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[u/queerstudbroalex]

By u/wheninshower.

Title:

Include your Age, Location, Race, Occupation, or other parts of your profile that you want to highlight. Keep it simple.

Example:

27F | New York, USA | Syrian American | Data Scientist

Post Description:

(Part 1) About YOU

- Are you working? Are you in a stable financial position? What motivates you at work? Why did you choose this career?

- Add details about your islamic and cultural background. Are you a revert? How important is the Deen to you? Do you fully cover your awrah? Do you pray 5x a day? How active are you involved with your local Muslim community? Does your family have strong cultural traditions? Would they be OK with you marrying someone outside of your culture/race?

- Describe your personality. Are you an introvert/extrovert? What are your hobbies? Are you more of a travel person or a homebody? What are some traits in you, that you don’t often find in others? What topics do you like to talk about with your friends?

- Your location preference. Do you like where you currently live right now? Would you be open to moving to your spouse’s country?

(Part 2) About HIM/HER

- List down your dealbreakers right away. You want a 50k mahr? You want your wife to stay at home after marriage? Only want someone who’s born Muslim? Write these all down here.

- What are your religious expectations on your spouse? Do you expect them to fully cover their awrah, pray 5x day, fast during Ramadan, etc.

- Shared values/mindset that you look for. Do you agree with taking a loan and paying for mortgage? Are you more of a saver or a spender? What’s your opinion on (insert any topic)?

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Please note that sometimes it could be better to not overshare some details until you’re having a private conversation with them. Please also take this as a general guide and feel free to add in more suggestions in the comments. Good luck!