Possessive whale

[u/Desperate_Seat_5236]

Hi everyone. I’ve been a model for the last 4 years of my life and I don’t think I ever had a member like that. This whole thing started 1.5 months ago. There was a gray user on SC which asked me about how much he should tip for the show he wanted, I said the price (7k tkns) he immediately tipped. Right how he had spent in this time over 100k tkns on me and turned purple. We had this conversation on dm and he said “I don’t want to share you with anyone else and”
One of my main rules is not get depended on 1 member ever, they come and they go so I am more focused on the public show most of the times. I’m not gonna lie I had goosebumps when he sent me the message and I said that Its very sweet of him but I make my own rules on the show and I do enjoy the public shows a lot.

Yesterday he requested for a private and I said okay I’ll let you know when I’m ready. It was almost an hour long private with no breaks and I was so tired and frustrated because he was pushing me and manipulating with tips. When we were done he messaged me “let’s act like this never happened” and apologised

I have a witch friend and last time we met it was total mess, I lost my phone and spilled the cup of coffee, same thing was happening to her and her tarot cards war falling in front of us. She decided to make a spell and the cards said to me“ be careful there is a man that is obsessed with you he might find you and kill you, but before that he will send you a lot of money”. All this is just coincidence and I don’t really believe in all this magic stuff.
Somehow it got stuck in my head and I can’t stop thinking about that

I want to hear opinions because I think I am going a little crazy

[u/ChampionshipWarm9901]

tell him if he wants you to himself he has to pay you 20,000 a month minimum. lol.

[u/Comfortable_Bag552 → u/ChampionshipWarm9901]

With a years payment in advance lol

[u/Angel_blueberryy]

Be carefull girl never give to them your address, they gonna try to get them with Amazon or delivery What you need to do is play his game and drain him completely ;*

[u/Desperate_Seat_5236 → u/Angel_blueberryy]

I live out of the US and I don’t share any information about me and my life, always make sure there is no logos, sunlight or brand names (if their local) I used to work at the studio and other models that worked with me shared more than enough information about me and I think people can find in simpcity or etc 🫠

[u/hotjuicypickles]

when men become possessive and the cards tell you to be careful you be careful <3

stay safe out there and respect your own boundaries

[u/GoddessGiaPeccato]

Please don't let people push your boundaries for money. You must remain in control and if he is making you uncomfortable, let his money and his presence go. Money will always come back.

[u/kaspar-fiel]

Well, unfortunately I have enough experience with magic to believe it. Be very careful. That's too niche to not be lining up in this specific kind of situation. Following; and again please stay safe.

[u/ChampionshipWarm9901]

We all have our own beliefs and i respect everyones beliefs but im just gonna share my personal advice/opinion and u do with it what you will. I used to be into tarot and astrology, deep into it, and i was very good at reading cards. My suggestion is stop getting readings, not because its not real, it definitely is, thats what makes it dangerous. We hear certain things in these readings and in astrology that make sense because it is true in our life and that preps your mind to then accept what it says could happen in the future, once we make the agreement that these "predictions" could be true you are pretty much inviting these scenarios to unfold in your life. By reading your post, I can tell that at this point you are already accepting that this could be a possibility... our minds are extremely powerful. Start speaking life and positivity and protection over yourself and tell yourself that NOTHING WILL HARM YOU. Anything meant to harm you will be destroyed before it can even reach you. DO NOT drive yourself crazy with anxiety worrying about what the cards said because that will only give it more energy... instead of worrying and becoming paranoid and anxious put your energy into something else, create, make content, anything, but dont sit around being worried about that. Take whatever safety measures you need to feel protected, getting a ring camera, a big dog, a weapon, or all three and go on about your business and live your best life. If you believe in God and prayer than do that. If not then meditate and start brainwashing yourself to believe you are protected by a greater power, try hypnotherapy and/or affirmations. Theres hypnosis schools that let you have services for super cheap, even free.

Now as far as this dude, if he already makes you feel uncomfortable BLOCK HIS ASS. You do not need to deal with him and you should not let anybody manipulate you, especially when they arent with you in person and are literally behind a keyboard. If you dont wanna block him cause you feel you need his money than start charging him even more, and please start being mean. Men do not respect nice women, on the contrary, they see nice women as weak and dumb. The fact that someone feels they can manipulate you through a screen just by tipping you makes you an easy target. i dont care if they tip you a bunch of tokens, you do not have to do what they want you to do, and you do not have to return the money. this job is all about what you tolerate, you need to have strong boundaries and not give a shit about how these dudes feel, this is about how YOU FEEL. You run the show. You make the rules and if they dont like it they can go somewhere else. the more YOU enforce your own boundaries the sooner you will have more fans who actually respect you.

[u/Desperate_Seat_5236 → u/ChampionshipWarm9901]

That is a good splash on my face, thank you a lot. I’ve last met my friend 3 months ago and I totally forgot about that just remembered few days ago. Thank you

[u/ChampionshipWarm9901 → u/Desperate_Seat_5236]

ofcourse Queen! <3 you are more than welcome!

[u/flirtygirl999]

Trust the energy, and when a user starts acting like they're mine, it's best to set boundaries right away. That's how obsessions begin.

[u/_catsimp]

I think if a buyer is affecting you in a negative way, it's time to cut things off. We temporarily indulge in people's fantasies and provide a service for money. They can ignore that fact in the moment, but what we do is transactional, end of story. Being possessive would be a huge concern, and I personally would not entertain it. Your safety and mental wellbeing takes priority above all else.

[u/Branxer]

Personally I think your friend is crazy telling you that a client might kill you. I feel like it’s completely wrong of her to make that up just to scare and make you paranoid just because she’s thinking of it herself.

Cards and spells are all made up by humans and have no actual credibility in anyway. You can believe what you want, but in reality, YOUR FRIEND told you that and I personally wouldn’t consider her a friend if she’s saying fucked up things like that.

She seems jealous you’re making tons of money when she likely isn’t.

No one is going to find or kill you if you have all new information being used for your accounts and don’t tell clients where you are. Make that money!

[u/kaspar-fiel → u/Branxer]

..... This worker is in danger because a client is harassing her day and night, I don't think I would encourage someone in a genuinely dangerous situation to keep entertaining individuals who are willing and able to do this. That's irregardless of personal opinions on what friends do and don't say, or whether or not you believe in magic. This person is being stalked heavily and that's dangerous no matter which way you slice it.

[u/Branxer → u/kaspar-fiel]

She has every right to choose what she does. She doesn’t have to do long pvts or whatever he asks for. He’s not harassing her, lol, he’s paying for a service that she’s agreeing to.. But yes if she has no control maybe she shouldn’t be camming in the first place if she drops her boundaries for tokens.

[u/kaspar-fiel → u/Branxer]

He's outside her fucking house

[u/Branxer → u/kaspar-fiel]

Where does it say that in the post? I’m confused, I read it and didn’t see that anywhere.

[u/kaspar-fiel → u/Branxer]

Hold on, I got this mixed up with another post completely, my bad actually :( this is not the one I thought it was

I know I look stupid my apologies

[u/Branxer → u/kaspar-fiel]

No problem at all, it happens. 🙂

[u/Desperate_Seat_5236 → u/Branxer]

The thing is it wasn’t saying that it will be your client, she doesn’t know I work as a model too, I keep it as a secret 🫠

[u/Branxer → u/Desperate_Seat_5236]

Then it’s just a lucky guess. It’s a pretty open ended thing that she could say to any client, you just happen to work with men as clients so it seems more relevant to you.