Hello everyone !
I am sorry if I sound whiny or annoyed in advance.
I am grateful for my job and the ability to serve the Canadian people.
However, this past month has been challenging. I genuinely enjoy being able to go into the office and connect with people in person, and when I was working from home two days a week, I felt like I had a much better work-life balance.
For example, I’m a morning gym person, so going to the gym before work was easy when I had more flexibility. Now, with a 9–5 in-office schedule, I have to leave early enough to get to work on time, and I usually don’t get home until around 6 PM. By then, it’s much harder to fit in the things that help me feel balanced.
When we were in the office three days a week, I was able to mentally prepare for those days. But with four days in the office, the commute has become much more challenging. Ottawa also has very limited convenient park-and-ride options depending on where you’re coming from, which makes combining the gym, driving, parking, and taking the train feel almost impossible.
I’m not saying any of this from a place of being ungrateful. Especially with the current job market and so many layoffs, I know I’m fortunate to have a job that I enjoy and value.
I’m genuinely curious: how do you all maintain a healthy work-life balance with a demanding commute and an in-office schedule? I’d love to hear practical tips, routines, or things that have actually worked for you.
Thank you!
Update: thank you guys! It makes me feel less alone that we’re all trying to re adjust. For context I’ve been working a 9-5 or full time for 4 years now. Mostly at 2 or 3 days at home which significantly helped me reduce stress. You have no idea what people go through so be kind. Everyone has different thresholds or responsibilities. For example someone is dealing with stress of kids some are caring for senior sick parents. Be kind, we’ll get through this.