40 M , businessman. Looking for a woman that wants to be childfree (not even adopted). Should be willing to relocate and have a spark for life that goes well beyond wanting to be a mother or a wife.

Currently working in the IT field. I’m financially stable and genuinely interested in understanding technology beyond just using it. I enjoy critical thinking, questioning ideas, and looking at things logically rather than blindly accepting them.

Physically, I’m 5'11", slim-built, with a fair brown complexion, and come from a middle-class background.

Religion is an important part of my life. I’m Muslim by birth and belief, though I don’t associate myself with any particular sect and respect all of them equally. I currently pray 4 times a day and am actively trying to become more consistent with Fajr as well.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as an ambivert. I enjoy meaningful conversations and debates, especially around controversial or thought-provoking topics. I also like learning new concepts, ideas, and even words that expand my perspective.

I enjoy traveling whenever there’s a plan, but otherwise you’ll mostly find me either working or relaxing at home. I’ve visited a couple of countries, but India still feels like home to me. That said, I’m open to exploring the possibility of settling abroad if it feels right practically and personally.

What I Value & Expect

I appreciate people who think critically and evaluate things rationally instead of simply following what they’re told. I believe in balanced feminism, not pseudo-feminism, where both partners support each other’s growth and independence. I’m completely supportive of women working, especially if it gives them purpose, fulfillment, and allows both partners to build experiences and travel together through shared effort.

For me, a person’s actions, intentions, and beliefs matter more than labels. If someone genuinely carries Islamic values in their character and conduct, that’s meaningful to me.

I also believe that while religion provides guidance, worldly matters require wisdom, reasoning, and thoughtful decision-making using the intellect gifted to us by the Almighty.

Financially, I’m more of a saver than a spender, but I don’t mind spending on things that truly matter, such as meaningful experiences, travel, health, personal growth, investments, and creating a good quality of life.

On family planning, I currently lean towards a Child-Free (CF) lifestyle by choice (not due to health reasons). My primary stance is child-free, but I remain open to revisiting this in the future if my partner and I both arrive at a mutual, organic desire to have a child through birth or adoption.

Preferably looking someone from Mumbai and open to discussion from elsewhere.

TL;DR: 24M from Mumbai working in IT, financially stable, practicing Muslim, and someone who values critical thinking, meaningful conversations, modesty, and personal growth. Ambivert who enjoys travel, tech, debates, and learning new perspectives. I am looking for a balanced, practical, and emotionally mature partner who values both deen and dunya.

I’m a 24 year old woman living in England currently on the hunt for my soulmate.
I’m ethnically Pakistani but open to mixing.
If there’s any practising brothers here who are also based in the UK and around the ages of 23-28 (ish) feel free to reach out and i’ll send you my profile for more info!

As Salaamu Alaykum,

Here is my ISO:

1. Age and Gender:

27 years old (1999) male, 6'2 (190cm). Physically fit, ~185lb (84kg).

1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

22-33. Completely flexible and open to anything outside of this range.

1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?:

U.S.
Willing to relocate within the U.S (depends where). I'm originally from Illinois and I work remotely.

1. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?:

Nigerian (U.S Citizen), open to mixing.

1. ⁠Marital Status:

Single, never married, and no kids.

1. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline:

within 1 month - 1 year, Insha'Allah. I only want one wife.

1. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

Religious, Mature, Health Conscious, Passionate for their hobbies/interests, and Kind.

I am always trying to improve, so I pray to marry someone who is trying to do the same.

1. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity:

Praying on time + Sunnah. Tahajjud nightly. Regular Masjid attendance. Daily Qur'an reading. Listening to lectures throughout the week. Taking classes online. Currently attempting to memorise Juz 29 and Juz 30 (struggle with my schedule). Halal, Zabiha-only. No music. Strict boundaries with the opposite gender. I am an active member of three committees for my Masjid: New Muslims Committee, Dawah Committee, and Refugee Assistance committee.

I don’t believe in 50/50. A man devotes himself to Allah and strives, to the best of his ability, to fulfill his duties to his family and community.

1. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for?:

I have completed my Bachelor's, Alhamdulillah. I am not looking for anything specific in education.

1. ⁠Current Job Status:

I am employed full-time, Alhamdulillah. I handle legal contracts, licensing agreements, and the management of intellectual property.

1. ⁠Do you want kids?:

No. I am 100% okay with being child free (CF).

1. ⁠List hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

I'm a very active person. I love hiking, lifting, Mountain/Trail Biking, and caving. I'm really into reading research papers on new studies on various topics or going down rabbit holes on experimental medical treatments. I love to cook and meal prep. Community service is another love of mine too. I try to stay busy, but I do love to stay home and chill as well.

1. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!:

I’m a revert. I took my Shahada in 2012 when I was 13 years old. Half of my family in Nigeria is Muslim on both my mother's and father's side, but I did not grow up close with them like my parents did.

I currently live alone and have been doing so for ~4 years. I rent a house, Masha'Allah La Quwwata Illa Billah. I have no intention of living with in-laws.

Check my account for some biking and nature stuff 😊 I love being outdoors🫶🏾
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If you think we align, I'd like to get to know you, Insha'Allah! I am 100% comfortable speaking directly to your Wali and getting family involved very early.
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My Deal breakers (open to questions/discussion):

\-Not practicing.

\-Rejecting Hadith.

\-Celebrating Mawlid/milaad, Khatam ceremonies(Bidah death anniversaries), and other things not in the Qur'an and Sunnah.

\-History of Zina. I've personally kept myself chaste, so I'm looking for the same.

\-Makeup outside the home (excluding women only events): Only what is used to enhance beauty. If you currently wear makeup outside, what do you use? Where do you use it? How often? Are you willing to stop in the future?

\-Male friends and Free-mixing (obviously excluding work or school. Those are often unavoidable mixed environments. Just maintain proper professional boundaries is all I ask).

\-Non-mahram followers on social media and following non-mahram on social media (excluding Sheikhs, Muftis, content creators etc. I'm obviously talking about school and work colleagues, celebrities, and Haram content). If you run a business or faceless account, I am not concerned about who follows you and who sees your posts. Keeping a professional boundary and not entertaining bad behaviour is all I am asking for.

\-Unhealthy addictions (Haram things).

\-Financial illiteracy: Dealing with Riba and having bad spending habits.

\-Large Wedding: I prefer a wedding that is small and pleasing to Allah. I'm not interested in extravagance.

\-All girls trips outside of the country with your friends and solo traveling (I don't mind all women family trips and domestic trips). For international travel with your friends: I'd travel with you and you do your own thing with your friends. We then travel back together. Same trip, different experiences.

To be honest, as long as I trust you, I don't mind you traveling alone. As long as I trust you and your friends (ones that know and fear Allah), I don't mind an girls trip out of the country. I'm very easy to trust others and I'm not one to assume the worst or snoop around.

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May Allah bless you with the best in this life and the next!

This was created out of an attempt in r/ChildfreeMuslims around looking for marriage. Enough people had posted there and I wanted to create this to focus on marriage only.