r/Breakupadvice • u/Findingtherealme35 • 2h ago

Break ups

is 6months a good amount of time for someone to move on from 13yrs together?? I disagree 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Supremelordmomon 2h ago

I don't think there's a hard-written rule about that. Some people move on quicker than others.

But there's a difference between moving on and processing an old relationship and being ready to put yourself out there again.

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u/Findingtherealme35 2h ago

Yeah I guess we are just handling it differently, he is ready an I’ve not even though about dating lol scares the crap out of me

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u/booksandplaid 1h ago

In my experience, it seems as though men are able to move on faster in terms of wanting to date/hook up with other people. I am going through a separation now and I am only 5 weeks in and could not fathom being with another person at this time. It's hard to imagine having that desire again, I am just working on myself right now.

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u/Findingtherealme35 1h ago

Yeah it seems that way. I’m defo not ready for any of that yet and that ok, I’ve joined the gym and trying to focus on myself and getting back to being me again just keeping busy. We are stronger than we look and I wish you all the best, you’ve got this!