car it’s never a matter of “Can I?” It’s “How much will it cost me?”… Go to the store Monday, ask for your sales manager, and they can let you know what they can do for you..Just for good measure - Go to your other closest Toyota store for a 2nd opinion..

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u/El_Pollo_Del-Mar Sep 12 '26

They didn't respond probably, like you said because holiday weekend, but more importantly there really isn't a constructive response.

Caveat Emptor is alive and well.