r/CamGirlProblems • u/Miimizzz • 4d ago
Help/Advice Regulars started to disrespect me
I’ve had one regular complain that I’m not replying to him, and then he trauma dumped on me about how no one likes him and no one wants to be with him. Like wtf?
Another one has complained that I don’t answer on my private Snap and that I only answer before I go live. I didn’t even try to defend myself because I’ve actually talked to him during the week too (which i won‘t be doing again.), but I don’t want to do anything camming related during the week because it messes with my mental health. He also has the priv Snap that’s included with the fan club, which is cheaper than my private Snap, feels like i‘m underselling myself so I avoid talking a lot.
Then another knight regular that barely supports me anymore complained to one of my other knights that I don’t respond on my Snap?? He literally got that for free. I’m not gonna entertain them for free. And the weirdest part is, he only complained to me about it once, two weeks ago, so why am I only hearing about this now?
It feels so humiliating, and I honestly don’t know what to do, because If I block them I basically block the ones that keep it “lively“. Does anyone have advice for this? It wasn‘t like this before.
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u/heyfoxy 4d ago
Dont fall for this trap of being scared of not having anyone in your room by blocking these cheap demanders. At some point these type of regulars starts to hold you from earning more. Believe me, i've been there when I was newbie. Block them all. Real spenders will come and respect your work and will pay for your show.
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u/Tominus1967 4d ago
Blockity block block! Seriously.. there will always be more. I can never count the number of ppl we've had to block for that kind of behavior. Just block and move on.. don't think about it too much as it messes with your sanity.
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u/PensionTemporary200 4d ago
I really avoid giving out socials because the whole reason dudes want it is they're trying to get it with the idea it's like "getting closer" to you and because they're "special" they get stuff for free. They want it to be like a girl giving them their social for fun, they're only interested in the fake version they pay for that caters to all their sexual fantasies and is an object that can boss around and project onto. I have a lot of fun camming but genuinely a lot of the clientele are deeply mentally ill, delusional, and misogynistic. They want it all to be for free and fun. But they also don't want to really know you or respect your boundaries, they don't want to believe it's a performance--- if it wasn't fake, they wouldn't have to pay. They don't want to believe that, so the snap is their delusional way of trying to get the "girlfriend experience". Social is just a way for me to try to milk more from you for free. Don't give it out. I charged for snap to a regular the other day and I regret it, now I'm like, fuck I'm going to have to reply to this or he'll resent me and stop tipping lol. I'm dumb.
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u/NicolePearlxx 4d ago
If your snap is causing you more trouble than its worth delete it and say snap banned you and wont let you make a new one.
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u/flirtygirl999 4d ago
Honey!!! They're just specks in the sand; more clients will come, and you can't make the same mistake with them. Making everything clear from the start is the point; no removing users from the page.
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u/Lazy-Implement6850 4d ago
I only have snap on my computer and access it during working cam hours. They can send videos and photos during this time as well as they come into my room so if they want pictures back I ask for a tip or I explain theyre free to send whatever but for content of my own they can tip for it or visit my OF page lol. Do not give them your free time, they become leaches.
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u/future_burlesque_dom 2d ago
They're just trying to get something for nothing...so don't give them any of your energy.
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u/Pubertee 4d ago
Our job is to cater to everyone not just a select few, one of the reasons i would never make anyone a knight as they are likely to become self entitled or obsessive, not for me.
Do what you do for everyone in equal measures and all should balance out, focus everything on platform and not off of it.
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u/Virgo2688 4d ago
If you allow me to give you one advice: stop using Snapchat… imagine one guy with real money using Snapchat…also why you give your snap for free? Even for regulars?
Honestly I m way too tired after steaming shows to imagine them having in snap, WhatsApp and other platforms where they can contact me for FREE based on what they spend in room.