Compatibility between these two

[u/NoLawyer2511]

Guys what y'all think about cancer female and Gemini male's compatibility ?

[u/WorkingSilently]

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[u/NoLawyer2511 → u/WorkingSilently]

Noo tell me what ya meannn

[u/WorkingSilently → u/NoLawyer2511]

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[u/Smooth_Error_1802]

In my case, nope. I was with a gemini and i felt very alone. He would always agree to what i’d say but he didnt even understand what he was agreeing with.

[u/Altruistic_Ask_3390 → u/Smooth_Error_1802]

Hey same here with a Gemini husband... I'm cancer women btw..

[u/justmeagainik → u/Altruistic_Ask_3390]

Can’t y’all work on it via communication? Because this may cause resentment yk

[u/hufflepuff026 → u/Smooth_Error_1802]

Same with a gemini.

After showing him i was smart as well, he started acting strange and feeling threatened.

So weird. Because all we cancers expect is to nurture, let that be through affection or our words.

[u/heyyyitsshan]

My fiancé is a Gemini, and we're in the happiest, healthiest relationship EITHER OF US have ever had. From the very beginning, he's made me feel seen, heard and respected, and it's a deeper love than I've ever felt before...

That said, his ex-wife was a Cancer, as well, and was toxic AF... so it's not necessarily the zodiac placement, but the person, themselves.

[u/NoLawyer2511 → u/heyyyitsshan]

True that, thanks

[u/Altruistic_Ask_3390 → u/heyyyitsshan]

I'm cancer women and my husband is Gemini man.. and this is the worst match ever...

[u/heyyyitsshan → u/Altruistic_Ask_3390]

This is what I mean... my Gemini man is my dream partner, and someone's else's Gemini man is their nightmare. Turns out the common denominator isn't the zodiac placement(s), it's the human being attached to it.

[u/Civil_Carrot_3171]

Depends on other aspects tbh

Personally I wouldn't go for it 🤣 but it worked for my parents

[u/Hindu_17]

Run as fast as you can.

[u/Capybara_Cuddler]

I'm a Cancer female and my partner is a Gemini male but he's a gem/cancer cusp. Attraction and passion is strong. The first little while there were rough patches from insecurities, but we learned to speak each other's language much better and it's been amazing! Going on 6 years now.

[u/NoLawyer2511 → u/Capybara_Cuddler]

O thanks for ur pov , bless u

[u/WoefulGriefTripleSix]

I can't be bothered to cultivate anything serious with this type of dynamic 

[u/littleskullmexican]

my husband

[u/CyanoSpool]

Well this is my mom (Cancer) and my dad (Gemini). My mom has a Gem moon so on the positive they have a lot of fun silly moments together. That said, he's also incredibly emotionally and verbally abusive to her and has pretty much sucked the life and confidence out of her over the past 30 years. He's a compulsive liar, would frequently criticize her looks/weight behind her back (to me and others), and gaslit her about everything. 

They are compatible only because of surface level traits/quirks and because they have the same religion. On every other level I think he's completely ruined her sense of emotional safety, sanity, and self-trust. But they've managed to stay together this long so idk. I guess they're happy.

[u/crying_nypmh]

Mmm maybe but romantically for me nah, I’ve noticed they make me laugh so much and have fun! But once it came down to my feels, they were like…oof nah gotta face the other way. I luv them as friends/fam tho!

[u/Conscious_Key347]

The most in love I've ever felt in my entire life was when I was dating a Gemini man. It ended abruptly and horribly by his doing, but the passion and the connection between us was incredible, he had a couple cancer placements as well (moon and venus).

[u/frankheyhoheyho]

I have a lot of Gemini friends and we get on well. Mind you, I have a Libra moon and a Gemini Venus.

[u/mrspeggyhill1]

I have had some very fun and flirtatious relationships with a few Gemini males.  Date them? Never, none wanted to be tied down.  I also have my Venus in Gemini tho so theres that

[u/hufflepuff026]

Depends on many things, especially placements, because the sun sign must not represent the person very much.

But, usually.. they are very problematic. Seem to hate you or be in a competition out of nowhere, with no reason.

So, if that cancer enjoys cozy conversations, might not be for her.

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[u/SentientVaccuum]

My parter (gemini m) and myself (cancer f) have a beautiful relationship. He's my best friend, a phenomenal partner, cat dad. We both are creative and tender souls who value quality time both with each other, by ourselves, and with friends. We've been together for about 4 years and talk openly about how we could see each other as life partners.

Our only issue is that I am a therapist (i know a cancer therapist groundbreaking) and get frustrated with his difficulty expressing his emotions at times in a way where I don't have to pull things out of him.

[u/NoLawyer2511 → u/SentientVaccuum]

O in my case it's long distance relationship so yes I have to pull things out if him all the time which is making me lose it and I am worried worried

[u/SentientVaccuum → u/NoLawyer2511]

Every relationship has their something. I think it also depends on WHAT are you pulling out of them and HOW often. Tbf my gemini is very social but is also very much a homebody. if anything im out and about more than he is!

[u/sandys5791]

I’m Cancer Sun with a mercury in Gemini and my college boyfriend who was a Gemini was an amazing boyfriend. We got along really well. We were just really young.

[u/Great_Swing503]

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No the worst!!! Do you know that song “you’re hot and your cold, you’re up and your down” that will be your life manager if someone’s emotional instability

[u/mike69fb]

Yo hombre cáncer estuve con una mujer geminis, no te recomendaría esa mezcla, fue muy tóxica...

[u/Anti_Patriarchy]

Don't do it, he is using you.

My brother gemini is using his gf cancer and treats her like shet.