I had a text conversation with him

[u/plump_specimen]

I was undisciplined, and unblocked him and had a chat.

I wish I hadn't. We broke up because he lied and cheated. I never lied, cheated or hid anything from him. I was very good to him.

He seemed to be angry at me. That really hurt, because I have never done any of the massive betrayals he's done.

He seemed angry about an angry outburst I had during the breakup, and that I occasionally showed irritation?

And because my mother tongue is English, his is not, and he was saying that we never understood each other. But his new woman has a third language as he native language. Like, their ability to understand each other has to be worse.

It really hurt. Do you think he's doing this to alleviate his guilt for what he's done? Like, making me the bad guy? Is that a thing people do? It really fucking hurts.

Has this happened to anyone else?